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 1388SmartBlonde
Joined: 5/15/2011
Msg: 23
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Sounds like a recipe for carpal tunnel...maybe that's it! He had yanked his wanker so many times his own hands no longer had the stamina to get the job done. Unless he has multimillions and a villa in France, save yourself and your wrists...find someone else.
 itsallhappening50
Joined: 9/26/2012
Msg: 24
Handjobs only...
Posted: 10/1/2012 9:56:31 AM
Had a girlfriend a long time ago who was similar. Very passionate until she had an orgasm {fingers only, wouldn't allow anything else} and then she'd go as cold as ice and want me to leave needless to say this didn't last long
 stayinalivefl
Joined: 8/23/2012
Msg: 25
Handjobs only...
Posted: 10/1/2012 10:44:46 AM
Hold him w/ one hand and slowly show a knife in the other hand ,,,,lol.
 STAYREALOK
Joined: 4/3/2012
Msg: 26
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Posted: 10/1/2012 12:22:32 PM

Hold him w/ one hand and slowly show a knife in the other hand ,,,,lol.


Thanks for the laugh! I almost spewed my coffee on my screen.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 27
Handjobs only...
Posted: 10/1/2012 12:54:23 PM
The purpose of sex is for one person to give pleasure to the other person, while that person also provides pleasure to the other one. When that is broken, meaning only one person gets' off, or is only interested on the needs of only one person, it eventually fails.

So, you need to ask? What are your needs? Does this person satisfies your needs? If the answer is no, to hell with the rest. Move on.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 10/2/2012 2:08:51 AM


ordinary p-in-v sex holds no interest. It's pathetic and selfish. These guys forget the existence of the other person in the pursuit of their own pleasure.


so P in V is the only form of unselfish sex?
Hmmmmm...... Some members (not all) of the ALT. sex community might disagree!

Guys are selfish but Gals (not all) with their vag numbingly large vibrators that can not come with their partner during PinV sex are not?

Some of my best orgasms was during alt. sex ! I had to stop or I would have been "spoiled".
 _shakti_
Joined: 7/5/2011
Msg: 29
Handjobs only...
Posted: 10/2/2012 9:22:33 AM

Some of my best orgasms was during alt. sex ! I had to stop or I would have been "spoiled".
Forgive my ignorance, but what is alt. sex?
 ComplekCity
Joined: 1/17/2011
Msg: 30
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Posted: 10/2/2012 9:40:49 AM

Forgive my ignorance, but what is alt. sex?


Something to do with altar boys perhaps ?

LOL
 STAYREALOK
Joined: 4/3/2012
Msg: 31
Handjobs only...
Posted: 10/2/2012 9:46:15 AM
After the previous comments handjobs don't sound so bad. Thanks for the laugh!
 hung4usuckit
Joined: 9/24/2012
Msg: 32
Handjobs only...
Posted: 10/2/2012 12:02:29 PM
lol what a bunch of bs I have jerked of 2 or 3 times a day since i was 11 never has affected me ( plus all the screwing i do)
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 33
Handjobs only...
Posted: 10/2/2012 1:09:14 PM
Alt. sex= alternative sex. Kinks an fetishes.
Masturbation does not desensitise one towards sex. It is a healthy practice. The penis, like any muscle needs regular excersise. Use it or lose it. It also helps maintain healthy levels of testosterone and helps in preventing both erectile disfunction and premature ejaculation, the latter from being too sensitive.
On topic, this guys obsession with hand jobs has taken this relatively vanilla activity and turned it into his fetish. The real problem his he is a selfish lover and refuses to satisfy her desires. Selfish lovers are boring lovers.
 _shakti_
Joined: 7/5/2011
Msg: 34
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Posted: 10/2/2012 1:20:29 PM
^^ Thanks.

lol what a bunch of bs I have jerked of 2 or 3 times a day since i was 11 never has affected me
You're only 19! Hahaha.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 35
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Posted: 10/2/2012 1:41:51 PM
Yeah, when I was 19 I could toss it off 2 or 3 times a day too and shoot for distance.
 Oncetwice57
Joined: 7/4/2012
Msg: 36
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Posted: 10/3/2012 4:29:14 AM
Kinda wierd and as a guy looking st your profile.....thats the last thing I would do with you.....got to be others that would spark your interest!....two adults support each other in all ways.....good luck and be safe!
 Bebedeleau
Joined: 6/8/2011
Msg: 37
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Posted: 10/3/2012 8:59:12 AM
This is so easy. I'm guessing he's a middle aged man. It's just ED and the hand job is the last thing that "works." Eventually that won't "work" either. It's just time for viagra or a penile implant.
 STAYREALOK
Joined: 4/3/2012
Msg: 38
Handjobs only...
Posted: 10/3/2012 11:25:50 AM
Did he pay you if not why did you go through it. What is wrong with me I never met a woman like you to push around

In answer to your question I wouldn't be complaining if he paid me! But since I'm not a paid pro I did it because we actually did enjoy each other's company before we decided to became intimate. I don't have ESP and it was only after I forced the conversation, after being intimate a few times, that he finally admitted he only had vag sex about 1.1%of the time, which I can now call bs on, and admitted he didn't like bjs at all. He never answered the question as to why he only liked handjobs. Had he been upfront about it from the beginning I would have 'run forrest run'.

So in answer to your second question I don't let men push me around and good luck to you in finding one.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 39
Handjobs only...
Posted: 1/11/2013 11:31:34 AM

It's most likely because he has completely desensitized himself by excessively masturbating.


Agree. Also OP does this guy watches a lot of porn?
 wink558
Joined: 1/8/2013
Msg: 40
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Posted: 1/11/2013 3:35:17 PM

The answer to wheather or not he gave me pleasure would be yes in the beginning. I'll be honest and say it was the first time I had ever squirted which would be why I stuck around longer than I should have.


There is your answer right there. Clearly the guy was turned off by a woman that squirts and wanted no part of your vagina after that, so handjobs it was. Not all men are into women that squirt, some find it disgusting.
 LivvyH.
Joined: 6/14/2012
Msg: 41
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Posted: 1/11/2013 4:21:21 PM
No I have not. Thank goodness. It sounds boring and unsatisfying. For me.
 Mainepostmaster
Joined: 7/15/2011
Msg: 42
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Posted: 1/11/2013 4:26:24 PM
The dude isnt right, a handjob over a bj? must be gay lol sorry not a homophobe but come on dude
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 43
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Posted: 1/11/2013 9:55:35 PM
No
While I DO dig a good 2-fister, on occasion...or regularly...
Oral is the best...most intimate way of stimulating a partner.
I generally prefer ~1st Dive~ ...unless she's Insistant on doing me, first!!
 STAYREALOK
Joined: 4/3/2012
Msg: 44
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Posted: 1/11/2013 11:25:29 PM

There is your answer right there. Clearly the guy was turned off by a woman that squirts and wanted no part of your vagina after that, so handjobs it was. Not all men are into women that squirt, some find it disgusting.

Without getting in details I'll just say it had nothing whatsoever to do with squirting.

As far as excessive masterbating that wasn't the case either. In fact after I had perfected his idea of a "perfect handjob" he actually stopped masterbating all together. His words "I gave him the best handjob and best sex he'd ever had in his life' which included his own.
 wink558
Joined: 1/8/2013
Msg: 45
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Posted: 1/12/2013 7:04:32 AM
Hmmm thats perplexing then. I suppose the wildcard could be he loves watching you make him cum?? I mean, my ex used to jerk me off onto her face and it was pretty cool. I dont know what you guys had going on but if you were taking his load on your face or rack, maybe he lusted for that scenario..who knows
 grove_22
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 46
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Posted: 1/12/2013 9:32:25 AM
Perhaps it is some type of a weird fetish. Or he is married / in a relationship and doesn't want to do anything more with you. Or he is paranoid about STDs / getting a woman pregnant.
 STAYREALOK
Joined: 4/3/2012
Msg: 47
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Posted: 2/18/2013 9:20:48 PM

Hmmm thats perplexing then. I suppose the wildcard could be he loves watching you make him cum?? I mean, my ex used to jerk me off onto her face and it was pretty cool. I dont know what you guys had going on but if you were taking his load on your face or rack, maybe he lusted for that scenario..who knows


Oh lord I do wish I hadn't come and read the updates and then I wouldn't feel it necessary to respond. Here goes nothing. It had nothing to do with him watching..he always liked to be tied and blindfolded.
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