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Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 68
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From what I have experienced.......kissing is MUCH more intimate than just sex.

This is just from my (being male) point of veiw.......but for instance I can be someplace public, and see a lady with a smoking hot body, and the last thing on my mind will be kissing her on the lips.

I would, however be daydreaming about kissing her inner thighs.......neck.....breasts/nipples...tummy.... I guess on second thought, my answer would be sort of.......
Joined: 11/16/2012
Msg: 69
Posted: 12/31/2012 10:36:23 AM
I am a little late. I have been out of the "game" as someone told me. I don't think what I want is a game though. Anyway. I have had my first kiss in 14 years. I think men forgot how to kiss. He just stoke his tongue in my mouth for a fishing expedition and thought that was sexy. A long, lingering kiss, lips, tenderness is so sexy and much of what I want from a man. No tonges until it gets to that "certain" point.
Joined: 9/23/2009
Msg: 70
Posted: 1/1/2013 3:40:27 AM

I think men forgot how to kiss

Men didn't forget how to kiss....'that' man you were with maybe did?

I personally like tongue...even a little tongue darting business on first kiss is warranted.
I find it hard to hold my tongue back when my lips are in action.

To me...
A kiss is just a kiss...never.
And a kick-ass-tongue-sucking-supernova-hard-wanting-soft-loving-bite-me-baby kiss ....might last forever.

Don't give up...plenty of good 'kissers' out and about.
Joined: 12/25/2012
Msg: 71
Posted: 1/1/2013 5:14:20 AM
yeah this maybe true but i think the same number of women would fit under that tent
Joined: 12/25/2012
Msg: 72
Posted: 1/1/2013 5:16:59 AM
never were more truer words spoke!
Joined: 4/8/2012
Msg: 73
Posted: 1/1/2013 5:40:38 AM
This is why making out leads to sex. She squirms, he squirms, hands start wandering & if his wander too far in her opinion, she dumps him & runs to the forums to complain that all guys just want sex.
Joined: 7/5/2011
Msg: 74
Posted: 1/17/2013 11:19:16 PM
I agree with you that kissing is more intimate than sex. Atleast for ME it is. I am flad that im not alone in it.
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 75
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Posted: 1/18/2013 12:04:28 PM
I don't really see how kissing could be more intimate than sex.

It's just a tongue going into someones mouth.

The act of two peoples genitals interlocking seems to be far more intimate.

Even oral sex would seem more intimate than kissing.
Joined: 12/28/2012
Msg: 76
Posted: 1/18/2013 12:11:49 PM
I certainly don't think it is MORE intimate but it does mirror the sexual act. Someones hard, wet, warm tongue exploring the inside of your body.

Plus, it is the first time "he" enters your body and that in itself is a special moment to remember.

So to me, kissing is definitely an intimate act and incredibly important. I would not sleep with a man on a first date nor would I kiss him...until I really, really wanted too and I was ready to have him enter my body for the first time.
Joined: 1/14/2018
Msg: 77
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Posted: 9/22/2018 5:39:24 AM
YEP...over time I have found kissing very erotic specially to woman....kind of funny because the longer I kiss her the more limp and relaxed she gets. In saying this I have never done or crossed lines unless she wanted to but never had to as I like kissing without the other physical attributes. AND if there's a next time and usually there is it just adds to the anticipation!
Posted: 9/25/2018 6:33:59 PM

I have found kissing very erotic specially to woman....

I melt when a woman starts kissing on me.
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