On the other hand, there is a major pitfall that one must be careful to avoid. There was a girl... a museum curator, who had charge of a very interesting collection. She wasn't extraordinarily pretty but prettier than my wife. She took a liking to me and I to her because she was a pleasant and interesting person. We would have sex and a long convo every week. My wife didn't like it. My wife didn't mind my having sex with the museum girl or anyone else. It was that the museum girl and I hit it off so well personally that made her mad. That can happen easily among swingers because they are such nice and decent people.
Is another one is the pitfalls that you can wind up divorced?