Again....you can't know what you are talking about. You do not know the full story. This man was not ready to let this relationship come to a close.
Seems there are TWO people that are quilty of not being ready to let this "relationship" come to close, no????? Sorry OP, but, really only one person to blame for all the hearache you seem to be going thru.
Go find a mirror.
And quit blaming it on the Holidays, okay????