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 Brodigy
Joined: 10/26/2012
Msg: 54
why does the conversations always turn sexual???Page 5 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)
Sure but my menu consists mainly of HOT DOGS

LOL
 GeordieColin
Joined: 10/18/2012
Msg: 55
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why does the conversations always turn sexual???
Posted: 12/13/2012 2:57:01 PM
I bet many women bleating about how base and rude men are talking about sex would go into a blind panic if none of their contacts mentioned sex or steered your sexual convo away to something else.
You all love it really ;-)
 BevH86
Joined: 6/22/2008
Msg: 57
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why does the conversations always turn sexual???
Posted: 12/25/2012 1:10:09 PM
I get where your coming from, no exaggeration but every guy I have spoken to in the past few months I have noticed have turn any genuine conversation into a sexual one, stoopid things like after one day of exchanging Txs then next thing the following morning is a text about his morning glory!! I DON'T WANT TO KNOW! Iv tried politely asking if the conversation not go there and been called a bore and iv tried the stronger approach and its just ignored, makes me feel kinda cheap sometimes that a guy won't have a decent conversation with me without turning it into something sexual, I know all guys arnt like that but it's frustrating xx
 Strider886
Joined: 3/28/2006
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why does the conversations always turn sexual???
Posted: 12/26/2012 1:54:34 AM
A man talks about sex and he's a sex starved pervert

A man doesn't talk about sex and he's gay


^^ This to be honest......

Some will think it's "weird" and then some will think your not interested if you don't mention it.

Can't f*cking win.... lol

It's best to be flirty and playful, crack a few sexy jokes/innuendos and let them guide you toward that topic if they want to, but even then some will do that to "test" you.

Can't f*cking win.... lol
 Loose_end
Joined: 9/12/2006
Msg: 66
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why does the conversations always turn sexual???
Posted: 1/1/2013 1:40:49 PM

is she is sexually attracted to you, its fine, if she isnt you are a pervert/creep/deviant...its really that simple


Pretty much what i was going to say. Works the other way round too.

Personally, i have no interest in sexual chat on pof, but if it makes other peoples socks roll up and down then thats their gig.

If she has a passion for being whipped with a turnip whilst bent over the washing machine, thats great! But share it some other time, at least give me a chance to buy a pound of turnips first.....
 Warren_Evans
Joined: 3/3/2008
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why does the conversations always turn sexual???
Posted: 1/4/2013 1:05:25 PM
If a message turns sexual it's because that's all the guy is after. I've told everyone i know on here that the best way to see what is going throuh a guys mind is to chat with him for at least a week before meeting, if it gets that far. I can safely say that if he's after sex he'll start talking about in the first couple of days. If he hasn't mentioned it after a week then it's safe to say that he could be genuine.
 Loose_end
Joined: 9/12/2006
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why does the conversations always turn sexual???
Posted: 1/4/2013 6:11:38 PM

it's bound to come up sooner or later. The question is how you both react to it when it does.


Indigo! Please stop, this is all making me feel quite randy!

Sex..........Well its been a while for me. I just hope they havnt changed it too much since I've been away.

I dont think i've ever turned a message convo sexual. Its normally Women that do this surely? horny bunch that they are.
 Melodical
Joined: 10/2/2010
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why does the conversations always turn sexual???
Posted: 1/5/2013 7:40:00 AM

Well said Indigo.........Some people on here live in the past....Its the 21st century....


Well said indeed, you would think some women have been cryogenically frozen in the 1950's and just been thawed out for 2012. If the other person likes you the conversation will turn sexual at some point. I think a lot of guys turn it sexual simply to filter out women with issues and save time in their search for a woman who they can trust not to spring some weird beliefs onto them after a lot of investment.
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