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 Gwendolyn2010
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 26
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You have to be kidding!

You came on POF to take a chemistry test? Uh-huh. In my not so humble opinion, you came online to do some snooping on your boyfriend, and you found out what you wanted to know.

This is like the people who read texts and voicemails on phones or who search the computers of their boy/girlfriends and find "incriminating" evidence.

You should confront him and make a BIG scene. You should accuse him of being unfaithful and of using you until he can find someone better.

Then, you can give the rather lame excuse as to why YOU have a POF profile.

Oh, and you might find out that he has a profile but hasn't bothered to change his status. Of course, if that is the case, the fact that you snooped could be enough to really tick him off.

Go for it!

Edit: I missed her profile being created three months ago! I guess that it took her that long to complete the chemistry test.
 BurtonGusterJr
Joined: 6/8/2012
Msg: 27
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/17/2012 3:42:20 PM
You know you could have bought a Cosmo, to take the tests they have in there. Why does your profile state you're single and looking for a relationship.

Maybe your boyfriend had a profile on here and just never deleted it, and trust me I know people that don't update things for more serious life issues like Life insurance and IRA's they have, they change addresses and phone numbers and don't update those so it makes sense that someone might not think to delete an online profile.
 ColeenAnn
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 28
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/17/2012 4:25:21 PM
He obviously doesn't know you're his girlfriend.
 forums1
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 29
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/17/2012 5:44:03 PM
He obviously doesn't know you're his girlfriend.


And she's creating a profile, er, um, "taking the chemistry test", with a profile - 3 months ago - that says she's looking for men to "hang out" with... she obviously doesn't know he's her boyfriend either.

Seriously, how long has his profile been here? You said he was 'on here before', maybe he never deleted it. You, OP, on the other hand, just created one saying you're single and looking to hang out with other men. Hmm.
 Hope_n_Hope
Joined: 5/23/2012
Msg: 30
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/17/2012 6:02:56 PM
Break up with him on a post-it sticky note :-D
 windchymes
Joined: 11/29/2008
Msg: 31
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Posted: 6/17/2012 6:40:58 PM
I'd unfriend him from my Facebook before he knew what hit him!
 thepigofyourdreams
Joined: 2/23/2012
Msg: 32
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/17/2012 6:50:28 PM
lol @ those who are taking this goofy ass story at face value.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 33
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Posted: 6/17/2012 6:51:52 PM
The longer this thread gets the more I think you two are very well matched....you almost seamlessly feed into each other's insecurities. EHarmony couldn't have done better!
 Gwendolyn2010
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 34
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/17/2012 7:23:26 PM

I'd unfriend him from my Facebook before he knew what hit him!



--but, then she can't spam his wall with what a dirt-bag he is... (for his children and friends to see)


AND if his profile is private, she wouldn't be able to see to whom he is talking!

OP, I am curious, in which field is your MA?
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 35
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/17/2012 7:23:49 PM
Ask him about and why. Cut to the chase of things.
 knt3
Joined: 6/8/2012
Msg: 36
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/17/2012 7:28:23 PM
your reason for coming onto pof sounds a little off base. i suspect you were talking with your friend about your boyfriend suspecting that he might be cheating and you just confirmed it. next time, tell the truth and i just might have some sympathy for you.... you're no better than him.
 onlydateIF
Joined: 11/15/2011
Msg: 37
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/17/2012 7:39:11 PM
tell him you heard he's a diversification specialist-wait, before that, pop the popcorn
ok back to 1. so, as I was sayin... hes a specialist, you hear, and you need his expert advice bc you heard that in these times that's the 'in' thing to do. Get camera. Film his shocked response! Good luck and let us know how it worked out. :)
PS- if bf's a broker, try a different tactic
 knt3
Joined: 6/8/2012
Msg: 38
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/17/2012 7:55:44 PM
what an insult to think the people on pof wouldn't figure this out.

really though, it's been fun seeing you get exposed.

are we humiliated yet?
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 6/17/2012 8:00:33 PM
I don't think we want to tell them to break up, because then there's be a chance that they would afflict themselves on good people.
 forums1
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 40
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/17/2012 8:54:06 PM

I don't think we want to tell them to break up, because then there's be a chance that they would afflict themselves on good people.


This is true, perhaps better to keep them paired so they don't submit others to this crap.

C'mon OP, you decided to join here "to take the chemistry test"... because "your friend said it was cool"?? Seriously? If you're friend told you to jump off a bridge 200' into the water, would you do that too because your friend said it was cool?? I mean, c'mon, I read that and I thought you were like 20, then I look at your profile and it says you're 41.
 vestaceres
Joined: 6/13/2012
Msg: 41
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Posted: 6/18/2012 4:04:15 AM
He is a cheater. I also wonder about your real motives for taking a chemistry test?
 thepigofyourdreams
Joined: 2/23/2012
Msg: 42
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/18/2012 4:10:44 AM
It was for "educational purposes only", of course!
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 43
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/18/2012 6:20:33 AM

What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile


Shoot them?


I came on POF to take the chemistry test because a friend said it was cool. I had heard that my current boyfriend had been on POF before. I searched for him and found him with an active profile seeking a relationship. What should be by next move?


Dump him.
Then get yourself a life, if you have nothing better to do than come to POF to do a chemistry test, and your boyfriend has nothing better to do than be one here trying to cheat on you. Obviously you guys have issues.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 44
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/18/2012 6:22:15 AM

When men get caught out they will DENY DENY DENY until the cows come home

I WOULD like to point out not every man cheats. And some will not deny in the least, just to see the expression on someone's face.
I just don't appreciate to be put in the same basket as everyone else
 rockondon
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 45
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Posted: 6/18/2012 7:27:06 AM

I came on POF to take the chemistry test because a friend said it was cool.

Bahahahaha I'm so sure, lol.

I just noticed this one line on your profile....

Intent: Reesesinmiami is looking for a relationship.

But I'm sure it just says that because a friend said it was cool.

I think you should marry the guy. The two of you are perfect for each other.
 packagedealx3
Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 46
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Posted: 6/19/2012 5:32:45 AM
Capn, I'm pretty sure most people have you in your own basket
 im_a_rockstar
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 47
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/19/2012 9:28:28 AM
Maybe he's on the site for the forums.

Or because his GF is the kind of person who will come to dating sites, so he's just using you until he finds someone more worth his time.
 scottey63
Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 48
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Posted: 6/19/2012 10:11:20 AM
I came on POF to take the chemistry test because a friend said it was cool.

*cough**cough**bullsh!t!**cough*

So, what part of taking the chemistry test involves searching for your boyfriend's profile? Do tell. Inquiring minds want to know!

Did your little "fishing trip" tell you how long it's been since he logged into his profile?

Your next move should be to break up with him, because you don't trust him (deservedly or not). And don't date anyone else until you resolve your trust issues and your need to snoop.
 ComplekCity
Joined: 1/17/2011
Msg: 49
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/19/2012 10:15:48 AM
What , you haven't heard of the ol' get a female he doesn't know to send him a msg and get him to meet her and then you both show up together routine ?
 good_catch77
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 50
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/19/2012 12:20:18 PM

When men get caught out they will DENY DENY DENY until the cows come home


And women don't when they get caught too?


I WOULD like to point out not every man cheats. And some will not deny in the least, just to see the expression on someone's face.
I just don't appreciate to be put in the same basket as everyone else


I fully endorse this statement.

So tired of being generalized and categorized....stereotyped...the whole nine yards.
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