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 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 56
??????? * ( MY Favorites List ) * ????????Page 2 of 46    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41)
I got me some purrty men on my favoreet's list now. I mean purrty. Purrtier than a hound dog after a flea bath....
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 57
??????? * ( MY Favorites List ) * ????????
Posted: 8/29/2005 7:30:01 PM
bella Hugs...oh and i got some purrty girls on there too. Now, it ain't what ya think, they's just good friends that I like to foller round and keep them bad boys from botherin their sweet little selves.
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 59
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Posted: 8/29/2005 8:14:56 PM
I have no one on my list
 40 Something
Joined: 8/21/2005
Msg: 60
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Posted: 8/29/2005 8:35:23 PM
How Sad. Only have one freind in this world (or on this site anyway). Hmmm. 4.47 Image rating? I must also post a better pic. OMG, THAT IS MY BESTEST PIC! and even I only voted 6.

sigh Guess I'm doomed to die alone.


(kicks his cat)
 40 Something
Joined: 8/21/2005
Msg: 61
??????? * ( MY Favorites List ) * ????????
Posted: 8/29/2005 8:38:04 PM

I have no one on my list


I'll be your friend. I sure don't want to be your enemy. Nice muskles!!!
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 63
??????? * ( MY Favorites List ) * ????????
Posted: 9/3/2005 1:34:01 PM
I am on other people's lists. I just don't have "favourites" of my own.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 64
??????? * ( MY Favorites List ) * ????????
Posted: 9/3/2005 1:47:06 PM
To view who you have on your favs list, go to your mail page. Favorites is on the second line next to last on the right side. Double click it and your favs list will appear. At the top there's another button that says who's favorites list am I on, click that and it will show you who has added you to their favorites list.
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 65
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Posted: 9/3/2005 1:49:43 PM
Can also click the "who loves me" link at the bottom of the page on mail/profile page
 cool_as_f_ck
Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 67
Favorites List?????
Posted: 9/4/2005 9:08:02 PM
i love my favorites list, it's like an online catalog of boys. some i have memories of (good and bad), others are a work in progress, and then there are the few that i haven't gotten around to yet...in time!
and as for me being on somebody's list i think it's a wonderful thing. even if i don't know who they are. i'm jealous of the people with the big numbers, i'm working on it!
 Nighted
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 68
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Posted: 9/4/2005 9:37:11 PM
Good point!

I just sent a message to everyone on my favourites list.
 carribeanking7
Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 69
Favorites List?????
Posted: 9/4/2005 10:15:29 PM
I have 17 on mine......most I have communicated with

I use it as a bookmark of sorts.......they have awsome posts or start great threads..

To those I have "bookmarked" I am not stalking you...I repeat NOT stalking


On the flip side...those who added me ...about 20+ (only 2 men ...LOL)some of them on mutual favorites.
But not everybody that mails you adds you.
Some mailed me about what I said at the Forums....when I click on their profile
there are no last 5 posts....this means that there are a lot of people who read forums but dont post...so I guess they just "bookmarked " me.......
so I dont remove any body....they remove themselves.....or left the pond (8 of them) from wordgames...but we still communicate through normal mail.

Ive even toyed with the idea of adding trolls....to monitor their mischief...LOL

I guess we all have different reasons and uses for the favorites fuction.


I
 a_vamp
Joined: 4/24/2004
Msg: 70
Favorites List?????
Posted: 9/5/2005 12:19:12 AM
Oh! Most of the guys on my "Who Loves Me" list never contacted me... You mean that's "not normal"...

Hmm... I have no idea why that's happening but it doesn't really bother me... However, thanks for all you guys on the list for paying attention to my profile for a while.
 Montreal_Guy
Joined: 3/8/2004
Msg: 72
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Posted: 12/3/2006 3:58:34 PM
As I said, I see the favorites list very much like signing someone's high school yearbook. It's simply a gesture of respect and appreciation for the person, and not a marriage proposal.
 lindy_3333
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 76
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Posted: 12/4/2006 7:04:04 PM
I have this happen all the time. I add people so I don't loose them and foget to email them later. Seems if someone is readding you, maybe they are hoping you will email them, because they are too shy to email you... dont know. I just take it as a compliment and dont worry about it.

Happy fishing everyone!

Linda
 musicnut46
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 81
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Posted: 12/5/2006 3:55:17 PM
Favorites are who you would like to get to know Like saying you just know someone in person
 bolotye
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 85
Favorites List?????
Posted: 12/5/2006 11:24:48 PM
something as petty and insignifigant as my favorites list doesnt usually occur to me. If and when I do look at it...the number itself has nothing to do with the reason im here.

I simply couldnt care one way or another.
 musicnut46
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 86
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Posted: 12/6/2006 11:37:30 AM
Hey...we be talking about people whose profiles just caught your interest It's just your way of letting them now that In other word you've hooked-em...just haven'
t landed landed 'em yet "favorites" can be people you might like to meet to see what "potential" there might be.....i.e-find-out if there is any before "meeting" "Favorites" can also be people with at least "Friend" potential...i.e find-out if you would like to explore that "potential"
 Naughty Zoot
Joined: 11/2/2006
Msg: 89
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Posted: 12/6/2006 6:27:03 PM

Hate to tell you this texas - those are guys posing as girls - they like your pics!


So, are the guys doing this to me actually girls posing as guys?

I've contacted those who have listed me as favorites and have not received responses from a few. It baffles me, but I've tried to stop wondering about it. "Tried", I said...your post just brought all the questions back, Tex. Thanks for bringing it up! Maybe I'll get some answers!!
 star-dust
Joined: 8/2/2006
Msg: 90
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Posted: 12/6/2006 8:20:21 PM
I have a few people on my favorites list too, did try to contact them via the IM but never get an answer. I even send emails but nothing, so I wonder if they get the messages or not. guess I am one of those people.....LOL Maybe I am just too old for them
 musicnut46
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 91
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Posted: 12/13/2006 4:08:57 PM
Bite me Probably just not "interested" enough I usually the site to determine the "potential",then if there is any,suggest regular-e-mail
 NancyC123
Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 93
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Posted: 1/1/2007 3:00:16 PM
I found that odd, too! I'm on 3 people's favorite list and not one of them bothered to even send a hello! Eh, I'm just flattered, so I don't mind too much!
 cobaltblu
Joined: 3/6/2005
Msg: 95
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Posted: 1/1/2007 4:03:29 PM
When I first joined this site-I thought it was odd and creepy that ppl would add me to favs and not message me. I would remove myself from their favs list.

After being on here for as long as I have, I have now become the weirdo creepy perv that sees cool profiles and adds them to my favs without messaging them!!! lmao

Seriously though-one of my biggest pet peeves is hearing guys say that a girl is a real slut, or full of herself or dating tons and tons of guys if she is on many favs lists! That is such crap!

Once i had a guy message me and say "on 10 favs lists-wow how intimadating". I thought he was making fun of me-since there are girls that are on 100-400 ppls favs lists that i have seen. I wrote him back to say "oh yeah-10 whole ppl think i'm interesting-thanks" But i guess he was serious cuz he wrote back saying something to that effect. I guess we all have a different opinion/way of seeing things/perspective on things eh?!
 musicnut46
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 97
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Posted: 1/1/2007 7:53:04 PM
"favorites" can become at least "e-friends" It's just another step in the whole process,easier than being shy in public
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 100
Favorites List?????
Posted: 1/1/2007 8:40:00 PM
jesusmaryandjoesph

I am on over 100 lists....and I talk to ALL of the people who put me on their list.....if they don't correspond with me, I delete myself.

I go to a lot of events and I post alot as well so I have interacted with hundreds and hundreds of people. Apx 85% of people who put me on their lists are other WOMEN...it has nothing to do with "ego" or stroking or a popularity contest.

sheesh
 musicnut46
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 104
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Posted: 1/1/2007 9:45:51 PM
exactly...that's a song title"you had from hello" Maybe at least make a "e-friend",perhaps decide to "meet" and maybe even "click" and who knows THe wonders of E-Getting to know someone Chill-out People Just have some fun getting to know someone as well as you both might please
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