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 Fleuron
Joined: 8/18/2010
Msg: 76
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Op,you've already "drawn the line" as per your profile where you say you'll go TWENTY YEARS YOUNGER but only THREE YEARS OLDER.


THREE years older? Do numbers go that high?


Okay, that was mean. ;p
 jan1025
Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 77
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Posted: 10/24/2012 7:30:51 AM
The symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder can be similar to the traits of individuals with strong self-esteem and confidence; differentiation occurs when the underlying psychological structures of these traits are considered pathological. Narcissists have such an elevated sense of self-worth that they value themselves as inherently better than others. Yet, they have a fragile self-esteem and cannot handle criticism, and will often try to compensate for this inner fragility by belittling or disparaging others in an attempt to validate their own self-worth. It is this sadistic tendency that is characteristic of narcissism as opposed to other psychological conditions affecting level of self-worth. [6]

Gwen, don't answer him (see above), lol... seriously....
He'll just want to fight with you all the time...
 GardenGal2008
Joined: 10/25/2008
Msg: 78
How young is too young for a 69 year old man
Posted: 10/24/2012 7:36:43 AM
I think if a older man can get a younger woman ............more power to him but usually its not you they want but what you have or will spend on them or because they need to be taken care of, and don't know better but as they grow up they realize gee this was a mistake .......and will move on but not before they make you pay............
 rearguard*2
Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 79
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Posted: 10/24/2012 7:38:19 AM
Oh, I think Gwen has conquered another heart....She should try to let him down easily. Its a lonely life on the road and those 20 somethings at the truck stops are easy to date for a guy with a big truck, but let's face it, "meaningful" does not describe the relationships.......

Actually, I am beginning to believe Lothario's profile, and that he is making all this stuff up just to have fun on the net.....including his profile.......
 jan1025
Joined: 3/23/2009
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Posted: 10/24/2012 7:47:26 AM
I suppose you are right, I guess, if i lived out of a back of a pickup truck and sweet talked a bunch of kids for a thrill I would become lonely and desperate and go on free sites with free forums to get attention too! What a life!

My bad, my apologies, not!
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 81
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Posted: 10/24/2012 7:48:30 AM
OP..You're never too old to 69. Wait a minute...you're 69.

vvvvv Testosterone gives us our drive. Every 11 minutes is a slow day!
 jan1025
Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 82
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Posted: 10/24/2012 7:55:26 AM
Yeap 69 is the answer when you can't afford Viagra anymore for your ED! Thumbs up on that one! I wonder if Viagra goes well with heart pressure medicine? hum?

Why are men like this, almost as if they never will evolve....Why? Why can't men be happy with living instead of thinking below the belt all the time? I'm glad I was born a female I couldn't imagine thinking about sex every 11 minutes, you guys must be tired and confused all the time, lol With that said, I feel sorry for the male species, and the means they go after just to make themselves relieved.

There is medicine for you to stop acting like you NEED SEX.... just saying.
 L0thari0
Joined: 9/8/2012
Msg: 83
How young is too young for a 69 year old man
Posted: 10/24/2012 8:28:25 AM
I suppose you are right, I guess, if i lived out of a back of a pickup truck and sweet talked a bunch of kids for a thrill I would become lonely and desperate and go on free sites with free forums to get attention too! What a life!

My bad, my apologies, not!


Please, I live in a International Prostar, not a pick up.
 VoxClamantis
Joined: 2/19/2008
Msg: 84
How young is too young for a 69 year old man
Posted: 10/24/2012 9:38:50 AM
Lets see now.

In the last five years I've gone from 23 to 76, but I've never gone over 135.
 rearguard*2
Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 10/24/2012 9:50:24 AM

There is medicine for you to stop acting like you NEED SEX.... just saying.


If men were not consistently interested in sex, women would be quite generally depressed. In spite of ourselves we are driven to seek out female companionship, and are pretty well driven to accommodate the requires of the ladies to satisfy this need. It would be a pretty depressing world if the sex drive of the species was less predominant. Simply look at the worlds animals which only come together briefly to mate, then live the rest of their lives largely alone. I am pretty certain that only a small sample of women would want that kind of a situation......

Be happy men are always thinking about sex. It means you can always find a partner, if you really want one.
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
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Posted: 10/24/2012 10:17:30 AM

jan1025

There is medicine for you to stop acting like you NEED SEX.... just saying.


And just exactly why would I want to do that? As I look back on my long life (thankfully not yet over), many of the high points, the most memorable moments of my life, have involved sex and/or sexual attraction. Not all of the high points, but a great many of them.



I feel sorry for the male species, and the means they go after just to make themselves relieved.


Please don’t waste your sympathies on me, I have had a very good life, and there is a lot left to come. I do feel sorry for you (not the female species, just you, Jan). If you don’t think about sex, and enjoy sex, you must have lived an unimaginably boring life. I wouldn’t want to be you. Thank [insert The Seven Names of God here], most women are not like you.
 jan1025
Joined: 3/23/2009
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Posted: 10/24/2012 10:21:42 AM
Where in this tread does it say I don't like sex? Ignorance breeds ignorance, really and No comment on the "most memorable moments" except OMG that just proves many things!

Women depressed over not having sex? Really, I don't believe that women get depressed over not having sex, I don't think so.... Look up what the medical institutions say about how often the human body and mind medically; health wise is a normal sex drive. Other than that, it's considered "excessive" or a form of mental illness. I can't believe the things people talk themselves into without discovering other aspects of life!

Cheers!
 professorjudy
Joined: 10/10/2012
Msg: 88
How young is too young for a 69 year old man
Posted: 10/24/2012 11:07:50 AM
Actually I am 71...and proud of who I am and how I look..
 L0thari0
Joined: 9/8/2012
Msg: 89
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Posted: 10/24/2012 11:41:37 AM
As long as everyone involved is over the age of consent, hasn't been forced or manipulated into doing something they don't want to do and have the mental capacity to understand what they're doing, it's no one else's business. Enjoy each other's bodies to the best of your abilities.

As for the long term relationship issues, Can it work? Yes, others have had very long and happy May to December relationships. But, that doesn't mean it will last. However, there are no guarantees when everyone involved are close in age either.

All relationships will end one day. If the very best thing happens, one person will die. If you have an opportunity to add a little happiness to your all too short existence you'd be foolish to pass it up.
 lavenderandred
Joined: 8/18/2012
Msg: 90
How young is too young for a 69 year old man
Posted: 10/24/2012 2:08:01 PM
Hi...I think your question was very straight to the point, but a lot of people have different views...

I being 61 and a woman find it appropriate to chat, date etc with the age range of 55 and 80 so to say...reason being, when "I" was a younger person...having a guy about 5-6 years younger than myself was the :fun" run around guy...and the men 5-6 years older were more settled and serious...AND it seems to work about the same now, with the exception that the older gentlemen are more fun now, as they for the most part do not have the job tearing them in two.

And I understood what you were saying about the step mom thing...lol.

Age knows no boundries at our age.....but I as an older...bolder woman, see alot of guys our age group, looking for 40 year old hard bodies, that makes me wonder about how much has that person reallllllllllllly learned in life...

Take care & best of luck.
 timeforall
Joined: 8/26/2012
Msg: 91
How young is too young for a 69 year old man
Posted: 10/24/2012 2:22:50 PM

Yes, well, you must realize that men over 60 are decrepit, impotent, deaf, blind, senile, require constant nursing care and smell bad. Ooops...I forgot incontinent, obese, broke and addicted to beer and TV. I am not personally that way, but that is a different story.


Maybe so, but most of them have no trouble dating women their age from my personal observations.
 timeforall
Joined: 8/26/2012
Msg: 92
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Posted: 10/24/2012 2:25:25 PM

.......and will move on but not before they make you pay............


A guy dating a much younger woman expects to pay, he just expects great sex in return. Its a fair exchange if you ask me. She has something he wants, he has something she wants. Strictly business.
 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 93
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Posted: 10/24/2012 2:26:01 PM
Yes, well, you must realize that men over 60 are decrepit, impotent, deaf, blind, senile, require constant nursing care and smell bad.


Not all of them *grins*


...mae
 ventti
Joined: 4/4/2012
Msg: 94
How young is too young for a 69 year old man
Posted: 10/24/2012 2:43:54 PM
^^LOL..no, not all of them..lol..
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 95
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Posted: 10/24/2012 2:56:50 PM

Most of we old fartesses don’t give a rat’s derriere about who dates whom. I tend to “get in on the act” when men, or women, post in forums because they seek validation for their actions. I have to admit, though, that my pet peeve is people of both sexes who rationalize their actions by saying, “I don’t look or act my age.” Uh-huh.


Old farts and fartesses, same same but different.

I don't know what a man my age is supposed to act like. I am supposed to either sleep on a lazy boy watching sports or climb trails on a mountain bike.

It seems from reading the forum, I am out of sync with my generation, but I can't tell if I am living in the past wearing rose colored glasses or ahead of my time.

All I know is, whoever said honestly is the best policy never posted on a forum.
 daveonedrum
Joined: 9/3/2012
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Posted: 10/24/2012 3:02:53 PM
any one over 18!!!
 Whisky_River
Joined: 9/12/2010
Msg: 97
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Posted: 10/24/2012 4:49:09 PM
I find this a rather strange question from a man of 69....As others have stated I am sure the individual women, will let you know if they are attracted to a man of your age....not to mention all the other variables involved.
At my age now...I would find it difficult to date a man 10 years older than me....but I will never say never.
I find it hard to figure out who is really...what age anymore on here ????Shakes head....
 Gwendolyn2010
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 98
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Posted: 10/24/2012 5:06:26 PM

Gwen, don't answer him (see above), lol... seriously....
He'll just want to fight with you all the time...


Thanks for the advice!

He mentioned Kindergarten and I was a substitute teacher for seven years. There were little boys in elementary school who were desperate for attention. If they couldn't get positive attention, then they went for negative attention. Hmm . . .

And as for fighting, there is really no fighting with unarmed people!


Oh, I think Gwen has conquered another heart....She should try to let him down easily. Its a lonely life on the road and those 20 somethings at the truck stops are easy to date for a guy with a big truck, but let's face it, "meaningful" does not describe the relationships.......

Actually, I am beginning to believe Lothario's profile, and that he is making all this stuff up just to have fun on the net.....including his profile.......


You haven't talked to him in emails--and I ceased doing so.


I don't know what a man my age is supposed to act like.


None of us do, but unlike the OP, not all of us are trying to find out by getting approbation from strangers.


It seems from reading the forum, I am out of sync with my generation,


For all of my life, I have been out of sync with everyone. When I tried to pour myself into a mold, it made me unhappy and obese. However, at this stage in my life, I have found my niche: being who I am. People who feel the need to advertise that they date younger people, those who seek advice about the things that they want to do but fear censure . . . if that is who they "are," I feel a bit of pity for them.

But not enough pity to refrain from posting on POF.
 sexysunfish68
Joined: 10/12/2012
Msg: 99
How young is too young for a 69 year old man
Posted: 10/24/2012 10:30:25 PM
All those pics with your daughter dont count Lothario, or the local barmaid whatever.
 ventti
Joined: 4/4/2012
Msg: 100
How young is too young for a 69 year old man
Posted: 10/24/2012 10:36:22 PM
^^They're really old pics of yes, you guessed it, local barmaids. I was here years ago (maybe seven?) and he had those pics up.
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