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 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 38
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What a waste of time and petrol that was!!!!. Incredible that he would bother to do that, with a stranger on the off chance you would hit it off. Or did he expect to stay over, because of the distance. Or did he had to drive the 6 hours home again???

I had a guy who lived 90 minutes from me but wouldn't come unless he was sure he was going to get some. He felt the effort he put in plus the petrol gave him the right to expect it.
 Dan6308
Joined: 10/23/2013
Msg: 39
How far would you travel for sex?
Posted: 12/5/2014 11:15:56 PM
If it was someone I was eager to have sex with, hours by car halfway around the world by plane!
 Dan198508
Joined: 11/7/2014
Msg: 40
How far would you travel for sex?
Posted: 12/6/2014 8:37:05 AM

If it was someone I was eager to have sex with, hours by car halfway around the world by plane!


Another Dan! :) :) :)
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 41
How far would you travel for sex?
Posted: 12/6/2014 3:44:34 PM
Most women don't make judgements about wanting sex with a stranger, just by his ad. Girls don't have to drive any distance to get some action, if they are half way decent looking, just down to the local bar, would do it. So you see it is very different for a lot of guys than it is for most girls.

I have taken a three hour plane ride to meet a guy for sex but it was for the week end and he paid.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
Msg: 42
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Posted: 12/6/2014 11:15:33 PM
For sex?...hmmm, I prob place it in the same box as other things I like to do but could do without. So it would follow my basic rule of thumb,which is 30-35 minutes drive.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 43
How far would you travel for sex?
Posted: 12/8/2014 6:54:50 PM
Within a hour. Unless a woman was extremely attractive. Then I might make an exception.
 Onyxbutterflies90
Joined: 10/14/2014
Msg: 44
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Posted: 12/8/2014 7:15:36 PM
I wouldn't travel for casual sex. What's the point? I can use a toy and don't have to shave. I'll travel any distance to make love to my boyfriend.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
Msg: 45
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Posted: 12/8/2014 7:22:15 PM
Casual sex should be met half way in my opinion.
As for toys, I can agree there. Toys do take the edge off when you got to get a quicky in but don't feel like going out. Not that I could actually pick up women when I wanted FYI, I speak in general terms.
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 46
How far would you travel for sex?
Posted: 12/8/2014 8:10:51 PM
Dan

I kind of doubt you would do all that just for sex. With your looks you certainly would not have to. Love and attraction (obsession whatever) would have to be there for you to make that kind of effort, right??? Certainly it would for me. Then distance is not a problem at all. All for love, baby!!!
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 47
How far would you travel for sex?
Posted: 12/8/2014 8:25:10 PM
When I was single, factors that would go into my decision.

If I drive 30 miles, do I get to also sleep there that night or do I have to drive back again soon after? Big factor.

I think for a casual hookup, 30 miles is too far. Unless maybe she lives on a beach, or some place I want to visit, and/or I can stay the night.
 wooweewoo13
Joined: 7/7/2013
Msg: 48
How far would you travel for sex?
Posted: 12/9/2014 3:58:10 AM
Unless I felt we had more than the physical in common...I wouldnt travel for that....and if I did I would think we would spend some time together doing other things
 Dan6308
Joined: 10/23/2013
Msg: 49
How far would you travel for sex?
Posted: 12/10/2014 2:23:14 AM

petula1908
I kind of doubt you would do all that just for sex. With your looks you certainly would not have to. Love and attraction (obsession whatever) would have to be there for you to make that kind of effort, right??? Certainly it would for me. Then distance is not a problem at all. All for love, baby!!!


I don't know about the other Dan, but I wouldn't travel just for sex with any reasonably attractive woman.

I would for someone I really fancied.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 50
How far would you travel for sex?
Posted: 12/13/2014 8:52:52 PM
I did once drive for 150 miles while getting road head, does that count?
 ozsealady1
Joined: 6/13/2013
Msg: 51
How far would you travel for sex?
Posted: 12/13/2014 9:00:43 PM
For meaningless sex???? Would not bother.

To spend time with my significant other?
I flew from Sydney to London to be with my husband after him being away for 3 months.
I think that is 10,000 miles.
 taxman_61
Joined: 4/9/2006
Msg: 52
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Posted: 12/28/2014 3:28:59 PM
No way. Half of the hook ups are a police officer on the other end trying to set some guy up to be arrested.
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 53
How far would you travel for sex?
Posted: 12/28/2014 3:34:24 PM
A guy may drive 30 miles for sex if he is really horny. A woman? only if she really already knows the guy and fancies him.

Ozsealady
Yes can relate to that. Travelled to US to see my guy.
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 54
How far would you travel for sex?
Posted: 12/28/2014 3:41:23 PM
After all 30 miles is about half an hour's drive. I am sure men from dating sites travel much further than that just for coffee meet with a stranger. I am sure some women do too and without the prospect of sex.
 bluespikedshell
Joined: 9/4/2014
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Posted: 12/31/2014 12:53:56 PM
Not far. Same for a date. I wouldn't want a long-distance relationship let alone driving that far just for sex. Gas isn't cheap.
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