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 15111958
Joined: 12/6/2011
Msg: 26
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It takes two to tango and if she did not insist on a dental dam, she is at least partially responsible as the oral sex was consentual. Offer to split the medical bills in half and insist that you pay the hospital directly. Then go out and get yourself some dental dams and condoms.


Dental dam? what exactly would be the point of going down on someone and using a dental dam? talk about complete waste of time.
 InnerChange1967
Joined: 9/17/2012
Msg: 27
I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 11/21/2012 8:48:42 PM
FIRST OF ALL....I doubt that you gave her herpes! Yes, an Herpes Simplex open virus on the lip (i.e. cold sore) can cause genital herpes. HOWEVER; you must have had a cold sore at the time. She probably already had herpes to begin with and this is just her way of BILKING you out of money!! Tell her to go ahead and sue you---SHE WILL NOT WIN!!

Now; if you have HERPES...the real deal, no occasional cold sores....and you knowingly had unprotected sex--well; she still can't sue ya...she opened her legs without protection, no matter what touched her genitals!!

Good luck.
 InnerChange1967
Joined: 9/17/2012
Msg: 28
I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 11/21/2012 8:50:19 PM
GREAT RESPONSE! She probably already had Herpes.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 11/22/2012 2:24:19 AM

Dental dam? what exactly would be the point of going down on someone and using a dental dam? talk about complete waste of time.

Because some people prefer to practice SAFER sex, and you can prevent the transmission of STIs by using condoms for giving a blow job, dental dams for going down on a woman, and male and female condoms to reduce your risk of contracting or giving an STI to your partner. Yup.. well known practice amongst folk for a number of years.
 2hotcougar
Joined: 3/29/2011
Msg: 30
I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 11/22/2012 3:32:25 AM
i wood want to see medical records before i gave her a damn dime and get your own records and do the math
 five-marie
Joined: 7/31/2011
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I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 11/22/2012 4:56:42 AM
He hasn't once acted concerned about her giving it to him/hasn't denied having herpes, obviously he knew he had it and had unprotected sex with her. (And how many others?)
I'm disgusted that someone with an STD is so ignorant about how it is spread that they are passing it onto unknowing partners. Sure she should have used protection but it is his responsibility to disclose his STD and make sure protection is used.
STD's and ignorant/uninformed people, now that's scary.
 five-marie
Joined: 7/31/2011
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Posted: 11/22/2012 8:01:11 AM
I still think the decent thing to do, whether in the middle of an outbreak or not, is to disclose your situation. Everyone has the right to make an "informed" decision whether to take a risk or not.
 15111958
Joined: 12/6/2011
Msg: 33
I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 11/22/2012 1:38:28 PM

Because some people prefer to practice SAFER sex, and you can prevent the transmission of STIs by using condoms for giving a blow job, dental dams for going down on a woman, and male and female condoms to reduce your risk of contracting or giving an STI to your partner. Yup.. well known practice amongst folk for a number of years.


I know what STI's are but if I'm going to go down on a woman and all I'm going to be tasting is rubber then I might as well stay at home and suck on the end of a pencil. The best thing about being down there is tasting her juices.
 U make it entertaining
Joined: 7/17/2009
Msg: 34
I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 11/22/2012 1:48:32 PM

You dont think she could of passed it on to him? especially with the evidence of her outbreak only being 2 days later and his months later! come on... why does it always seem the man is automaitaclly at fault.. jez


Because he said ...


She wasnt sleeping around, I was her 1st in years...
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 11/22/2012 3:18:00 PM
^^^^RIGHT!!!!....I've never slept with a woman who didn't make that claim!...........................................................
 Tarnished_Knight
Joined: 3/5/2009
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I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 11/22/2012 9:35:48 PM

She wasnt sleeping around, I was her 1st in years...


Is actually meaningless as a differential diagnosis of causation for a HSV-II outbreak. The nature of herpes is that something like the first sexual encounter in years, with it's high emotional content, may be sufficient in itself to cause the aforementioned outbreak.

TK

I also object to the characterization of HSV-I as an STD. Herpes Simplex infections of the oral area, eye, or the variety that affects those involved in sports are quite often not associated with sexual contact, but contact of a social nature. Since up to 80% of the US population is seropositive for HSV-I antibodies (vs. ~25% for HSV-II) it is clear that the spread of HSV-I is pretty common. And Easy. -tk
 U make it entertaining
Joined: 7/17/2009
Msg: 37
I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 11/23/2012 1:15:12 PM
Tasty ...



I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area


He admits he did it.
Others here are giving all kinds if reasons as to why he didn't.
Yet HE says he did.
Is that not enough?
 aussieblues
Joined: 11/22/2011
Msg: 38
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I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 11/24/2012 9:57:18 PM
A woman made a choice. She is unhappy with the unpredicted outcome arising from this choice. I don't agree that you should be literally paying for her anti-viral meds for the rest of her life.
You have the Herpres virus. You have a responsibility to educate yourself about this as it is potentially sexually transmittable.
 m14shooter
Joined: 10/2/2009
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Posted: 11/25/2012 11:11:25 AM
"She wasnt sleeping around"
Or so she says. I had a woman one time pull the I need money thing saying she was pregnant. and wanted money to get rid of it. I told her I would raise the kid and she said no. I finally agreed but only if I was with her during the procedure, she turned out to be lying.


One of the last women I dated kept calling me another mans name, found out I was one of a few she was dating, dumped her.
 m14shooter
Joined: 10/2/2009
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Posted: 11/25/2012 11:13:32 AM

talk about complete waste of time.


Like getting a massage in a wetsuit.
 m14shooter
Joined: 10/2/2009
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I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 11/25/2012 11:15:28 AM
"She wasnt sleeping around"
Or so she says. I had a woman one time pull the I need money thing saying she was pregnant. and wanted money to get rid of it. I told her I would raise the kid and she said no. I finally agreed but only if I was with her during the procedure, she turned out to be lying.


One of the last women I dated kept calling me another mans name, found out I was one of a few she was dating, dumped her.
 suanjega
Joined: 10/21/2012
Msg: 42
I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 11/25/2012 4:11:58 PM
2 days??? Herpes can lay dormant for many years. I think ten years or so. Yes, oral can be transfered and yes, just because you are not showing active "signs" of an outbreak doesn't mean that you are not contageous... I don't believe for one second that you gave her this if she was showing signs two days later. Anxiety plays a large part in outbreaks as they are related to the nervous system. Oral herpes/cold sores are linked with high acidic foods such as tomatos and oranges.... I don't know... Sounds a bit wierd to me... Next time... yeah... What you gonna do?
 trvlngman
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 43
I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 11/25/2012 6:19:38 PM
Shes a slut. She gave it to you.
stds arent the type of thing u can sue over.
how do you prove who really gave what to who?
 Dave of Indiana
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 44
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Posted: 11/25/2012 7:18:10 PM
Just a note: HPV can be passed to men by having oral sex with a woman who has the condition:

Cancers of the penis, anus and oropharynx are uncommon, and only a subset of these cancers are actually related to HPV. Each year in the U.S. there are about:

400 men who get HPV-related cancer of the penis
1,500 men who get HPV-related cancer of the anus
5,600 men who get cancers of the oropharynx (back of throat) ...

http://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/stdfact-hpv-and-men.htm

Play carefully!
 MarriedMommy
Joined: 10/3/2010
Msg: 45
I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 11/25/2012 7:34:50 PM
The incubation period-the time from exposure to genital herpes until the primary outbreak of infection-is generally 2 to 14 days.


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 lovefun99
Joined: 6/14/2010
Msg: 46
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Posted: 11/26/2012 8:09:40 AM
Dude , she is playing you. She either already had herpes or is lying about having it. She just wants some $$$.

My advice is to stop all contact with her and, for your own good, go get tested as she may have passed it on to you!
 gabrielochocinco
Joined: 11/22/2012
Msg: 47
I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 3/10/2013 12:12:58 PM
yup she sure can.......hsv can spread even if there are no symptoms...a lot of virgins get genital HSV1 their first time because they have no antibodies..... COLD SORES ARE HERPES! a woman won a $35K lawsuit........start being honest about everything......you should pay for her bills.....make sure she was negative for HSV before you though......
 sigungq
Joined: 1/4/2013
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Posted: 3/10/2013 12:28:32 PM
OP, if it's possible for a woman to win a $750,000.00 suit against McDonalds, because through her own clumsiness spilled hot coffee on herself, I'm quite certain this girl could easily take you to the cleaners. Best just to avoid the court costs, and pay up.
 tallbrowneyedlady
Joined: 11/22/2012
Msg: 49
I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 3/10/2013 12:30:33 PM
She's probably scamming you and dozens of other men .
 Curt2.0
Joined: 1/22/2013
Msg: 50
I ate her out, giving her herpes 1 on her private area, now she may sue me.
Posted: 3/10/2013 12:34:43 PM
If it took you an hour of going down on her you're doing something wrong.
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