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 PlentyofThis123
Joined: 11/23/2013
Msg: 166
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"No liars or cheats need apply"

Attractive women don't have this problem. Smart women don't have this problem.


I know what you mean....stating the obvious in your profile isn't necessary.
 Halcyon_Skies
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 167
angry profiles..would you date them?
Posted: 12/21/2013 9:36:33 PM

I know what you mean....stating the obvious in your profile isn't necessary.


Not only is it not necessary, it's counter-productive. It sends the message that you've allowed these cheaters and liars to victimize you in the past, and that you'd be an easy target.
 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 168
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Posted: 12/21/2013 11:10:08 PM

I do understand that so many ladies must get tons of bad emails, ALL kinds of bad emails...
I used to get instant messages from men of all ages ... commenting on the legs, but that isn't happening any more since I put restrictions on my instant messaging.

It's been my experience that when a person is that "angry" or perhaps "bitter", it's better not to get involved ... unless of course that's what gives your life meaning. I don't need any person carrying that kind of baggage. I generally don't have problems with others' baggage, but that kind of angry/bitter ... I just don't get involved in it.

so my question? does anyone still try or is willing to connect with men or women that they have some interest in but that persons profile has some serious negativity in it? and how has it worked?
NOPE!!! it's really not interesting to me at all.
 moonbeamlover
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 169
angry profiles..would you date them?
Posted: 12/22/2013 11:15:01 AM

"No liars or cheats need apply"

Attractive women don't have this problem. Smart women don't have this problem.
"No liars or cheats need apply"

Attractive women don't have this problem. Smart women don't have this problem.

hmm... you know this, how? Know a woman who was a fitness model and a tanning model who was asked to audition for the sports illustrated swimsuit issue...

she was totally utterly gorgeous. And extremely intelligent. And she got nothing BUT liars and cheats.

Couple flight attendant friends. Also gorgeous. Also smart. Also got a plethora of liars and cheats.


All the people who think someone who is beautiful has no dating problems, never has bad treatment, has roses and flowers and sunshine...

are delusional. NO one is exempt, and people if they would quit projecting all these entitled assumptions on people and get angry about the fact when they are so often totally wrong? It would change the vibe totally; and they would have WAY more success and a lot less cynicism.

Ditch the anger, focus on the stuff they LIKE. Not rage against things they are only suspecting, when they have no idea whatsoever what is going on behind the other screen. It could be MASSIVELY different than you think.

But if I come across one of the angry enraged? I know it is only a matter of time I will end up taking a missile that has built up by them, that they need to unload on SOMEONE, and I am one of the blanketed damned ones.

No thanks :)
 jlynn1955
Joined: 8/24/2012
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Posted: 12/30/2013 7:41:14 PM
No, I dont contact or get involved with someone who seems angry. I don't do it in real life so why would I online? Life is too short.
 013552
Joined: 3/14/2009
Msg: 171
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Posted: 1/1/2014 8:30:17 AM
in a word NO as dating supposed to be giving your social life a shot in the arm, not dragging your own life down into the morass off somebody elses angst
 GreenThumbz18
Joined: 4/25/2012
Msg: 172
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Posted: 1/1/2014 11:38:38 AM
I take profiles with a grain of salt.
Nobody dates a profile, we date the person.
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