|Thanks everyone for the replies I really appreciate it.|
Lemme clear a couple things first:
1.Yes I do have a POF account however like I said before it was made 3 years ago which means 1 year before we started dating so for the past 2 years this account has been inactive, I came back on here recently because A)if this relationship didn't work out I remembered I had this to do some fishing and B)I knew that the forums here were here to help people like myself.
2.To everyone who says "join in and get some"first of all not every man out there fantasizes about their girl getting it on with another chick and even so it has nothing to do with whether it is a guy or girl it is the principle, the trust and faithfulness in the relationship.
Anyways thanks to some of you guys and the counsel of others I have decided to put an end to our relationship...probably the hardest thing I've had do do but it had to be done. I did leave the option for us to get back together in the future, at least this way I have no regrets and if she is the one she will come back and if not then like ladyc4 said
the world ain't gonna stop turning but thanks a lot guys you have really helped me out here.