Well, I'm not really worried, because I take things slower than a snail, but it seems to make sense to me that someone who moves faster would have those fears.
I still maintain that the fright of being duped is not entirely homophobic: It's the matter of not wanting to be with a man period. Sure it's unexplorative, but a choice that many make.
It sounded like you were worried because of the post you created. No one wants to be duped about anything. No, the fright of being duped is not homophobic at all. We agree on that. The disgust or worry about a woman being a tranny is. But since you’re not afraid or worried I’m not sure what the issue or problem is. I don’t see why you should be with a man if that is not what you choose? You don’t have to be with anyone you don’t want to. Can’t a tranny have a conversation with you if the interest is mutual? She can’t know everything about you as much as you don’t know everything about her when you are just starting to get to know each other.