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It's a pretty puerile manipulation technique and it fell down like a ton of bricks with you, OP, because your self-esteem is not high enough, to put it bluntly.
If you had been a bit more confident it would just have got you more interested in a bid to "prove him wrong" and get his attentions anyhow. Hey, it's puerile, but guys do it because it works and it's way cheaper than taking her to dinner and a screening of "Twilight: Breaking Bank" to get her hot and bothered over Pattinson or whatever Bieber clone women are drooling over these days.
You are so worried about being overweight that you could not handle the comment and decided to play "moral outrage" and "victimhood solidarity" with us. Look, you are still thinking about it and posting about it the next day, for F-'s sakes, and asking for a pity party.
As for the "bullying", um, you're not a 14 year old or made of porcelain. A "scar on your heart", please, spare us the melodrama, do not be telling us the mean girls at school never called you fat before?
If he tells you that if you lost 20lbs, you'd be hot, that calls for a response along the lines of, "Well, if you had the "game" of a man you'd be getting some, instead of getting chumped and blocked by *fat* girls like me" and then blocking him.
Oh, and for the record? It's 10 lbs, not 20. Feel better now?