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 pescando75
Joined: 3/23/2012
Msg: 13
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Do you always skip to conclusion, OP?

I've *been* to a gay bar. I can assure you I am not gay. I went with some female friends who had gay male friends.
If he is perhaps open minded enough to go, and his going makes him "gay" in your mind, you aren't a match in the least anyway.

Anything else you have to go on pointing to his "gayness" in the three times you hung out? Otherwise, you are reaching.
 annywn
Joined: 4/17/2012
Msg: 14
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 10/12/2012 5:31:32 PM
Gay bars are a hoot and ahalf/! You shouldgo and dance to modonna all nght!
 Paddy_o_Lantern
Joined: 5/24/2012
Msg: 15
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 10/12/2012 6:54:41 PM
Gay bars are a hoot and ahalf/!


I think straight women in general are more comfortable with the idea of a gay woman finding them attractive than straight men are with gay men finding them attractive. I went out to a gay bar once with a group of straight friends ( 4 guys and 3 girls ) once in Vancouver in the 80's it was an interesting experience but the music was bad ( too much disco for me ) and it was not something I have had a desire to repeat.

I prefer to hang out where I like the music and I feel like I fit in or have a common element with the crowd
 HaydenFan
Joined: 10/19/2011
Msg: 16
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 10/12/2012 8:42:03 PM
Pish posh, I'm straighter than a grizzly's****and I love goin to the gay bars. If you don't mind being pawed at for being the straight dude, it's a riot.
 Paddy_o_Lantern
Joined: 5/24/2012
Msg: 17
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 10/12/2012 11:14:15 PM
Pish posh


To each thier own...
 AxeMurderer75
Joined: 6/6/2012
Msg: 18
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 10/13/2012 12:11:39 AM
Need more info.

A guy going to a gay bar isn't necessarily just gay. Could be bi.
 ShelbySask4friend1
Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 19
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 10/13/2012 12:19:54 AM
Maybe, he was testing how shallow you might be...

I take it you would not date someone, who wanted to give "that" a try...

Maybe, you mistook leading for dis interest...
 pescando75
Joined: 3/23/2012
Msg: 20
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 10/13/2012 9:47:12 AM

A guy going to a gay bar isn't necessarily just gay. Could be bi.

We don't even know who he went with. He could be completely straight and went with other straight/gay/bi friends.
Fail on Logic 101.

"Bob" is straight.
All men who go to gay bars are gay or bi.
Therefore, "Bob" is gay.

Well, if I ever want to "become" gay, I guess I just need to go to a gay bar. Good to know, people! Thanks!
 coderedjulia1
Joined: 5/27/2012
Msg: 21
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 10/13/2012 6:26:46 PM
Maybe he is bi and wants to give guys a try. Even so, if someone blows me off to go to a gay bar to troll for men, I'm gonna tell that person to lose my number.
 spot4username
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 22
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 1/5/2013 10:48:55 PM
YOU TURNED HIM GAY!!!

Just kidding. No telling. *shrug* Could be the truth, could be giving you the brush off, could be testing your boundaries. Who knows?
 Space_Weaver
Joined: 11/27/2012
Msg: 23
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 1/6/2013 1:36:48 AM
Can you say date sabotage.
 Kiki_Buttons
Joined: 12/29/2012
Msg: 24
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 1/6/2013 6:01:30 AM
Maybe he is just confused and wants to see how he feels about it? Maybe he is bisexual and hasn't explored the same sex yet?
 Rheostatic
Joined: 5/27/2011
Msg: 25
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 1/6/2013 11:06:44 AM

Pish posh, I'm straighter than a grizzly's****and I love goin to the gay bars. If you don't mind being pawed at for being the straight dude, it's a riot.


Lots of free drinks I bet...what a great idea!
 brisco414
Joined: 4/20/2012
Msg: 26
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 1/6/2013 11:09:05 AM
Msg. 12:
"Maybe he lied to you to get him off your back? "

^^^
This is what I was thinking too ...an excuse, a cop out one at that because he had no interest and figured he'd turn himself gay for a few moments.
 _Meta_Man_
Joined: 7/2/2012
Msg: 27
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 1/6/2013 11:54:03 AM
Damn woman you did not even bed him and turned him gay!
 FensterMcManus
Joined: 2/13/2011
Msg: 28
Why lead a girl on if you're gay?
Posted: 1/19/2013 4:48:01 PM
If you even have thoughts about gay acts...you are gay...so shoot yourself in the head...That's where it is messed up...Even God killed gays...read Sodom...eos
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