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 Bebedeleau
Joined: 6/8/2011
Msg: 37
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This is so easy. I'm guessing he's a middle aged man. It's just ED and the hand job is the last thing that "works." Eventually that won't "work" either. It's just time for viagra or a penile implant.
 STAYREALOK
Joined: 4/3/2012
Msg: 38
Handjobs only...
Posted: 10/3/2012 11:25:50 AM
Did he pay you if not why did you go through it. What is wrong with me I never met a woman like you to push around

In answer to your question I wouldn't be complaining if he paid me! But since I'm not a paid pro I did it because we actually did enjoy each other's company before we decided to became intimate. I don't have ESP and it was only after I forced the conversation, after being intimate a few times, that he finally admitted he only had vag sex about 1.1%of the time, which I can now call bs on, and admitted he didn't like bjs at all. He never answered the question as to why he only liked handjobs. Had he been upfront about it from the beginning I would have 'run forrest run'.

So in answer to your second question I don't let men push me around and good luck to you in finding one.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 39
Handjobs only...
Posted: 1/11/2013 11:31:34 AM

It's most likely because he has completely desensitized himself by excessively masturbating.


Agree. Also OP does this guy watches a lot of porn?
 wink558
Joined: 1/8/2013
Msg: 40
Handjobs only...
Posted: 1/11/2013 3:35:17 PM

The answer to wheather or not he gave me pleasure would be yes in the beginning. I'll be honest and say it was the first time I had ever squirted which would be why I stuck around longer than I should have.


There is your answer right there. Clearly the guy was turned off by a woman that squirts and wanted no part of your vagina after that, so handjobs it was. Not all men are into women that squirt, some find it disgusting.
 LivvyH.
Joined: 6/14/2012
Msg: 41
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Posted: 1/11/2013 4:21:21 PM
No I have not. Thank goodness. It sounds boring and unsatisfying. For me.
 Mainepostmaster
Joined: 7/15/2011
Msg: 42
Handjobs only...
Posted: 1/11/2013 4:26:24 PM
The dude isnt right, a handjob over a bj? must be gay lol sorry not a homophobe but come on dude
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 43
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Posted: 1/11/2013 9:55:35 PM
No
While I DO dig a good 2-fister, on occasion...or regularly...
Oral is the best...most intimate way of stimulating a partner.
I generally prefer ~1st Dive~ ...unless she's Insistant on doing me, first!!
 STAYREALOK
Joined: 4/3/2012
Msg: 44
Handjobs only...
Posted: 1/11/2013 11:25:29 PM

There is your answer right there. Clearly the guy was turned off by a woman that squirts and wanted no part of your vagina after that, so handjobs it was. Not all men are into women that squirt, some find it disgusting.

Without getting in details I'll just say it had nothing whatsoever to do with squirting.

As far as excessive masterbating that wasn't the case either. In fact after I had perfected his idea of a "perfect handjob" he actually stopped masterbating all together. His words "I gave him the best handjob and best sex he'd ever had in his life' which included his own.
 wink558
Joined: 1/8/2013
Msg: 45
Handjobs only...
Posted: 1/12/2013 7:04:32 AM
Hmmm thats perplexing then. I suppose the wildcard could be he loves watching you make him cum?? I mean, my ex used to jerk me off onto her face and it was pretty cool. I dont know what you guys had going on but if you were taking his load on your face or rack, maybe he lusted for that scenario..who knows
 grove_22
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 46
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Posted: 1/12/2013 9:32:25 AM
Perhaps it is some type of a weird fetish. Or he is married / in a relationship and doesn't want to do anything more with you. Or he is paranoid about STDs / getting a woman pregnant.
 STAYREALOK
Joined: 4/3/2012
Msg: 47
Handjobs only...
Posted: 2/18/2013 9:20:48 PM

Hmmm thats perplexing then. I suppose the wildcard could be he loves watching you make him cum?? I mean, my ex used to jerk me off onto her face and it was pretty cool. I dont know what you guys had going on but if you were taking his load on your face or rack, maybe he lusted for that scenario..who knows


Oh lord I do wish I hadn't come and read the updates and then I wouldn't feel it necessary to respond. Here goes nothing. It had nothing to do with him watching..he always liked to be tied and blindfolded.
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