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 violente
Joined: 7/14/2012
Msg: 132
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I dont c nething wrong with casual encounters.
 softlatinman
Joined: 5/5/2012
Msg: 133
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 7/18/2012 6:20:35 PM
HELLO , LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT CRAIGLIST. MUST OF WOMEN GET IN THERE ARE LOOKING FOR MONEY OR SUGGAR DADDY'S, VERY BAD , I WILL SAY GO OUT BAR SCENE , MALLS, MOVIES ,ETC PLACES WHERE WOMEN ARE ALONE AND WITH OTHER FRIENDS.
 ladykiller26
Joined: 3/11/2012
Msg: 135
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 7/19/2012 12:03:17 AM
dude if you want a piece of as$ hit up a.mega bar dont buy her drinks be your self an ask her iut for coffie dude its cake it just gets old . try meeting a girl on pof an not kissing her on the first date . then hang out for fun an do fim stuff togatjer . an you might find a winner
 alexvanlee
Joined: 7/25/2012
Msg: 136
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 7/30/2012 12:01:47 PM
this is a stupid question
 uniquegirl8806
Joined: 7/27/2012
Msg: 137
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 7/30/2012 1:45:53 PM
you should probably try somespamsite i think thats what its called
 cccccsssssss
Joined: 4/9/2011
Msg: 138
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Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 7/30/2012 3:04:08 PM
Women don't want a reputation as a s**t and would not want to advertise themselves as one, but want sex. So on her profile she will never put that she is looking for an intimate encounter and will always put don't contact me if you are looking for an intimate encounter, even if that's all she wants.

Now with internet dating women can have as many men as they want without getting a reputation. When she gets horny all she has to do is reply to a few messages and meet for a date, seduce the man, get her fix and then accuse him of taking advantage. No need to put in her profile she is looking for sex.

I've heard of men often meeting women from dating sites and having sex on the first date and it not going any further, yet every woman has 'must not have messaged people for intimate encounters' on their profile. I guess this is why there are so many messages being sent asking for it, maybe they are successful.
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 139
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 7/30/2012 9:41:39 PM
feminism has rui9ned em ver conditioned not to like men nowadays, also ver cpatilist money hunters now so 2 tiored 4 sex.
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 140
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 7/31/2012 6:17:00 AM
@ tensail

most of your barely readable history of replies to certain questions an forums seems to all rotate around you thinking "FEMINISM" HAS cause of all the worlds troubles...sorry you cant handle a woman actually having a mind,,life,,opinion,,an rights in this world to do with her mind body an life as she pleases..

just because you have a d ick doesnt really mean s hit..an that is in general with some certain men who think with a mind set of women must bow down be submissive at all times an speak when spoken to an only do as the man pleases regardless if its NOT what she wants or who she wants..just take it because she is a woman,,an a man is a man because of a penis..
 abmccray
Joined: 8/3/2008
Msg: 141
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Posted: 7/31/2012 7:11:58 AM
If anything "feminism" has made dating much better/easier, unless your idea of a relationship is "owning a woman." I couldn't imagine dating 40+ years ago with stupid gender role sexism rampant.
 jmmevolve
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 142
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 7/31/2012 7:03:06 PM
Perhaps they don't want to sleep with every partner you can find for casual sex? In this day and age of diseases, it is ever more important to protect your health as well as your emotions in this situation. I am not sure I have met too many woman that really appreciate being treated like a piece of meat - any piece would do?
 blissfulyogini
Joined: 2/21/2012
Msg: 143
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 7/31/2012 7:22:20 PM
You live in Vancouver so it shouldn't be that difficult to find an escort for a GFE.
 Stardust_Cruiser
Joined: 3/30/2010
Msg: 145
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 8/1/2012 6:47:53 AM
True true and true. CL W4M casuals is nothing but spam bots. M4W casuals get nothing but spam replies. Such a waste of time.
 Ladybug28539
Joined: 4/22/2012
Msg: 148
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 8/8/2012 5:55:21 PM
"When it comes to sex for women, we get emotionaly attached. So that's why most women don't like to be just a FWB."


Not always true... when I first became single again, the last thing that I wanted was someone else that I had to take care of... somtimes girls, there are just some things that ur handy dandy toys cannot do. I played whatever game I had to play to get what I needed and could care less what the guy needed... face it, we ALL play that game sometimes.
 kpward333
Joined: 12/10/2011
Msg: 152
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Posted: 8/23/2012 11:12:27 PM
Ok...once again lets think this all the way through. You asked where are all the girls that just want to have casual encounters or for short" sex with anybody"??? Correct??? THERE ALL BUSY HAVING SEX!!!!!........screwing and getting thier brians screwed out as you type right now......geeez
 cakforya
Joined: 3/25/2012
Msg: 153
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 8/24/2012 3:30:51 AM
while there are several women I have noticed using the friendship category to look for FWB or something on the side, most women use that for this senerio. while men look in the intimate encounter section.

to the people giving him ( the OP ) crap about looking, stop being so hypocritical.
the section is there. so he looks WTF!

as for honesty which is the issue here. it kinda says something. women on the thread crap on a guy whos being honest while they are not.
then tell him to get a hooker?

double standards.
 Phil_an_derer
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 154
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 8/24/2012 4:19:19 AM
Its hard for some, for others not so hard....
 remixfa
Joined: 4/19/2009
Msg: 157
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 8/24/2012 6:34:42 AM
I see a lot of women being judgmental so far.

I have met plenty of girls from this site. Honesty may scare most of them away and thats fine, but guess what.. some girls like sex.. a lot... just like a guy. There are definitely better sites to find a "hook up", but the sheer volume of people on PoF also makes it a decent site. Notice how there is a "intimate encounter" and "non serious dating" option on your profile? Neither of those mean "i want a meaningful relationship". Its not just hookers and ugly chicks. Guys and gals dont always have a lot of free time depending on their life and need a little fun once and a while. You shouldn't chastise people that have a different view on sex and love than you do.

Honestly, I'd rather talk to a person through email/text/phone before meeting them to cut down on any awkwardness. Also you can get a sense on them that you might not be getting if you randomly meet them while your both drunk at a bar. It also removes beer goggles from the equation so your less likely to regret it in the morning.
 aussieblues
Joined: 11/22/2011
Msg: 158
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Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 8/24/2012 8:51:58 AM
Because with one of these, we can get as many of those as we want. Simple.
 Pinky127
Joined: 1/7/2012
Msg: 159
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 8/24/2012 9:04:01 AM
I think most women would agree that sex is very easy to find.
It's trying to find a relationship that's difficult............ho,hum.....
 baldguy500
Joined: 2/9/2010
Msg: 160
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 8/24/2012 9:42:24 AM
it's not that hard, maybe you're approach to it needs a lil work...or it could be you're just an idiot......
 valleyguyaz
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 161
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 8/24/2012 9:50:45 AM
why?

because women are not douche bags.

they use a douche bag whenever they feel they need to.

when your a douche bag there is no need to ask your self that question because your a douche bag

lol
 Love.Notes
Joined: 7/27/2012
Msg: 163
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 8/25/2012 3:22:46 PM
Friends with benefits is great! IF, you don't have about four or five of them on the go at the same time. Women are never sure with a NSA relationship if he's playing with just her or everyone he's friends with. Not all women are looking for marriage but they don't see sex the same way men do either. We have this thing built in us that's called emotions, and yes we get emotionally attached in more cases then not. It's more about how many women does he have as FWB. Am I the only one he has fun with? Will I end up wanting more? Can I control my emotions the further along we get? Can I walk away if I want more and he doesn't. The problem is, most men are looking at many females to be FWB with. She would do your wildest dreams if she knew you were into her and only her and providing she can control her emotions. Sharing her man with others, is generally not what women do. There are women out there that do however they belong to the swingers group and usually travel in pairs looking for other couples.

There is something about "I don't have much time, I'm busy, I work a lot" that makes her say hmmmm so all he want's me for is sex. Women don't want to throw themselves out there for pure sex. Usually ( not always though) women tend to look for the security of knowing she is in a relationship with you be it FWB NSA or lover/bf/husband. What's in it for her? Sex with you fulfilling her wild fantasies? He wild fantasies do exist yes but deep down she wants to know you're there for the long haul. Not all women but most.

Just my thoughts.
 joyousjan
Joined: 7/26/2012
Msg: 164
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 8/25/2012 3:59:06 PM
yes theres www.somespamsite.com and ****book.com and so many many more.
this is a dating site but many do only want sex,its up to each one,but more here to date and find love.
 DeGuise
Joined: 7/23/2012
Msg: 165
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Posted: 8/25/2012 7:11:08 PM
For casual encounters try the pure adult play sites like adult friend finder etc. There you will be treated to a ratio of something like 10 men for every woman and fully 3/4 of the men are married seeking a little something on the side. About half the women there are also attached with a story as to why they want to play and run away. If that is what you want drop the membership bucks and dive into that playground so the women here get fewer "wanna do it" messages and can pay attention to the guys who might want more
 masterotaku
Joined: 7/20/2012
Msg: 166
Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 8/25/2012 10:20:46 PM
It's because women who are open with their sexuality and their desire for it are the exception and thus in demand.
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