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 made.in.china
Joined: 4/28/2012
Msg: 297
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I understand where you're coming from as you feel a bit insulted because you'd thought they want to meet you based on your personailty, and i guess thats pretty important to alotta women. however, they are guys, dont think you need to read too much into it. "you're hot" is prob something they said like when a woman says, "omg that is so cute" lol plus, to be completely fair, you dont technically have the "right to get mad" at them or feel negatively regarding how they interact with you. you guys arent dating, nor he has the obligation to make you understand what he mean... lol
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 298
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/3/2012 12:01:48 AM
its dificult as most r pervs who want sex but ver mayb a suitable man who wants altr n u just hapen 2 b hot in his eyes n he wasnts 2 let u know he wants u- analyse n dig deeper via ems 2 assess, gl.
 Daskate
Joined: 12/15/2011
Msg: 299
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/3/2012 5:26:29 AM
I guess with all the backlash from being called Hot, POF should remove the "Hottest Girls" feature.
 dashenka4
Joined: 4/4/2011
Msg: 300
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/3/2012 5:36:39 AM
What is wrong with him indicating that he finds you sexualy attractive????????
 thepigofyourdreams
Joined: 2/23/2012
Msg: 301
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/3/2012 5:54:23 AM
I guess with all the backlash from being called Hot, POF should remove the "Hottest Girls" feature.


Shhhhh. Don't give the shrews of POF any ideas. They'll be demanding it be changed to something like "Most Exquisite Gems of the Female Variety".

Oh, and Dashenka4, you are hot.
 Fleuron
Joined: 8/18/2010
Msg: 302
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/3/2012 6:18:27 AM
Some women are expressing the opinion that it’s juvenile and unoriginal and disrespectful and lame.

Others don’t care. There’s your dating pool.

You don’t have to get nasty and name calling over it…the world ain’t gonna end.
 thepigofyourdreams
Joined: 2/23/2012
Msg: 303
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/3/2012 10:41:30 AM
Fascinating.

I'd venture to say it won't come to a screeching halt over my sarcastic posts, either.

It would surely be hot if it did, though.
 lilfishwish
Joined: 1/7/2012
Msg: 304
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/3/2012 10:59:44 AM
seriously...you need to lighten up...I'm sure the man does not mean any disrespect...wants to compliment you actually...it is his way of saying...hey...you are a babe
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 305
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/3/2012 11:04:38 AM
Oh my God....that's Hot.....
 1atAtimePLS
Joined: 4/26/2012
Msg: 306
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/3/2012 4:14:51 PM
Lmao Good shit
If they say your hot from a pic then think what they will say when they meet you duh!!!
 ThusSpokeZarathustra
Joined: 4/24/2012
Msg: 310
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/5/2012 6:01:53 PM
I'm guessing that some of these ladies who are offended by the "you are hot" messages are not as worried about the content of the message as they are worried about the prospects of dating a visually impaired man.
 Rob3444
Joined: 11/14/2011
Msg: 311
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/5/2012 8:38:22 PM

I'm guessing that some of these ladies who are offended by the "you are hot" messages are not as worried about the content of the message as they are worried about the prospects of dating a visually impaired man.


This is where I say the hell with political correctness and admit that is so funny!

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Lets face it some are deluded and some faking like a reverse orgasm and wishing their alarm clock din't ring but just repeated "you are hot" over and over. Imagine the worn out snooze buttons.
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How long will the notorious "You are hot" post go on? years?

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I can't even sleep because what if I wake up to a perfectly normal day and a woman walking down the street says "you are hot" to me? I would have to call the police.
 smashingmayo
Joined: 7/10/2011
Msg: 312
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/6/2012 3:15:16 AM
I want to date mainly 18-21 yos and someoen recently told me to just send them emssages saying "ur hot" and they will respond. lol
 gtsonline
Joined: 3/27/2012
Msg: 313
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/6/2012 4:14:30 PM
YOU are definately NOT hot
 gtsonline
Joined: 3/27/2012
Msg: 314
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/6/2012 4:15:06 PM
YOU are definately NOT hot
 ThusSpokeZarathustra
Joined: 4/24/2012
Msg: 315
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/7/2012 4:38:22 PM

Some women are expressing the opinion that it’s juvenile and unoriginal and disrespectful and lame.

Others don’t care. There’s your dating pool.

You don’t have to get nasty and name calling over it…the world ain’t gonna end


From the same poster who said;


Wee penises are funny, especially when attached to huge egos.

I would have texted back, ‘Where’s the rest of it?’
 FUNNYGIRLoo
Joined: 2/14/2012
Msg: 316
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/7/2012 4:48:57 PM
I just tell them thank you.
 Fleuron
Joined: 8/18/2010
Msg: 317
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/7/2012 5:11:40 PM
ThusSpokeZarathustra : Point? Besides you know how to use quote boxes?

Follow the thread. You’ll get it eventually.
 905girlie
Joined: 7/2/2009
Msg: 318
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/7/2012 5:21:49 PM
+1

It used to make me feel awkward getting those types of compliments. I think it's just the wording but I've learned to just to accept them and say thank you. A few years from now I'll be wishing for those compliments once they stop :)

Take it as it is.
 daybreaker01
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 319
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/7/2012 11:49:45 PM
Guys who come out of the gate and say that are just looking to get laid. Any decent guy should be able to come up with something more appropriate if he were actually looking to get to know you better.... from the neck up, that is. :-)
 thepigofyourdreams
Joined: 2/23/2012
Msg: 320
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/8/2012 12:48:29 AM

husSpokeZarathustra : Point? Besides you know how to use quote boxes?

Follow the thread. You’ll get it eventually.


He made his point.

You'll get it eventually.
 DVF138
Joined: 10/30/2011
Msg: 321
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You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/8/2012 4:11:48 AM
lol @ Kegel exercises being mentioned.

This thread is now complete.
 tonyfamilyguy
Joined: 1/28/2008
Msg: 322
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You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/8/2012 7:05:32 AM
How would you feel about the statement, "You'll do!"?
 TTM315
Joined: 4/2/2012
Msg: 323
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/8/2012 9:33:02 AM
I certainly don't consdier myself "Hot" but I get it all the time. At my age,49, I think it comes from men who want one thing,sex. Any man that truly wants a relationship will not use "HOT",he will be a gentleman,he will respect you and care for your feelings. It may be ok for the younger girls but not for a mature woman who is looking for a relationship. And I honestly don't think it is good for them either. A man should want you for you.It may feel good to be "HOT" for the moment but sooner or later you will see what he really wants you for and then sorry, but all single women I known have it happen,you feel bad because he only wants you for your "HOTNESS"!!! As great as it may feel to have him say you are "Hot" it will feel worse when he lets you know he only wants you for that one thing and it will happen. Hot degrades to sex,only sex. I agree with you Anita,in my mind he is out if he mentions HOT before he even knows me. I believe that this whole subject reflects maturity and respect for us as women....
 BeeRad82
Joined: 1/27/2012
Msg: 324
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/8/2012 9:39:05 AM
Pffffttttttt... the only opening I respond to.
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