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 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 76
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No Way! Not pointless. I only tryed it once I know for sure, probably a few times. It's good excercise for the imagination, and can get you worked up, if you let it. It helps get you in the mood
 2loverskissed
Joined: 6/9/2011
Msg: 77
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 6/16/2011 9:05:25 PM
No I had a guy that I talked to for a very long time, and then he decided to do cyber sex, so i figured why not, I was busy checking my mail and ever so often he would whine and you ok. As if I wanted to hear any of it. But I let him get his little bit of hard on and he came and said I am floating. did you ever hear of such crap. then he just blocked me so be careful ladies who you have cyber sex with.
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 78
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/25/2012 8:24:09 PM
its just like phone sex, but with phone sex, becareful you wont get hearing aids
 damsel19
Joined: 2/22/2012
Msg: 79
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/25/2012 11:01:10 PM
Crayola was probably not real, is not interested or got too many sleazies.

 damsel19
Joined: 2/22/2012
Msg: 80
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/25/2012 11:04:32 PM
Long distance relationship?? Another month before you meet? How is that going to work out?? I can see why you are on here and leaving your options open. I dont think you have a relationship really.. But you are certainly vitriolic and I think buttons have been pressed.
 Darkbutcomely
Joined: 4/20/2011
Msg: 81
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/26/2012 5:54:12 PM
It like showing a tv dinner to a starving man. Waste of time and energy.
 rec_diver
Joined: 11/13/2011
Msg: 82
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/26/2012 6:51:32 PM
2loverskissed: No I had a guy that I talked to for a very long time, and then he decided to do cyber sex, so i figured why not, I was busy checking my mail and ever so often he would whine and you ok. As if I wanted to hear any of it. But I let him get his little bit of hard on and he came and said I am floating. did you ever hear of such crap. then he just blocked me so be careful ladies who you have cyber sex with


This is the second post in a row that I read and I was left shaking my head in confusion and wondering if it's me or the people that wrote these two posts that are responsible for the lack of comprehension.

I am seriously hoping it's not me because if it is I'm thinking degenerative brain disease and I don't carry disability insurance.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 83
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/26/2012 9:01:03 PM
it is so pointless

It's more fun than watching TV.
 damsel19
Joined: 2/22/2012
Msg: 84
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/26/2012 10:32:59 PM
2loverskissed


I dont get the "whine and you ok" comment either. Dont people reread what they have written? What does it matter who you cybersex with, you cant get pregnant for God's sake so why the warning??? It is only cyberspace. He blocked because he got bored and so what?? Not a crime.
 Lupe8
Joined: 2/27/2012
Msg: 85
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/26/2012 10:43:37 PM
I don't think it's pointless, but after a while it will lose its edge. Once you first meet someone though it's a good way to kind of gage what they like, how high their sex drive is, and what they're comfortable with, all without pushing them past their comfort zone in the process. I dated a girl that we did that very early in the relationship to test the waters
 Spaz_Taztic
Joined: 3/18/2011
Msg: 86
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/26/2012 11:39:31 PM
Cyber sex is pointless but I view it as an exercise of creativity and imagination. I know it may sound a bit immature and childish but there is a bit more then you think. You can express idea's and imaginations that some times may not be possible where you stand in reality. For example, a couple wants to do bondage, crazy stuff, but wouldn't consider it in reality or some other reason. They live it out through a story of sorts. Do you understand where I'm coming from?
 Elgalawaat
Joined: 11/24/2008
Msg: 87
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/27/2012 2:17:45 AM
Because they are Lunatics, Lonely. Also cyber sex is safe and cheap. You don't have to buy dinner or bottle of wine.
 BehinDarkBluEyes
Joined: 1/16/2012
Msg: 88
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/27/2012 3:06:15 AM
The mind is the most stimulating organ that we have as humans. And IF stimulated right the rest of the body has no choice but to follow in it's level of arrousement.

I use to once thing like some of you do and have the narrow mind and say oh it's pointless. Until one day I was out of town on business and talking to my ex on skype and it was late and she more less just started sharing thoughts as did I, and I said oh, now I get it as my hands had company on the keyboard lol.


All I know is if it's a bad thing or whatever some may think of it, there's literally millions of people who do it studies have shown lol. Good looking, non good looking, older, younger, yeah.
 BehinDarkBluEyes
Joined: 1/16/2012
Msg: 89
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/27/2012 3:11:47 AM
Another thing is, why would anyone even judge those who do it or don't do it? There's things that you do or don't do that people wouldn't agree with either lol. What difference does it make in your life what they do. Live and let live ;)

If someone enjoys it good for them, if not, good for them also *shrugs*
 ted61
Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 90
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/27/2012 12:01:04 PM
Point is, sex is sex. Love is love. If you are just looking to get off, but enjoy the extra spice of the mental interaction with a cyber partner. Without the complications of a regular relationship, whats the harm? After all, the brain is the primary sex organ.

To the people who say only unattractive people would have cyber sex, surely you are aware that even extreemly attractive people masturbate. And cyber sex IS masturbation.
 MsBeave
Joined: 11/8/2010
Msg: 91
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/27/2012 12:16:14 PM
Mutual masturbation can be pretty satisfying with the right person. I've had cyber, phone and cam sex at different periods in my life. It provided me with an intimacy I couldn't get from masturbating to porn.

I have an awesome sex life, partly because I experiment with cerebral sex. I learned what men are really thinking, what they really desire and what turns them off.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 92
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/27/2012 12:58:37 PM
I can understand long distance
like phone sex used to be
but...
the other day, I was at the doctors office, and there was a couple,who where texting,
for at least an hour!
it was weird
I have a lot of funny stories about people texting
 MrDubStep
Joined: 3/19/2012
Msg: 93
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/27/2012 2:24:42 PM
Cyber sex Is there for those that have a wild Imagination.
Like myself I enjoy a sexual conversation once and awhile and with out a doubt can get myself off. I'm not really a huge fan of It but every once In awhile you gotta switch up your routine.
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 94
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 3/28/2012 5:20:59 PM
it shows your creative side with words and gets ideas going.
well the juices flowing so to speak ;)
nothing wrong with it, its interseting to see what people come up with
 easygoing2000
Joined: 10/28/2008
Msg: 95
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 4/28/2012 1:24:45 AM
So hot to hear you talk like that!!
 JCeeDee
Joined: 1/13/2012
Msg: 96
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 4/28/2012 1:28:53 AM
i dont get anything out of it, Id rather just rub one off while thinking up my own fantasy about her lol.
 neck romancer
Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 97
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 4/28/2012 2:21:29 AM
is camming part of cyber sex? if so I like that!
 Tallyh0e
Joined: 2/8/2012
Msg: 98
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 4/28/2012 2:22:58 AM
Careful, too much phone sex and you'll get hearing aids.
 Elgalawaat
Joined: 11/24/2008
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 4/28/2012 2:33:38 AM
It is pointless to me and just waste of time. Same thing phone sex for me What a waste.
 ariat82
Joined: 4/9/2012
Msg: 100
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 4/28/2012 1:22:47 PM
OMG Ninja you are funny! LMFAO!
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