The fact that youre obsessing over a child your daughters age who would never be interested in you to the point where you would start a thread about it is the biggest question of all
starting a series of threads can imply an obsession. starting one thread doesn't.
whether she would ever be interested in me is irrelevant, since i'm not interested in her, at least beyond an example from which to launch a discussion of the ethics and considerations of tattooing.
even though my use of the word 'father' was subtle, i'm glad you were able to pick up on the daughter angle though, since my question was partially framed from the standpoint of a parent.