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 gotahubcapdiamondstarhalo
Joined: 9/21/2016
Msg: 26
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I have a strong case of "Old lady smell," does that count, San?
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 27
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you can find love in your 80's or 120s
Posted: 10/11/2016 6:56:31 PM
" I'm a little concerned about some of the youth worshipping middle aged people who feel distainful toward old age. "

It is one thing if you grow old with someone. It is a whole different thing, if you end up a widow/widower and start chasing the opposite sex when you are in your 80's or 90's. I know quite a few people in their 80's and 90's. None of them are interested in "finding love" again. Most have health issues, all know at their age they aren't as physically able as they once were. They are busy trying to just survive a few more years without drama, and want to enjoy a peaceful life.

Some middle aged people, maybe afraid they when they reach 80/90 they will be alone as they are now. Mother Nature is clever. She takes away the desire for a mate for most of us.
Mind there are those men and women who use hormones so they still have the desire.
Reminds me of the old joke about how just because you can take drugs to get aroused doesn't mean you should.
I knew a women my age who uses hormones and she is constantly chasing any and all men she thinks she can bed. She is a very frustrated and sad women.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 28
you can find love in your 80's or 120s
Posted: 10/12/2016 5:34:36 AM
^^^^ oh don't burst my balloon :( I like the stories when couples get together after like 40 years no seeing each other, heart warming love stories like those :) 69 year old Man was just a contestant on Dating Naked.. put some of the young guys to shame.
Lots of beautiful older ( 70 and 80s) models. I like Baddie Winkle. Lots of handsome old men, I am betting they still can get it started :/
 rearguard*2
Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 10/12/2016 6:51:33 AM

Lots of handsome old men, I am betting they still can get it started


Yes indeed they can, but only a couple of times a year...:(
 BlackLady1953
Joined: 5/27/2011
Msg: 30
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Posted: 10/16/2016 11:14:23 AM
I have recently met a lovely older couple. Both are 89, and are on their second marriage (she was a widow; he was a widower). They will both turn 90 in a few months, and have been married for 11 years. They met at the gym (how cool is THAT?) They remind me of a classic, "old school Hollywood couple." Every Saturday evening they dress to the nines and go out swing dancing at a social club they belong to. I hope they can keep on living and dancing until they are 100 years old. Now, I wish I would have paid attention and taken an interest when my Dad wanted to teach me how to "swing dance" when I was a teenager. We live and we learn. Because maybe some day I'll meet an "old school classic gentleman who wants to go out "swing dancing."
 KuppKake01
Joined: 10/13/2016
Msg: 31
you can find love in your 80's or 90's
Posted: 10/17/2016 7:15:24 PM
Yes!

There's hope for me.
 sannion
Joined: 7/18/2015
Msg: 32
you can find love in your 80's or 90's
Posted: 10/23/2016 12:02:14 PM
Hello dear, you are so right, for over two years, as a 51 y/o single black male seeking seeking senior or elderly lady, it has been difficult for me to really understand what some of these beautiful ladies are looking for, some talk about vacation, some marriage and so on that is i came accrossed your profile even though i was very interested in you did not respond and i wonder why? not everyone on this site is a scammer if that happened the person will be block it is secured here. You i was dating a woman in the age range 49 to 50 during our relationship she made me believe that i was her best man, the last thing i found out is she have a girlfriend on the side which mean she is bisexual, we dated for 8 years in the darkness, since them i chose dating elderly ladies instead that is why i wrote you.
I see you beauty.
But it is okay to be caution.
As for now am talking to 98 years old lady from swiss lets see.
Best
 IReallyShouldnt
Joined: 9/6/2016
Msg: 33
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Posted: 10/23/2016 12:56:31 PM
^^^
Pick me! Pick me!

I have finally found the man of my dreams, and I hope he sends me a love letter! I can tell from his post that he is a poet.
Be still, my beating heart.
 halforhalfnot
Joined: 9/13/2016
Msg: 34
you can find love in your 80's or 90's
Posted: 10/23/2016 1:14:07 PM
I'm copying and pasting that. That's my new first message. Probably should photoshop my picture first.
 IReallyShouldnt
Joined: 9/6/2016
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Posted: 10/23/2016 1:27:53 PM
^^^
Well, we think alike! "Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery".
But remember, he is mine.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 36
you can find love in your 80's or 90's
Posted: 10/23/2016 2:00:02 PM
he did stop screaming.
I hear Swiss is lovely this time of year.
IRS - you should share :)
 IReallyShouldnt
Joined: 9/6/2016
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Posted: 10/23/2016 2:38:30 PM
^^^
Sorry, can't hear you... bad connection... I am on my way to Nigeria to meet the love of my life.
 IReallyShouldnt
Joined: 9/6/2016
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Posted: 10/23/2016 2:39:41 PM
Via Swiss!

Always wanted to visit Swiss.
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 39
you can find love in your 80's or 90's
Posted: 10/23/2016 2:53:50 PM
You guys are rude. Sannion, have you ever been to Canadian?
 JS3344
Joined: 2/12/2013
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Posted: 10/23/2016 3:07:38 PM
This thread really gives me hope! It means after 31 years on pof I might find the love of my life........yay.
 IReallyShouldnt
Joined: 9/6/2016
Msg: 41
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Posted: 10/23/2016 3:14:25 PM
^^^
I need some help from you good folks... I just landed in Abuja, Nigeria. My lover / poet has not showed up yet? What do I do? I sent him some money via Western Union... he told me that he needed some money to pick me up at the airport.

So here I am at the airport and I can not find him. What to do?

Please feel free to diagnose my problems. Better than a new thread...
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 42
you can find love in your 80's or 90's
Posted: 10/23/2016 3:20:51 PM
^ They should be able to help you over in Profile Reviews.
 IReallyShouldnt
Joined: 9/6/2016
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Posted: 10/23/2016 3:23:55 PM
HAHA, love you.

There is no help for me. That's why I am stuck at the airport in Nigeria... duh.

So, HELP ME!
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 44
you can find love in your 80's or 90's
Posted: 10/23/2016 3:35:52 PM
Oh, for crying out loud. How can anyone help you when you won't listen? You clearly have a lock of hair out of place. And you need a bigger smile - men want to see your pearly whites. Get someone at the airport to take some new pics. Oh, and one more thing - you put in your profile that you're looking for a relationship. That is really narrowing your prospects. Many more men will contact you if you put that you're looking for an intimate encounter.
 JS3344
Joined: 2/12/2013
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Posted: 10/23/2016 3:37:48 PM
^^^ Lagoodguy will wire you the money, call 1-213-ass-hole
 IReallyShouldnt
Joined: 9/6/2016
Msg: 46
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Posted: 10/23/2016 3:51:54 PM

Oh, for crying out loud. How can anyone help you when you won't listen? You clearly have a lock of hair out of place. And you need a bigger smile - men want to see your pearly whites. Get someone at the airport to take some new pics. Oh, and one more thing - you put in your profile that you're looking for a relationship. That is really narrowing your prospects. Many more men will contact you if you put that you're looking for an intimate encounter.


I know! The problem is (oh this is so hard to say) I have no teeth. No pearly whites for me. What can I do about that? I am too shy to go over to the Profile Reviews.

But my man is really is waiting for me at the airport. At least I have a man who loves me. I hope he doesn't care that I don't have any teeth. Teeth are over-rated. They just get in the way.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 47
you can find love in your 80's or 90's
Posted: 10/23/2016 4:49:17 PM
I'm guessing no teeth makes for better french kissing :)
I never get scam msgs, no one loves me. Freaking 102 Dalmatian
Am I the only one craving cheese fondue? fondont more like it, never can get the pot clean.
Meat fondues worse.. it's Tues and you are still waiting for a dinky piece of meat to cook.
 IReallyShouldnt
Joined: 9/6/2016
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Posted: 10/24/2016 6:01:25 AM
^^^

Ouija, have you ever tried to find cheese fondue at the airport? I've been looking and looking for some. I'm still here waiting for that dream boat.
 rearguard*2
Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 10/24/2016 6:27:25 AM
^^^ If you are looking for the love of your life, you should have driven up to Montreal. Loads of guys with cute French accents lurking in the bars and cafes ready to let you pay for their drinks and food, entertain you in cozy quaint hotels, cold water flats, historic walkups, and beautiful views of the magnificent river. A lot cheaper, really, and easy to run back across the border should you tire of any one of them.....
 IReallyShouldnt
Joined: 9/6/2016
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Posted: 10/24/2016 6:38:15 AM
^^^
Hmmm... do you have a "cute French accent"?
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