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 norwegianguy456
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I don't think it's wierd ....... I'm sure there are a lot more people out there who have strange feelings almost like asexuality in relation to certain 'accepted' ways of expressing intimate affection for someone else.

I dunno. I really don't think there are. I've been exposed to people of all types -- whether physically or thru conversation. Something's weird if one's way out in left field %-wise on something that is Naturally sexually stimulating but are turned away from it. I think this applies more to guys (more of a game of checkers than chess). I can understand someone saying it doesn't really do anything for them due to severe lack of experience, thus, not really a fan -- but ya know, whatever. But to have a negative association with someone performing a very natural sexually stimulating act that's far from anything 'different' by any means -- where to a Vast majority it's something Good -- yeah, that's weird.

I can see Not liking it with a certain person. And if that pretty much encompasses all their experience -- well, that's really really unfortunate.
 inlawsnoutlaws
Joined: 1/20/2016
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 11/5/2016 12:50:08 PM
You'll stay cleaner...:)
 purplerider1200
Joined: 9/10/2011
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 11/5/2016 9:07:07 PM
It's all in what you like- or not.

I could care less if she wants to go down on me. If it turns up her wick, then have at it. I have no objections to her wanting me to give, as long as she doesn't mind washing up beforehand. Since I lost my pith helmet years ago, be a sport and mow the lawn. The scent of a woman makes me want to catch the late show on TV. What happen to that nice perfume I bought you? I got it for you for a reason.

You're allowed to have parameters in how you want it. As long as you live with mine.
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 11/24/2016 12:10:21 AM
I really like this forum subject, because I get to realize there are other people who do not want to engage in oral, just like myself, who does not want to and will not.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 11/28/2016 1:12:41 AM
Actually I find it weird that I cannot orgasm from oral, but I still like it. I am just too sensitive or maybe my partners I was with were too enthusiastic. One of the two must be the case. I loved giving oral to my partners however. The smell of that area is a real turn on (as long as it's clean of course). I find it kind of sad that some women hate receiving oral. I don't think I could be with a woman who didn't let me go down on her. Could this be because of some past trauma, or did this occur naturally like they are hyper sensitive in that area?
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 106
well, that blows
Posted: 11/28/2016 4:35:21 PM
there could be a variety of reasons someone doesn't want attention in that region. Could be fear of smelling, or not wanting to let go or....but its always bonus points to ask :)
 Want2MeetU2EatU
Joined: 11/30/2016
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 12/5/2016 11:57:54 AM

Is it weird that I do not enjoy a guy eating me out?

No weirder than it is for me to be a man who loves to bury his face deep into a woman's crotch and Lick-&-Suck on her non-stop for hours on end but who is pretty much INDIFFERENT, and actually less than enthusiastic, about being "equally treated in return," even though we've all heard without let-up how it's supposedly the greatest thing a guy could ever want from a woman.

But I have to admit that I would indeed have a considerable amount of concern if I were to ever become involved with a lady who is less than excited about receiving "Australian Kisses" (exactly the same as "French Kisses," except that they all take place "Down Under") -- I'm the type who would very much like to see, hear and feel some spontaneous "positive feedback" in response to all of my "oral fixation" efforts.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 12/5/2016 1:33:48 PM

Actually I find it weird that I cannot orgasm from oral, but I still like it

Probably because you haven't been with one who can do it well. Even a gal who isn't good at (but not bad, like hurting it) feels nice and all... but when you Do find women who can do it well, you get disappointed because it's sub-par -- if you've had one in recent memory.

But I have to admit that I would indeed have a considerable amount of concern if I were to ever become involved with a lady who is less than excited about receiving "Australian Kisses"

My concern would be issues about her body and such. I mean, it's fine if the gal likes to give it but prefers almost all the time to go right to home plate after foreplay on me... but to be ANTI going down her kills the mood & her identity as a whole to some degree.
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 12/5/2016 3:28:02 PM
Not all girls like it and that is quite normal. Horses for courses.
 Dan6308
Joined: 10/23/2013
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 12/5/2016 11:30:26 PM
Me, I love giving and receiving.

But if the girl doesn't like to give? No problem. It's not an absolute for me. If I like her etc I'll stay- relationships aren't only about sex.

If she doesn't like to receive, that's even worse. But I can deal..
 scgirl647
Joined: 11/2/2016
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 12/11/2016 3:46:44 PM
Not weird at all, I get nothing out of it either.
 CafeNoir4me
Joined: 3/6/2006
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 1/15/2017 1:07:59 PM
Have you tried having another woman go down on you? Perhaps you are gay?
 oneday57
Joined: 10/17/2015
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 1/25/2017 3:48:35 AM
LOL.....have NEVER had a woman say that.....and as good as some say they are about faking an orgasm because they want their man to feel good about it.....you cant fake a good orgasm.....maybe just maybe you weren't relaxed or prepped for lack of better terms....VERY important is good kissing....massages.....foreplay till you squirm!....I love being between a pair of soft thighs...the taste....the scent....and a womans cries as shes cumming to my tongue....its special!
 Darwin1971
Joined: 1/31/2013
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 2/13/2017 4:48:57 PM
That is a shame. I love going down on my lovers
 LetitiaLeGrande
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 2/13/2017 8:12:18 PM
cafenoir
what a crass statement to make, however it is up to the woman to tell the guy what she likes and where.
 JewelsnTools
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 2/15/2017 9:53:38 PM
You're not 'weird' for having a unique arousal sequence. That just makes you YOU! Even if every other person in the whole world enjoyed something, if your own body doesn't, you don't have anything to 'prove'. Just find what DOES work for you and work with that! :)
I literally can't stand it-- I could never get away from the fact that he was slathering around down there dealing with something that acted like a snail in salt! heehee
Find (and teach) your own way to be loved on!
Jewels
 LittleDreamGirl
Joined: 4/27/2016
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Posted: 5/9/2017 2:00:24 AM
Has never done anything for me. Now is that because every single man I've been with has poor technique? I don't think that's what it is. It's just I like the stimulation to be a big rough in that area. A tongue is too gentle. Stimulate my clit with your fingers? Oh yeah baby. Finger me inside? Even better. **** me with your penis AND manually stimulate my clit at the same time and I am sent into a sexual stratosphere from which few return, lol.

If it turns my guy on to go down on me, well then by all means I'm not going to stop him as long as he knows I'm likely not going to get off on it. But using the above methods he will have me quivering and emitting groans of ecstasy so fast I don't think he will care about the oral...

And one thing I am damn good at is GIVING a blow job. It's my expertise....several of boyfriends/ men I have dated told me I gave them the best blow job of their LIVES. My last boyfriend said that blow jobs didn't do anything for him and he couldn't cum from them. I had him cumming in 5 minutes ;) So hopefully given all of this, a guy won't mind the fact that I'm indifferent to receiving oral sex.
 sandwater
Joined: 4/2/2017
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 5/9/2017 9:58:36 AM
It's not weird. It's possible a woman never received good oral sex while others are simply indifferent to it. I'm not against receiving oral if a man insisted on it. However I get more enjoyment from giving oral.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 119
weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 5/9/2017 10:23:34 AM
Littledreamgal said

" If it turns my guy on to go down on me, well then by all means I'm not going to stop him as long as he knows I'm likely not going to get off on it. But using the above methods he will have me quivering and emitting groans of ecstasy so fast I don't think he will care about the oral..."







Surely you have suggested to your guys that they finger you WHILE they are licking and sucking away....right ?


WIN/WIN
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 6/8/2017 8:05:36 AM

Littledreamgal said

" Stimulate my clit with your fingers? Oh yeah baby. Finger me inside? Even better."











Surely you have suggested to your guys that they stimulate your clit with their fingers/finger you WHILE they are licking and sucking away....right ?








I know right ?
Like DUH !!!!

 ready4u182
Joined: 5/10/2017
Msg: 121
weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 6/9/2017 2:37:46 AM
Most probably they've been bad at it.
 HUMHUMA
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 2/27/2018 4:05:48 AM
Hmmmm...in 60 yrs I have NEVER been with a woman who doesn't enjoy that very act.....maybe your numb from the waste down or have some issue on the subject but any female I have dated in any state loved it and some who have never given have loved the return as I have!...lol
 SiennaBear2
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Posted: 2/27/2018 4:55:41 AM
It doesn't get me off but it's sexy to watch honestly.
Not something to do everytime but I do like to watch them doing it when they want to do it
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 2/27/2018 5:40:50 AM
It is rare to find women who don't like it, but they do exist. I've known of some whose clits were too sensitive to enjoy it, and others who just simply experienced men who applied technique they didn't like. Then there are those who just don't like the experience at all no matter what.
 sundress1
Joined: 10/29/2017
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weird that oral sex does nothing for me?
Posted: 2/27/2018 11:23:44 AM

I'm not against receiving oral if a man insisted on it. However I get more enjoyment from giving oral.


Same here. Receiving oral is optional for me.
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