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 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 139
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?Page 7 of 8    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8)

Belle:
I even downloaded an app and allows me to track sex partners in the event I ever deviate from my norm.


What is this norm you're talking about? And how do you track sex partners-do you attach a GPS to them?
 Kissfromarose77
Joined: 4/13/2015
Msg: 140
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 7:55:10 AM

You don't want an intelligent woman who may question your bias against them or notice the fact that you're a cheapskate; rather, it seems you want somebody desperate enough to only deal with your shit, but have the pleasure of paying for it, too.


I can date whoever I want, I live in a free country. My wife left me for another man after we were married for 5 years. I thought it was just a friendship so I didn't think anything of her spending so much time with him. Then after we were separated she called me crying and expected me to feel so for her because this guy was ignoring her. Why should I? It's difficult to learn to trust again.

As for being a cheapskate- I should be a cheapskate if tried to get women to pay for me- which I don't- I always pay for myself. Not wanting to pay for a woman on a first date does not make me a cheapskate- especially since I don't have much money due to a disability.
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 141
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 7:58:48 AM

Really? Deviate from the norm? Interesting....

So when I hear people say..."there's an app for that" from now on I can say "you got that right" lol :)

Kind of makes my social event app seem uninspiring........ rather depressing really........:( I dunno.....

There's an app for everything...and I'm very good at using them, lol

I hope that your social event app includes June 27. *wink*


Now another thing that I have experience is how many of those very, very attractive women HATE very attractive men for the very reason that they are always so unreliable. And that is the reason, that many times a women would pick me or a guy like me over some hot looking guy.


Hate is such a strong word...tsk tsk

While I don't consider myself to be the last coca-cola, I dislike highly conventional attractive men because that's a feminine quality to me, so I'm automatically turned off. I like manly-looking men, they are often not pretty boys (Ron Pearlman, John Travolta, Javier Bardem, Alec Baldwin, Marlon Brandon, etc).
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 142
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 8:12:41 AM

Now another thing that I have experience is how many of those very, very attractive women HATE very attractive men for the very reason that they are always so unreliable. And that is the reason, that many times a women would pick me or a guy like me over some hot looking guy.

To me the desirable guy is the one that is hot as hell (or is to me anyway) but doesn't know it/doesn't have a very high degree of narcissism. They are out there...
 CharminC
Joined: 2/19/2011
Msg: 143
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 8:26:47 AM
(Ron Pearlman, John Travolta, Javier Bardem, Alec Baldwin, Marlon Brandon, etc).

^^^^
Might want to scratch John out. Still manly but fake about who he is, wife is a beard and he wears a toupee.
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 144
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 8:48:13 AM

What is this norm you're talking about? And how do you track sex partners-do you attach a GPS to them?


the norm (for me) is to sleep with one person at a time, no double dipping.

The app tracks sex activity and with whom, it assigned different colored dots for any specific sex partner and you enter the dates and with whom, and that's it. So the calender lights up with different colored dots.

Charmin,

John Travolta's look is very manly, regardless where he chooses to stick it or what is looking like nowadays, lmao. Ever seen Face Off?
 CharminC
Joined: 2/19/2011
Msg: 145
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 9:00:31 AM
John Travolta's look is very manly, regardless where he chooses to stick it or what is looking like nowadays, lmao. Ever seen Face Off?


Haven't liked his looks since the Welcome back Kotter days.
Now... Jason Momoa. *grrrrrr... purrrrr. His wife Lisa Bonet is one lucky biotch to go from Lenny Kravitz to Momoa. Why yes, I am jellus. :)




You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
^^^
no
Waving your hands in front of her or tapping her shoulder might
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 146
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 9:22:18 AM
I will state the obvious about the movie "Face/Off"...that was darn fine acting by both leads, to pick up the mannerisms of the other actor. Travolta might be so Scientologist that he made that stinker movie about it, but he does seem to be a great pilot, if his recorded seat time is any indicator.

don't know a thing about his looks, tho. can't contribute to that debate.
 ThePig0fYourDreams
Joined: 2/2/2015
Msg: 147
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 9:29:53 AM
John Travolta. Oh, boy.

When I was a wee lad, my mother used to love going to garage sales. I remember one weekend she went out to them, came home, and as she entered the door, enthusiastically announced that she got me something.

She reached into a huge bag, and pulled out a mammoth sized pillow that had John Travolta's face on it. Why the hell she thought I wanted something like that is beyond me. I kept the piece of shit to not appear to be an ingrate, but I did tell her to look out for a Darth Vader one next time. I ended up throwing the Travolta pillow into the fireplace years later when she and my stepfather went on a weekend trip.

Coincidentally, Travolta and I share the same birthday.
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 148
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 9:31:58 AM
You guys just had to ruin it huh? lol

Lisa Bonet is one fine looking woman, they are equally fortunately to have had her. Did you see her offspring? what a fine looking woman as well. All of these 4 people have very special traits, gorgeous facial features, and some sort of spiritual vibe.

vvvvvvv
He was too slim for my taste in Staying Alive.

Pig,

Unless the pillow resembled life-size measurements, I'd thrown it in the fireplace as well.
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 149
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 9:33:22 AM
The last time I thought Travolta was hot was in Staying Alive - and that was a long, long time ago. He was gorgeous and built very nicely in that movie.

I don't take away from his actor talent though. Pig that pillow story cracked me up. I can imagine what your face must have looked like when that thing came out of the bag.
 ThePig0fYourDreams
Joined: 2/2/2015
Msg: 150
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 9:36:40 AM

Pig that pillow story cracked me up. I can imagine what your face must have looked like when that thing came out of the bag.


I had to hold back the tears.

Oh, Lisa Bonet. What was that weird voodoo movie she was in years ago? The one Bill Cosby was ashamed of her for doing.....that was some hot shit.
 CharminC
Joined: 2/19/2011
Msg: 151
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 9:40:52 AM
Oh people.. the things I could tell you about all those celebs. And yes, Belle... Zoe is quite the beautiful offspring of her parents.

Pig, the move you are referring to is Angel Heart.
 clooneystutor
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 152
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 9:43:14 AM
I quite fancied the Wonder Woman lunch box my mom gave me.

Linda Carter is still hawt :)
 ThePig0fYourDreams
Joined: 2/2/2015
Msg: 153
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 9:55:08 AM

Pig,

Unless the pillow resembled life-size measurements, I'd thrown it in the fireplace as well.


This thing was f*cking hideous, I tell you. It was him dressed as Vinnie Barbarino (his Welcome Back Kotter character) on one side, and the other side was bright yellow. (holy shit, I just found a picture of it by doing a Bing search)

Linda Carter. Oh, hell yes. She helped tremendously in pulling me out of my "girls are icky" phase.
 clooneystutor
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 154
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 9:59:58 AM
Wild Hogs was fun.

Until the scene where Travolta and Tim Allen go skinny dipping and share their moobs...ewwwww!
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 155
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 10:21:58 AM
Yellow................my least favorite color, how lovely of your mom to gift you such an ugly pillow :-P
 ThePig0fYourDreams
Joined: 2/2/2015
Msg: 156
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 10:41:48 AM
And funny enough, your default photo is overwhelmingly yellow.

:)
 Divinebeing
Joined: 6/4/2015
Msg: 157
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 10:54:02 AM
When I was going thru puberty aka IN HEAT, I used to do silly things like watch The Price is Right hoping that Dian Parkinson would be wearing a bikini, lol

I was big on Cheryl Ladd of Charlie's Angels as well .... for the same reason.
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 158
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 10:56:25 AM

And funny enough, your default photo is overwhelmingly yellow.

:)


It was a sunny day and the store had clear glass, plus the walls are yellow. My beach wrap is beige, let's not get it twisted :-P


Still, all that yellow around had to make you ill. I know it would have bothered me. I can't stay in a place with red walls for too long. It makes me angry.


I was okay because I was scarfing down some garlic knots with marinara sauce, and my own mini pizza pie. I left shortly after, but the picture does sorta annoy me, my legs look tanned, like wth. I'm changing it shortly.
 ThePig0fYourDreams
Joined: 2/2/2015
Msg: 159
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 11:12:36 AM

I used to do silly things like watch The Price is Right hoping that Dian Parkinson would be wearing a bikini, lol


All of the Barker Beauties were great, but she was the best.



It was a sunny day and the store had clear glass, plus the walls are yellow. My beach wrap is beige, let's not get it twisted


Still, all that yellow around had to make you ill. I know it would have bothered me. I can't stay in a place with red walls for too long. It makes me angry.
 CrookCatcher
Joined: 7/14/2014
Msg: 160
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 11:44:08 AM

I was big on Cheryl Ladd of Charlie's Angels as well .... for the same reason.


Mine was Barbara Eden.....finally got to spend the evening with her at a cast party and dancing. She was in her early to mid 40's then, I was 28. Holy smokes....

Spent the evening with a few playmates as an escort in club venue's dancing etc. Miss August had a bit to much in Athen's one night.....but that's another story. It was a tough job but somebody had to do it.

Tomorrow chapter two from the history books. :)
 Kissfromarose77
Joined: 4/13/2015
Msg: 161
You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 5:53:56 PM

I can't stay in a place with red walls for too long


Huh huh huh! You said "long"!
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
Msg: 162
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You have to ignore a girl to get her attention?
Posted: 6/12/2015 7:25:30 PM
tgrlily

I guess those guys are just trying their luck with you again, because they have no other prospects?? A guy does that with me, he is gone.... again..... Had one text me 6 months after no contact because he was passing through, I told him to keep on driving.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 163
Phoebe Cates out of the pool
Posted: 6/12/2015 9:38:51 PM
I remember a science paper years back, about the effect of red paint on walls on the temperament of people inside. I think someone made the mistake of painting a jail cell that color over the usual vomit green.

off the top of my head, I think the first celebrity to get my attention was Jenny Agutter in "Logan's Run." Decades later i'd find out about the movie "Walkabout", where she set an earlier generation of males on fire. I guess every generation has some actress that made them sit upright in their seat.
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