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 Choporis
Joined: 6/25/2012
Msg: 971
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If someone you started to chat/text whatever, and after a while before you meet them they will say You Are Hot do you think they are break dealers


It's a deal breaker if they didn't tell me I am hot :^)
( Jokingly of course... )

Just take the damn compliment, and enjoy life.
 drc57745
Joined: 3/23/2012
Msg: 972
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 7/28/2012 7:40:56 PM
hard to say, he could mean that as a sexual come-on, or he could just be playfully flirting
 FATHERFISH
Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 973
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You are Hot!!!
Posted: 7/29/2012 9:20:31 AM
isn't it wonderful that so many of us can still feel that way, at this age ?

Wonderful, yes, also frustrating having the passions of an adolescent in the body of an ancient.
 FATHERFISH
Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 974
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You are Hot!!!
Posted: 7/29/2012 9:23:01 AM
stop talking to the dudes still discovering fire and painting on cave walls


NICE! Very well put.
 Maggie__x
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 977
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 7/29/2012 10:13:14 PM
I like when they say you are beautiful and gorgeous. Then it turns into sexy and hot, then it turns into a night of regrets hahaha
 mateforlife1958
Joined: 1/20/2012
Msg: 978
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 7/29/2012 10:41:23 PM
Very well put

A mind that see's with clarity is a beautiful thing.
 HiHeelsLover
Joined: 7/13/2012
Msg: 979
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 7/30/2012 9:38:21 AM

like most women today you fogotton how to take a compliment. if he called you ugly fat, that better?. take as way that he finds you attractive, thank him, instead of it coming across your insulted, to stuck up(thats how it comes across) women ask how they on thier own, read/look and learn ladies!!!


if you are hot or sexy is a compliment I DARE ANY MAN ON HERE WHO THINKS SO to tell his buddy WOW your wife is sexy. Or walk up to a perfect stranger and tell him dude you girl is HOT. Then when you get out of the hospital tell how women are being too damn sensitive .
 arkycountrygirl1
Joined: 7/5/2012
Msg: 980
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 7/30/2012 10:18:46 AM
Personally telling a woman "your hot" tends to get taken as I wanna have sex. Men...get a bit more articulated! Women like to hear:
you're beautiful, cute, pretty, even sexy can be said, there's many more out there that aren't worded slang.
I assumeS when they say that to me that they aren't even discussing anything but sex and the track record of me still responding to them after saying thank you usually runs to sexual comments next. So men change your words, save "your hot" for after we meet you in person and something actually sparks between both of you. I've recently been speaking to men who say the lines I pointed out above and it's very appreciative and the conversations are wonderful! I
 Maggie__x
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 981
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 7/30/2012 10:28:38 AM
For some reason I have a ton of sex appeal that I find hard to tame so sexy makes me feel like you want to hit it
 _mr_brown
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 982
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You are Hot!!!
Posted: 7/30/2012 10:47:27 AM
i would be flattered if some guy told me my gf was hot....
 alexvanlee
Joined: 7/25/2012
Msg: 983
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 7/30/2012 10:12:57 PM
they're an idiot...

if you ever marry this person i can guarantee divorce
 andy1961
Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 984
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You are Hot!!!
Posted: 7/31/2012 1:31:31 AM
if you are hot or sexy is a compliment I DARE ANY MAN ON HERE WHO THINKS SO to tell his buddy WOW your wife is sexy. Or walk up to a perfect stranger and tell him dude you girl is HOT. Then when you get out of the hospital tell how women are being too damn sensitive .


Dear oh dear! Apart from completely missing the point, what a load of nonsense you're writing here anyway.

The OP's original post to start this thread was about the terminology "Hot" being used in messages on dating sites or through texting.


i would be flattered if some guy told me my gf was hot....


Well I suppose it would depend on the circumstances and who the guy was, but yes, on the whole it should be flattering. If on the other hand a genuine friend tells you your wife or girlfriend is hot, beautiful, very attractive or whatever, then of course it's a compliment that should be taken the way it's intended.
It's all about intelligence - only a complete KNUCKLEHEAD would hospitalise another human being, particularly a friend, for paying a woman a compliment.
 surfaceofficer
Joined: 8/8/2011
Msg: 985
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 7/31/2012 1:41:33 AM
I don't call women sexy or hot, but...ladies...

In the name of all that is holy, PLEASE stop calling us 'sweet'. That is NOT a compliment. Save that malarkey for men you've already sentenced to the 'friend zone' and your go-to-gay. I just want to perform a flying judo chop on women who call me that.
 strolly10
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 986
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 7/31/2012 9:16:33 PM
You stop talking to someone because they let you know their attracted to you? Maybe you should post it on your profile that your attracted to men that wont ever try to compliment you or show any interest. This makes no sense to me at all. good luck.
 Worbug
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 987
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partyon
Posted: 8/1/2012 10:37:24 AM
Did not read al post, just the first and last pages. As far as the OP delima, YOU should chalk it up to, some men will say anything to other posters get laid, at least in your case.

Why is it, that most of the women on here complaining about men objectifying them, are never "All That" at all and the female posters that seem to be more grounded are the ones that are in fact, actually the "Hot" ones (i.e. PP in SC).

I think most that complain about such things are actually not recieving the accolades the desire so much and try in a desperate attempt to convince the rest they, indeed, are deserving of such, all the while protesting.
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