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 CTRLvector
Joined: 9/21/2014
Msg: 251
Homophobia -- the DealbreakerPage 11 of 13    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13)
@poorhousecalguy14

Congratulations, you're still a moron... lets see...

You're an upgraded member, but you're too butt ugly to show your face. You're a bigot and an idiot, too broke to afford a divorce. You're un-educated, never served your country and work in construction as a sub contractor or GC - But the reality is you just install ceiling fans or something equally pedestrian. You don't have a GC license, you're a bum - and you know it. If you did have a GC license you would make enough money for a divorce, and to sit at a titty bar for all hours of the day and just sign off and delegate.

You want me to go over my qualifications?

Drugs? You betcha, but only RX grade.
I don't drink alcohol, its not my poison.
 calguy14
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 252
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/15/2015 9:56:37 AM
Your qualifications are nothing.

You have no idea about my situation and I'm not explaining it to an idiot that can't understand his own posts.

We went over this before about your dealer smoking up your gf and screwing her.Not weed dude.Smarten up and get your life together.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 253
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/15/2015 4:18:40 PM

BTW,I forgot to mention the Catholic Italians in Toronto,the largest group in the world outside of Toronto,more than a half million.And just as a teaser,how many Italian men are gay?
African?Does homosexuality run through a certain ethnicity that may have bred too closely?This won't fit with the general population getting a broader gene base now will it?


Go to Russia right now and you could probably tell us that only about 0.00000001 % of the general population are gay. I know you are always "informed" so you probably know why there isn't any gays in Russia correct??????


I use that from my son's perspective,he knows many,many people


The one that hasn't started "thinking" yet, (cause he isn't old enough), and has a delivery from the stork coming soon??? That one????? I wouldn't be taking him too seriously if I were you.


We have many,many genes,and we procreate...what you really meant to say Walt's was that we haven't found a gay gene...right.


You are the one bringing up the "gay gene". I'm still asking about the "heterosexual one"?????


This is a minority agenda,which is the reason why Wynne is hiding it and restricting participation.


You haven't been keeping "informed" have you????? I suggest you should. I also see that you are still a scared little boy. Fear does amazing things to a person, doesn't it. I'd be very careful, I heard the "gays" are "planning" a big "surprise" party in Alberta this year. Lock the doors, protect your children!!!!!! They got BIG BIG plans!!!!!! (rumour has it they have something to do with our excess oil...... tis true)


I drink very little


Please start.

It will at least give you an excuse for you behaviour.

One thing I will tell you though, you ain't touching any of my good stuff.
 calguy14
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 254
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/16/2015 3:36:50 AM
My son thinks plenty,both heads.Very sociable guy with all colors and creeds.Of course being a leftie you believe that you and you only has any insight into life.

You didn't answer how a gay person could have children.Hint:It was a choice.

This agenda will only create division amongst many people.Do you think Muslims are in agreement with this?Catholics?Exactly who?They already poisoned the well having a gay man design the original.That gay man was subsequently charged with producing child porn.Who would trust gay educators at this point?


We don't need any stupid hand wringing navel gazing socialists facking with the minds of OUR children.Remember that next time before you start spouting excuses as to why you feel you can disregard the concerns of parentsYou are not entitled to their minds.

Have another whiskey and a hoot.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 255
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/16/2015 5:53:44 AM
My tax dollars fund schools. People who are unhappy with the teaching in schools can always home school. Or private schools in keeping with their tenets.
Problem solved.
 calguy14
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 256
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/16/2015 6:12:41 AM
^^^
Watch what happens when you feel a minority with special interests can push through their agenda without input from the general public.
 calguy14
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 257
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/16/2015 6:12:57 AM
Double post
 WhoamI_46
Joined: 1/1/2015
Msg: 258
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/16/2015 9:01:46 PM
I have been reading this thread with interest, It certainly one of those subjects that can get heated.

Calguy, I wanted to tell you my experience as a child.

I grew up in a household boasting Christianity. Being taught in these ways was really taxing to grow up in.. I used to listen to my family degrade other people based on race, sexuality, and personalities Even other religions. I hated every minute of it,,, because the 2 faced and holier than thou attitudes were sickening. I would sit as my mother would visit with people in our home, and when they left, she would find a reason to degrade them. I was taught all the horrible things about sex, all the horrible things about people, and we went to church every Sunday. I can say I never believed all this stuff I was taught and questioned everything growing up. (albeit not outloud, as that would have sent me to hell!)

Getting out on my own, and realizing there was a whole world out there full of all kinds of people was exciting. I became honest with myself to say I don't believe in god, and when I had my kids, I promised myself that I was going to raise them to question everything in life and find the answers for themselves. They are now 21 and 19, and I can tell you I am pretty darn proud of the young adults they have become. They went to a public school, because we had that choice. that is right,it's a choice. There was the catholic system and the public system. A choice. They became advocates in the gay/lesbian group in the school not because they were gay, but because they were humans, and believed everybody deserved respect and dignity.

YOu have a right to raise your children how you want. It's a choice you have made, but what you don't realize is you are not raising children, you are raising adults. Adults who someday will be out in that real world, on their own, making decisions for themselves. Facing challenges, working amongst a wide variety of people. You will not be there holding their hand. They will whether you like it not, start to make choices for themselves.

Raising them to be so narrow-minded, and unaccepting is only doing them harm for real life. You can teach your beliefs to them all you want, but someday they are going to have their own. I just find it sad that in all of this, arguing about who right, and what's rights for kids, not once have you said you would teach them humanity. Teach them respect for themselves, so they can learn to respect others. You are not doing them any favors in the long run by not giving them a chance to be decent human beings.

And you talk about the gay life style as disgusting? What is disgusting about 2 adults finding companionship and love with each other? Oh that is right,,, it's all about the sex. Because that is the only thing religions can focus on. never mind about treating people with decency.

I do feel very sorry for your children in the aspect that you are not giving them what they really need in life. teach them a little humanity in with those god lessons, and that will do them a world of good when they get on their own.

People do not choose to be gay, just as people do not choose to be heterosexual. People do choose to be ignorant, rude, degrading, evasive, and narrow minded.

we are who we are because we are. Everything else is a choice!
 calguy14
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 259
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/16/2015 10:05:08 PM
@whoami
That's a lot of assumptions.I don't have a problem with two people loving each other.Its the people living the bath house lifestyle,I would never want a child of mine caught up in that,or anybody for that matter.This is where the lesbians are more real.Men going to the bath houses are at risk and everybody knows it.

I haven't stressed religion,just being good to people and watching out for others looking to take advantage of them.Regarding sex its been about birth control and avoiding disease.Don't worry about my kids being decent human beings,they have many friends of all nationalities.
Lots of people choose to switch sides,who hasn't seen this?Our default sexuality is hetero,only a few are not,some decide a gay lifestyle suits them because its easy.

Trying to push through that agenda will simply result in people pulling their kids out like ouija suggested.Do we want Muslims in separate schools?I thought the plan was integration.Leave the kids alone.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 260
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 3:23:45 AM

I thought the plan was integration.


First step in successful "integration" is acceptance.
 calguy14
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 261
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 4:15:50 AM
^^^
Do you know how diverse Toronto is?And what makes you think these new Canadians view western sexual mores as something to be accepted?Was that implied in the immigration process?Because it sure doesn't look like its working out for westerners does it?Recent immigrants are very family oriented and wish to keep their families tight.Do you think a Pakistani daddy wants you talking to his little girl about sex?Or a gay man talking to his eight year old son?Africans would view any white man wishing to talk to their sons with suspicion.That's a big hill to climb.Separate gay high schools already exist in Toronto.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 262
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 5:03:44 AM

Separate gay high schools already exist in Toronto.


Know there was talk of it, didn't know it actually happened. Care to name it, and where it actually is???? I highly doubt tax payers would really like such a thing, would they????



Do you know how diverse Toronto is?



I'm betting much more than Alberta, let alone Calgary??????


Do you think a Pakistani daddy wants you talking to his little girl about sex?


So, you are suggesting no more sex education, no where?????

The bonus of reading this kinda stuff in the morning just gives more and more confirmation.


Please,,,,,,,

carry on.
 calguy14
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 263
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 5:31:48 AM
I'm suggesting that you are being ethnocentric to feel that other cultures should accept liberal sexual mores.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 264
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 5:40:37 AM

that other cultures should accept liberal sexual mores.


What's a "liberal sexual mores"?????

I have to assume there is a spelling mistake in there.


Still not location of this so-called gay highschool??????

I'll give you more time.
 WhoamI_46
Joined: 1/1/2015
Msg: 265
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 6:49:29 AM
yes, the Muslims should go to Catholic schools. And I am not sure where I have been, but sex education happens in the catholic school system as well.

I think it would be healthy for all children to have the opportunity to have equal access to sex education. Unfortunately, they do it In schools because there are many parents that don't teach their children healthy outlooks. These kids are the ones who need it because they are the ones that end up on the wrong side of the tracks for being human and not having the home in which to be comfortable to be talking about these issues. I am sure there are many gay children out there that would appreciate having that choice to have someone to talk to.

and by time sex education happens, this children know way more than they can be taught. It really is the way it is. And from what I remember , you as a parent have a choice in whether to send them or not. I know I was given that choice,
 calguy14
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 266
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 7:54:22 AM
@walts
Triangle Program
@whoaml
What makes you think Muslims want to join with Catholics?

Who says people don't teach healthy outlooks?Who are you to judge?There are some places for which these gay issues are more of a problem such as Thailand whoaml,but its rare here.There is no pressing need for any additional sex ed and certainly nothing to confuse children before sex even enters their consciousness.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 267
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 8:45:09 AM
So this "program" is set up because some students found it unsafe, faced harassment and homophobia in their past school settings???? And YOU are using this as an example for what again??????


It just keeps getting better every time you type.
 calguy14
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 268
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 9:18:35 AM
@walts
Its for those that want things all gay every day.A beautiful rainbow in the sky every single day except Tuesday .
I'm glad you're entertained.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 269
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 9:43:57 AM
The program was set up for certain individuals because, we, as a society(you, me and the ones over there) cannot give certain children a safe learning environment. You, on the other hand, believe it's all part of "the gay agenda"????? Do you actually define a battered women's shelter as a "home" to??????

As I said before, every time you try "say" something, you give more evidence why education is so important on this subject. EVERY phucking time!!!!!
 tinkerbellcgy
Joined: 9/17/2005
Msg: 270
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Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 10:05:24 AM

There are some places for which these gay issues are more of a problem such as Thailand whoaml,but its rare here.

You're sure that "these gay issues" are not much of a problem here in Canada or North America in general? What are "these gay issues" that you refer to. In order that you can teach us all your "healthy outlooks" on this topic, please do so and be sure to be very detailed and specific so that we cannot misinterpret exactly what you consider to be "healthy outlooks".

There is no pressing need for any additional sex ed and certainly nothing to confuse children before sex even enters their consciousness.

At what age exactly do you figure sex ed enters the consciousness of children? Again, please be specific and detailed.

Enquiring minds and all!
 calguy14
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 271
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 11:56:40 AM
@tinker
As you likely know Thailand has quite a number of men that feel they are trapped in a mans body.Many are shunned and go through a difficult time,despite those tranny beauty pageants being quite popular apparently.

We don't have nearly as many here.

Tinker dear,every household will be different,some kids are more sheltered than others, this is why a state sponsored program might be harmful.We want our young to see each other as people,not sex objects.....right?
 tinkerbellcgy
Joined: 9/17/2005
Msg: 272
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Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 12:11:47 PM

As you likely know Thailand has quite a number of men that feel they are trapped in a mans body.Many are shunned and go through a difficult time,despite those tranny beauty pageants being quite popular apparently.

We don't have nearly as many here.

Tinker dear,every household will be different,some kids are more sheltered than others, this is why a state sponsored program might be harmful.We want our young to see each other as people,not sex objects.....right?

As suspected, you don't have any answers. You're merely spouting off and flapping your gums. And that sure isn't surprising now, is it?
 calguy14
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 273
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 3:23:26 PM
Neither you nor any of the PC bots have any answers either.You believe moving to a continuously ever liberal lifestyle is going to solve something. I have news for you,you're headed in the wrong direction.The strong sectors of society are the groups that are more conservative.Wynne and her gang have no solid answers for a broad range of issues,this one included.There is no problem at the moment,they are simply trying to be social engineers.And the chief engineer was a pedophile.You have no answer to that.
 _babblefish
Joined: 9/23/2011
Msg: 274
Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 3:33:22 PM

I'm suggesting that you are being ethnocentric to feel that other cultures should accept liberal sexual mores.


so how's life workin' out for in that anti-reality world, imma repeating myself, you're still ghey
 tinkerbellcgy
Joined: 9/17/2005
Msg: 275
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Homophobia -- the Dealbreaker
Posted: 1/17/2015 3:45:03 PM
These were the questions that I asked you to elaborate on and answer:


There are some places for which these gay issues are more of a problem such as Thailand whoaml,but its rare here.

You're sure that "these gay issues" are not much of a problem here in Canada or North America in general? What are "these gay issues" that you refer to. In order that you can teach us all your "healthy outlooks" on this topic, please do so and be sure to be very detailed and specific so that we cannot misinterpret exactly what you consider to be "healthy outlooks".

There is no pressing need for any additional sex ed and certainly nothing to confuse children before sex even enters their consciousness.

At what age exactly do you figure sex ed enters the consciousness of children? Again, please be specific and detailed.

Enquiring minds and all!

You responded with:

Neither you nor any of the PC bots have any answers either.You believe moving to a continuously ever liberal lifestyle is going to solve something. I have news for you,you're headed in the wrong direction.The strong sectors of society are the groups that are more conservative.Wynne and her gang have no solid answers for a broad range of issues,this one included.There is no problem at the moment,they are simply trying to be social engineers.And the chief engineer was a pedophile.You have no answer to that.

So....you are simply admitting that you have no answers to your assertions when asked to back them up and you are using smoke and mirrors to attempt to cover up the fact that you are merely blowing smoke out of your ears, flapping your gums and have no clear understanding of any of the unbased statements and/or opinions you put forth. Not surprising.
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