|While it may not be optimal, 1 hour is not very far away.|
asked if I wanted to feel anything else on his body other than his back
This would have been enough for me to delete his phone number before I even left the car park. He is just way too pushy. There *are* decent men out there who are willing to wait to get to know you a little first, who would not dream of trying to spend a night at your house when your kids are there (in the early stages), who will think a one hour drive is not a burden if they get to spend time with you.
If by chance you can arrange a second date with him that doesn't involve sex, you can bet you'll go through this whole situation again when arranging the third date. I can't imagine feeling romantic/affectionate about someone whose stated focus was making sure we had sex otherwise it wasn't worth his while.
- I agree.
Lol, this guy also wanted to come over and give the OP a massage on date 2................what a loser. Next.