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Joined: 7/11/2009
Msg: 51
Dumped via facebookPage 3 of 4    (1, 2, 3, 4)
Don't do FaceBook. I just don't feel that damned important like everyone else...
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 54
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/8/2012 2:42:28 PM

We started seeing each other in November last year.

Ahhh yes the November relationships. That way she covered Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years and Valentines Day........Just wondering did she have a birthday during this time?

Studies have been done on this, some women will find a "meaningful relationship" during this time and then end them before the summer.

That way they won't feel alone during the holidays then they move along to find a more suitable companion.

Women who do this have no real feelings for their "mate" they just do it so they won't feel alone at a time when they normally have many public and private functions to go to.
Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 56
view profile
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/8/2012 5:05:43 PM

no, she dumped me the day before

So you already knew you were single?
Joined: 4/1/2012
Msg: 57
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/8/2012 5:08:30 PM
i don't see how somebody can be so hurtful. that is just mean.
Joined: 4/4/2012
Msg: 58
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/8/2012 11:18:30 PM
Shows her age, i'm sure nobody even cared about how glad she was to be single.
Joined: 6/14/2011
Msg: 59
view profile
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/8/2012 11:35:50 PM
Crackbook. Gak.

If I had an account I'd check it to see how I was feeling right now...

Joined: 3/12/2011
Msg: 60
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/9/2012 12:35:56 AM
I broke up with my ex like that because she wouldn't answer her phone.
Joined: 1/7/2012
Msg: 61
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/9/2012 2:06:16 AM
Op,do you mean that she dumped you the day before on FaceAche but you didnt see that til the next day?
Whatever her reasons are *i* think its a very lame,cowardly way to end things with someone.

Your Thread is certainly attracting some diverse opinions!
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 62
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/9/2012 2:06:52 AM
maybe this doesn't matter but i'm wondering, why did you have to text to ask her when you can call? i mean if you and her had a personal relationship, why couldn't you just call her anytime you wanted?
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 63
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/9/2012 7:04:53 AM
Lacks class. Its actually a good thing the relationship is over.
Ugh. I am so 90's. Am I the only one?
Joined: 2/16/2012
Msg: 65
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/9/2012 8:27:14 AM
iface is a bad place to air ones life. I'm just sayin.
Joined: 12/6/2011
Msg: 66
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/9/2012 9:10:05 AM
Children and the games they play!
Joined: 3/20/2012
Msg: 67
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/9/2012 11:29:43 AM
Coward's tactic, plain and simple. Embrassing. >:(
Joined: 6/24/2010
Msg: 68
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/10/2012 8:11:22 PM
Nope; a letter would have taken too much effort in the old days!
Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 70
view profile
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/11/2012 3:10:13 AM
A very childish thing to do posting a breakup on facebook, hell a text would have been better than publically humilating someone, be glad you are rid of her, who wants to be associated with someone who can't act like a responsible adult.
Joined: 4/7/2012
Msg: 71
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/11/2012 3:44:02 AM
Was the reason behind the impending break up had to do with your presence in PoF while still in a relationship with her? "Just sayin'"
Joined: 4/7/2012
Msg: 72
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/11/2012 3:44:45 AM
I find it quite amusing that not a few days after the break up, he was on here posting, lest he was here all along?
 jt guy
Joined: 12/24/2008
Msg: 75
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/11/2012 10:14:11 AM
To coin a phrase by Roy Clark......Thank God and Facebook she is gone. To the other posters who say she was a coward. I think it is the easy way for people now. They are in a hurry for the next date and they want to move on as fast as possible. She traded up, to a newer, better model, with maybe less miles. Buy people like her enough gasoline to get out of town with.
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 76
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/11/2012 11:47:45 AM
DadGUMMIT! Gwen! Now THAT freaking song will be stuck in my head all day!
Actually it was a Korean War conflict...and I know the song well because 2 cousins in the musical branch of the family used to sing it.
At least THAT letter was private...

I have a FB account/page but I cannot even begin to imagine putting personal stuff like love life issues on it. WTH??

There was also a Vietnam era song "Billy and Sue"-in which the recipient leaped to his feet upon reading "Dear John"-into the line of enemy fire, and "they shot him dead"...

OP, I'm not going to pick you, your ex, your relationship or Facebook apart-it sounds like you both acted badly and Facebook simply provided a means to publish the matter.
Cindy O
Joined: 3/19/2012
Msg: 77
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/11/2012 12:02:29 PM

I got home late laast night expecting to have a make or break phonecall with the then girlfriend only to find it spashed all over facebook how glad she was to be single again.

well, apparently it wasn't a make or break phonecall (apparently you were expecting it from her rather than you expecting to MAKE a make or break phonecall); it was a break status update... :)

at least you were half right... sounds like she assumed you knew already... at least it wasn't text... or LITERAL breakup via facebook. would have been worse if she had done the speech publicly; rather than showing moving on...

(though I will admit it is a tad snarky; but agree with others though it sounds like there is more to the story, maybe?)
Joined: 5/6/2010
Msg: 78
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/11/2012 5:25:49 PM
I have never understood people who put their "business" all over facebook.
Joined: 3/31/2012
Msg: 79
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/11/2012 7:44:57 PM
I was dumped in a text message...he just erased me from his life after 14 months...
Time to move on and find someone better..who deserves time for that kinda
Good luck everyone...
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 80
Dumped via facebook
Posted: 4/11/2012 10:12:30 PM
I was recently dumped through a paragraph long text message. No phonecall, no face to face break up... just a text. I felt insulted but then I had to remind myself that this is a period in time where you are quicker to find something out from facebook than someone actually calling to tell you smh.
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