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Joined: 4/8/2012
Msg: 171
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^^Yup I think it kind of goes back to that old saw about a lot of women not getting any real life attention but on here with a couple of pics suddenly they're the May Queen and that's flattering to them. And I swear huge numbers of men just sit and email every woman in their area with "U R HOT!!!"
The men on here write dozens of threads about being judged on equally superficial criteria then everyone complains that they can't get dates. Then we get hundreds of angry posts about how fake people are on here with all the wrong values etc. etc. etc.
Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 172
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/21/2012 8:39:21 AM
Totally agree with her post also!!...Quit freaking analyzing the meaning of "your hot"!.....Sure, some are out for only one thing and have the writing skills and vocabulary of a cave man but chill out!!....It's a compliment, doesn't mean you are hot in everything about you, that's your call!......For me in the past, I have sent an email to someone far far away or close by with no intentions or wanting for her to write back, that I loved her profile and complimented to her what was attractive to me......Damn the men that write to some women with a compliment!....From now on for some women, when any man writes to you, I would probably block them because they were flirting with you etc
Joined: 10/31/2010
Msg: 173
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You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/21/2012 2:57:10 PM
"No one is SAYING that because a man tells you you're hot,you are in anyway obligated to "spread good and wide for guys"!Or,that sex is ALL they want from you! That's what YOU read into it based on your own issues!
Stop projecting you fears onto innocent men you simply don't find attractive enough to take the compliment from!"

OMG your first sentence is HILARIOUS!

I could not have said it better.
Joined: 4/14/2012
Msg: 174
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/21/2012 3:02:28 PM
Personally, I don't like being told I'm not - essentially because it has a sexual connotation, and it's unwelcome from someone who is not in a relationship with me. I find it impertinent - different culture, though. I'm not from these shores... :)
Joined: 2/2/2012
Msg: 175
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/21/2012 3:04:24 PM

Get a lot of attention on here and in real life...Any compliment is acknowledged, I smile & say thanks... Makes the days go more easily than being an uptight vinegar-puss...

I get a lot of attention IRL also, but knowing when a guy is being sincere and being FOS is important and hopefully you can tell the difference. Being an uptight vinegar-puss is not the same thing as just ignoring or blocking the fools who do this.....
Joined: 2/23/2012
Msg: 176
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/21/2012 3:05:21 PM
^ Sorry, Zunflower. You ARE hot, and that's a bad ass dress you're wearing in your second photo.
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 177
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/21/2012 4:53:41 PM

Guys, I have a problem here. I want your opinion men and women. If someone you started to chat/text whatever, and after a while before you meet them they will say You Are Hot do you think they are break dealers. I find very insulting and I stop contacting them. Thank you

I wouldnt say its a deal breaker. But it is innapropriate, in the sense that it lacks class. There are many ways invented since the dawn of time to compliment the beauty of a lady. "U R HOT" reeks of the same language as a 9 y old....
Joined: 6/5/2011
Msg: 178
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/21/2012 6:08:04 PM
I just clicked the mental "Like" button on this one...Well said nmh
Joined: 12/12/2010
Msg: 179
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/22/2012 8:11:28 AM
Get uglier. It will solve a lot of your problems.
Joined: 6/24/2011
Msg: 181
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/22/2012 7:48:47 PM
Hahahahahah. That was just awesome. I was thinking the same thing.
Joined: 4/11/2009
Msg: 183
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/22/2012 8:49:36 PM

Oh my GOSH!! I KNOW I'm hot!!! Sadly, it's called M E N O P A U S E.

OMG is right. All this time I thought you were a guy. I assumed it was Mark. The picture didn't help me much since it is invisable. But now that I know you are a woman with no picture. YOU'RE HOT!
Joined: 2/16/2012
Msg: 184
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/22/2012 9:05:29 PM

. perhaps when I'm 60 and someone says "you're hot" I might think differently.... somehow I doubt it though!

What's 60? Your idea of so desparate that what you now find repugnant will now be acceptable for your pathetic ego?

Joined: 7/11/2011
Msg: 186
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/22/2012 9:28:31 PM
Just read the first page of comments and LOL

Attacking the OP because some guys said "You're hot" lol
Joined: 1/27/2012
Msg: 187
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You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/22/2012 11:27:38 PM
to all the female posters above U R ALL SMOKIN HOT,completly do able
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 188
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You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/23/2012 7:14:38 AM
So if they say "you're a dog" do they get a date?
Joined: 2/16/2012
Msg: 191
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/23/2012 9:17:18 AM
Now I want someone to send me a "u r hawt" message so I can reply with "dude"
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 192
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/23/2012 10:08:19 AM

Now I want someone to send me a "u r hawt" message so I can reply with "dude"

U awr Hot, gurl. Wan f*ck 2-nite?

Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 193
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You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/23/2012 10:57:52 AM


Now I want someone to send me a "u r hawt" message so I can reply with "dude"

Well, I tried, but one or more of your 10,000 email restrictions blocked me.
Joined: 2/23/2012
Msg: 195
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/23/2012 11:32:17 AM

What does it mean HAWT?

Something totally different than "hot", Anita. You would not find it offensive at all. I promise.
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 196
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/23/2012 12:17:16 PM
Its a compliment....why would it be a deal breaker?
Joined: 2/23/2012
Msg: 198
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/23/2012 1:16:23 PM
wow, what a thread...

first of all, nothing wrong with one person giving another a compliment... whether they say pretty, beautiful, attractive or hot, that's just the way they express it... u can take the compliment or leave it, but hardly seems like something insulting? or do u assume immediately that there are some sexual undertones to any kind of compliment from a man?

that would seem to mean that u either have issues with accepting compliments... either u feel above others and in no need for compliments, or u have a skewed vision of men as these sex-crazed animals... in both cases, it would seem pretty ignorant...

and just to mention some of the comments earlier... from women that being called hot being grounds for sexual harassment or that men saying "u're hot" meaning only one thing, which is of course sex.... u're accusing men of being permanently fixated on sex, and not giving anyone the benefit of a doubt... that's a pretty gross generalization, and perhaps it point to the fact that it is YOU that is obsessed with sex and looking for things that are simply not there... a good suggestion would be to get over yourself and not think that men are so smitten by your stupendous attractiveness, and come back to the real world... some people, in fact most people, don't have any problem with giving each other compliments or receiving them...
Joined: 2/20/2012
Msg: 201
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/23/2012 4:29:33 PM
you are very hot 11 out of 10
Joined: 2/20/2012
Msg: 202
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/23/2012 4:34:29 PM
that was very well sayed
Joined: 2/23/2012
Msg: 203
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/23/2012 11:15:14 PM
what do u mean?:)LOL... what categories of what?:)
Joined: 4/12/2012
Msg: 204
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You are Hot!!!
Posted: 4/23/2012 11:42:32 PM

Well, I took a quick look at your profile. Two things stand out:

1) Two of your 3 pictures are you obviously posing seductively.
2) Your profile says nothing about you other than you're looking for a romantic relationship.

So this raises two problems:

First, I'm wondering how honest your question is...frankly, I think you're advertising. But if not...
Then give responders something other than "girl seeking relationship in seductive pose" to respond to.

There are LOTS of women. Passionate and seeking doesn't narrow the field much. Tell people who you are, what you like, what makes you tick, what non-romantic things about life jazz you up, what interests you pursue.

There will then be something to talk about.

Currently--there's nothing.
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