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 GeekyCrazyButCool
Joined: 11/21/2012
Msg: 81
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Most women at this age have kids and usually make it a package deal
so you not wanting kids will hurt your chances....that being said though
I agree with you to some extent.
 mrcs84
Joined: 12/9/2008
Msg: 82
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Not wanting to have kids??
Posted: 12/12/2012 6:45:01 AM
Honestly, your best bet is to date younger women. You'll will have better luck with a 20-something. Moreover, hypergamy works more in your favor.
 VolcanoKing
Joined: 8/6/2012
Msg: 83
Not wanting to have kids??
Posted: 12/12/2012 8:59:19 AM
I never wanted kids and prefer to date men who dont have them.
 kgibbs1234
Joined: 6/18/2012
Msg: 84
Not wanting to have kids??
Posted: 12/12/2012 9:45:42 AM
Maybe, but there are tons of us out there that aren't sure if we want them ourselves. I work with preschoolers, so I know how much work kids entail. I also know that it is one of the most important jobs out there, and I need to be fully sure before I bring a little one into the world. So for right now, I'll stick with a dog.

Now in two years? It may be a different story...
 GuitarHero68
Joined: 6/15/2011
Msg: 85
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Posted: 12/12/2012 12:11:55 PM
Get a vasectomy and then agree with whatever the girls say they want.
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 86
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Posted: 12/12/2012 12:15:26 PM
OP....
I certainly hope that you're age-parameters are above the 40-y.o. range!!
Most women that Can have kids...still Want kids.

I've raised 3...and just don't have the patience for them, any more!
I want to conmcentrate on ~My Partners Happiness~, now!!
 BostonTerrierx2
Joined: 12/7/2012
Msg: 87
Not wanting to have kids??
Posted: 12/12/2012 12:35:29 PM
I'll keep this short lightiningboy1...
Don't so what I did. I'm 44 and now I'm thinking that I wasted the opportunity. Fact is, bro most of us idiots that say we don't want kids would probably make the best fathers but we're so damn stubborn and scared of committment that we just shut it down. Think about your choice bro. Life gets lonley after 40. Real lonley.
 sddude
Joined: 12/9/2007
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Posted: 12/12/2012 1:35:52 PM
Well it is a choice, not bad or good, just a choice, alot of career women do not want kids, still a choice.

Bad choice would be attached to a woman wanting kids, get nutered mm I mean a vasectomy hehehe.
Live life like you want it.

I know alot of women who do not want kids.

I want kids alot of kids maybe like 15 of them so I must marry an 18 year old to incubate all of them hehehehe
 lightningman1
Joined: 1/10/2009
Msg: 89
Not wanting to have kids??
Posted: 12/12/2012 9:55:40 PM
Well i struggle as it is to catch the ladies eyes , So the idea of not wanting kids may throw a spanner in the works,But as i see it. It matters not because the works ain't working anyway....

Plus i don't believe i have Parent skills ,
Wouldn't want to bring a child into the world as an experiment that would not be fair.
As i see it you get it right the first time,
The child is not a toy.
If your suddenly not sure, You can not take he/her back to the shop.....
If you get my drift..
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