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 msholiday1
Joined: 5/19/2012
Msg: 18
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If you make her feel like the most beautiful woman you have ever been with......you will get great results. If she feels like you are comparing her with past loves, then lights out, you ain't seeing her naked ever. She'll be as adventurous as you allow her to.
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 19
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Posted: 6/15/2012 5:50:46 PM
If you have to ask....
you probably will never know.
:-P
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 20
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Posted: 6/15/2012 6:05:49 PM
yes most r like that mae, ver insecure n cause of feminism ver even mre insecure around men, ive given up on trying to make girls sexy, vey eithr r or arnt, at least weve got porn to turn to!
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 21
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Posted: 6/15/2012 6:07:49 PM
wit u gg that b nice, u got nice curves baby!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 22
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Posted: 6/15/2012 8:15:15 PM
if you have to ask if women can be adventurous........
it's real easy to assume YOU are not adventurous yourself.....

at 51 years of age.......if you haven't had some good ole fun hot monkey sex.....I really don't think you can
blame it on the women.

You cannot expect a women to be something you are not.......and you have to give a woman a reason to be creative in the bedroom.....because if she has gotten used to boring and mundane with you.....she is just going to want the lights out and for you to hurry up and get it over with......
 Extollere
Joined: 2/21/2012
Msg: 23
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Posted: 6/15/2012 8:56:40 PM
Oooo this should be exciting...


When refering to adventurous sex i guess im talking about undressing each other, exploring each others bodies and different sexual positions and films im referring to are those that show this happening.


Oh. Damn. And here I brought the pony gear for nothing. Hope they take refunds. But yes, this can indeed happen. And often does.


Can you really have sex stood up and a woman jumping on you and wrapping her legs around you as an example


Yes. No invisible wires necessary. You can even rig someone to your chandelier suspended upside down, but you might want to master the basics first.

Really, you just need a strong back and good balance and you're golden. Oh, and avoid the stairs. Some things are really hard to explain in the Emergency Room.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 24
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Posted: 6/15/2012 9:23:57 PM
Well I don't think the women you are with are the norm. At least not compared to me & my friends. We may be a bit more sexual than most. Do you meet these women at religious places. Or are they very Young. Older women usually are over those issues. Why do you think the young guys want us for sex? Lol. I make my own movies & pics. As I've been reading more I see that you don't seem very sexual. You have to excite. The woman so shell want all that hot sex.At your age you don't seem too experienced. Push her up against the wall and start making out and go down from there lol make her forget there are even lights.
 MacInOC
Joined: 2/19/2012
Msg: 27
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Posted: 6/16/2012 9:54:00 AM

When refering to adventurous sex i guess im talking about undressing each other, exploring each others bodies and different sexual positions


Hum, maybe it's just me, but I don't consider this all that adventurous. Many women say they are adventurous, but when you ask and describe, you find out they are not so much - but some are willing to try.
 June321
Joined: 5/25/2012
Msg: 28
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Posted: 6/16/2012 11:16:55 AM
A woman's clothes dont necessary have to come off to be adventurous the adventure could be involving oneself in the adventure could be her clothes is part of the adventure. I think this is a 2 way street adventurous sex is as good as your partner allows as it takes 2 to tango I would feel pretty stupid lying on a table in a kitchen surrounded by fruit & cream and having my partner ask whats for dinner I think that would be pretty obvious.
 June321
Joined: 5/25/2012
Msg: 29
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Posted: 6/16/2012 11:27:05 AM
For 14 years I was with a man with an erectile dysfunction but it didn't interfere with the adventure in fact it may well have have enhanced our adventure well I never heard any complaints
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 6/16/2012 1:30:01 PM
I think he's just advertising for a "fit, gorgeous woman" to rock his world.......
 len129
Joined: 8/22/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 6/20/2012 10:23:11 AM
Hi


It's not all about intercourse there endless other things you can do. People never touch the service of how far you can go
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 35
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Posted: 6/20/2012 10:52:44 AM

(The) Only time I have lights-out sex is in the middle of the night where turning them on again would be annoying.

Even if it's a First Date....and we just can't keep our hands off each other...
I like to Start the Adventure ~In The Shower!!~
. . Mostly because we've most likely been dancing and drinking for a couple hours!
From there...the adventure goes where we Discuss it to go!
I like to start with Pube-Shaving...*VOOF!!*...from there, the sky's the limit..!!!
4+ different positions...trapeeze...standing...outdoors...star-gazing...etc...etc...
 sunshinebridge2U
Joined: 4/13/2012
Msg: 36
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Posted: 6/20/2012 12:58:06 PM
Well. . . I've been sort of thinking of a nice moonlit picnic in a secluded location with at least a blindfold (maybe more!) for our three month anniversary. That has to be pretty much the same as having sex with the lights out -so it's a good progression for vanilla couples. We're checking out a nice beach later this afternoon! I'm bringing sandwiches. It's always great to have something to look forward to - so don't rush things all at once.
 HeartOn64
Joined: 5/31/2012
Msg: 37
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Posted: 6/20/2012 2:46:08 PM

wit u gg that b nice, u got nice curves baby!


What!!?
 lionfish83
Joined: 6/15/2012
Msg: 38
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Posted: 6/25/2012 8:25:34 AM
i couldnt agree more. both people need to feel satisfied in bed, not just the guy, and not just the woman. compatibility is so important, especially in bed.
 1388SmartBlonde
Joined: 5/15/2011
Msg: 40
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Posted: 6/26/2012 12:37:50 AM
OP, you will have to define adventurous...there is a broad spectrum of opinion on what that is.

As for dating a female who has sex like a porn star, I'd suggest moving to LA and living in the Valley. If you want something more lasting and intimate, talk with your partner about their bedroom do's and don'ts and yours long before you get naked.
 carelesswhisper00
Joined: 1/11/2007
Msg: 41
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Posted: 6/26/2012 1:23:01 AM
Do you talk to these ladies about what they enjoy or don't enjoy? Communicating is the first act of any pleasure. If you give you shall receive. Try it you might like it!
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