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 Fleuron
Joined: 8/18/2010
Msg: 51
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^^^^^^^^^^ I bet she tells you that you’re the best and the biggest she’s ever had, too.

Oh that’s a good one.
 windchymes
Joined: 11/29/2008
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The age old debate: Spitting or Swallowing?
Posted: 11/29/2012 7:22:19 PM
If she gargles, she's showing off, and if she chews it, it means you have a really high sperm count.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 11/29/2012 7:59:25 PM

You're missing the point which is variety and sponteneity. I don't want to know how it ends before it starts. That would be BOR-ING.


Now that I will completely agree with!!

I wonder if Norm realizes a gal can "fake" swallowing and say how much she loves the tastes and he'd never know the difference!!
 SHUDNTBEONHERE
Joined: 11/3/2012
Msg: 54
The age old debate: Spitting or Swallowing?
Posted: 11/29/2012 8:09:52 PM

^^^^^^^^^^ I bet she tells you that you’re the best and the biggest she’s ever had, too.


Isnt the most famous line in porn "Ohhh Johnny you're the best" LOL
 1388SmartBlonde
Joined: 5/15/2011
Msg: 55
The age old debate: Spitting or Swallowing?
Posted: 11/29/2012 11:39:24 PM
Well, I would say it depends...if his jizz has fizz or if the spunk has funk, or the cum has scum, then spit. But if the gentleman is dandy and tastes like cotton candy and you are feeling randy, then swallow.
 LennyPane
Joined: 2/2/2011
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The age old debate: Spitting or Swallowing?
Posted: 11/30/2012 12:16:01 AM
Screw all this nonsense, how about some gargling? Haha jk... kinda...
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 57
The age old debate: Spitting or Swallowing?
Posted: 11/30/2012 4:21:24 AM

""I love your cum Norman you taste so good""


well I dont know about norman but I have had a woman say the same thing ..and why wouldnt I believe her she has always swallowed with enthusiasm..and has been told from the start that it was not expected ...i dont recall whether she has said that I am the biggest or the best .... but I have told her she is the best many times ..its that enthusiasm that makes her the best..to me whether a woman swallows or not is not important ..however making me feel that she loves doing whatever she does to me does score points
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 58
The age old debate: Spitting or Swallowing?
Posted: 11/30/2012 5:16:41 AM
1388smartblonde I see you're pretty funny, that's a great thing for your honey. If his juices aren't the best, then wear them on your chest. If it's true love and you know, then take it down below. If you accept it's not a sin, then rub it on your skin. It can be so fun to play - this I just had to say..... :- )
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 11/30/2012 5:24:14 AM

No it doesn't.........it means she's a swallower. Plain and simple.
If she's swallowing for you......she's swallowing for those before you and those after you. Damn the things people convince themselves of....or try to use to convince others......

Yes... this. Absolutely.


I don't know why any girl would be disgusted with cum. I'm perfectly ok with it, (I didn't quote the whole sentence as it's irrelevent to my comment.)

I don't like asparagus... so how can anyone like it? Just because it's *your* preference doesn't mean it will be anyone else's.
 cautiousluv
Joined: 10/4/2008
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Posted: 11/30/2012 6:10:59 AM
BOTH....depends on what's up (no pun intended)

For ME.....it DOES have to do with how much I'm into him.
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 61
The age old debate: Spitting or Swallowing?
Posted: 11/30/2012 9:25:17 AM

I bet she tells you that you’re the best and the biggest she’s ever had, too.

You won the bet,,Matter of fact she has,, even her friends have said I am in the beer can club category,,Ha Ha


I knew there was a reason I prefer to pay male prostitutes, I don't have to pretend I enjoy that flavor

Find I guy who eats right, and you might not have to pay for it any more,,,save yourself some money,, How much do you spend ,, I might be interested in a for a part time job,,


I wonder if Norm realizes a gal can "fake" swallowing and say how much she loves the tastes and he'd never know the difference!!

Wonder no more,, I am aware how some woman lie, deceive, and who can fake anything for personal gain. Now by what you suggested,

I wonder if your that type of woman, I have no clue if you are, but is sure sounds like you have some experience in faking. I am quite aware of my failures in the bedroom in my younger yrs.. I certainly don't or didn't need my ego stroked because I just knew. Now I wonder if you make it a habit of judging the personal experiences of others,, Could it be because you may not like something,, It's not possible for someone to like what you may dislike.

I wonder if you realize not every woman is like that or you...Do you even know that communication with your partner about sex or any other topic improves sexual relations in and out of the bedroom,,Yes!! it's even possible to have and amazing sexual compatibility where synergy is achieved between a couple,,

I just got off the phone with my girl,, I asked was I wrong, do you like the taste of my cum,, Erika said,, you know I do,, We talk about these forums many times as she knows she can access my account at any time,,, just sayin..


well I dont know about norman but I have had a woman say the same thing ..and why wouldnt I believe her she has always swallowed with enthusiasm..and has been told from the start that it was not expected ...i dont recall whether she has said that I am the biggest or the best .... but I have told her she is the best many times ..its that enthusiasm that makes her the best..to me whether a woman swallows or not is not important ..however making me feel that she loves doing whatever she does to me does score points

^^ Perfect explanation,,
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 11/30/2012 5:00:05 PM
well Norm......if you pay attention.....you will see I have repeatedly stated in this forum that I do swallow.
I will also admit to letting it run back out of my mouth with an ex that had a Lortab habit....made for some very "mediciny" tasting cum and I preferred not to swallow it. One because of the taste, the other because I'm allergic to Lortab's and had just enough anxiety over having "his" in my system it wasn't worth it. He never knew the difference.
He was one of "those" men that seemed to think swallowing was the end all be all to an orgasm.....and was pretty stubborn about it. So, it was easier to let him live in his illusion than fight over it.
He is an ex for a reason.

as for faking anything else in my life.......nah.....never felt the need for it. I have no desire to misleading a man into thinking what he is doing is working and then having to deal with it again the next time!! As I have said numerous times, communication is what leads to orgasms!!

as for Erika telling you that you taste good........doesn't surprise me in the least......I've said the same words to my guy because it's the truth. I keep fruit on hand for a reason!! ;)
 MAB54
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Posted: 11/30/2012 5:10:08 PM
lol...that made me think of strawberry yogurt ^^^ (I keep fruit on hand for a reason!!!)
 no_1_bby
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Posted: 11/30/2012 7:20:59 PM

as for Erika telling you that you taste good........doesn't surprise me in the least......I've said the same words to my guy because it's the truth. I keep fruit on hand for a reason!! ;)

I think if you investigate this further, expanding outwards, a lot of men hear that they are the best the woman in their life has ever known. I've seen it mentioned here so many times over the years I can't keep track.

Why does it happen? Perhaps it's the truth. Perhaps it's what she wants you to believe. No one is going to tell the person they are with that someone else was a better lover. If they do, perhaps that's a sign you shouldn't be with them.

In all honesty, all my partners (ok, well the ones in the recent past) have been very good... very different, but all have been more than satisfying at that time.
 mrdime
Joined: 8/22/2012
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Posted: 11/30/2012 8:20:46 PM
i love when my cum is swollowed suck this****till its dry
 LennyPane
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Posted: 11/30/2012 8:25:35 PM
You guys have it all wrong...
You cum in her left eye and kick her in the shin...
This is called The Pirate!
 H74D
Joined: 3/6/2008
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Posted: 11/30/2012 8:35:34 PM

You paint every woman with a very broad brush.....swallowing is fabulous with the right man. With a douchecanoe it's a gum disease!


Why would a douchecanoe's****even be in your mouth?
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 68
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Posted: 12/1/2012 4:21:14 AM

Why does it happen? Perhaps it's the truth. Perhaps it's what she wants you to believe. No one is going to tell the person they are with that someone else was a better lover. If they do, perhaps that's a sign you shouldn't be with them


I have been with a lot of women in my life ...some were better than others ..and some were better at times than they were at others ..when a relationship is in its prime and everything is going well everyone thinks it is the best they have ever had ... when the relationship turns not so good we forget just how good we thought the good times were ... when it comes breakup time we think the ex is the devils spawn ...we forget the angel we thought the were when things were good ..I dont rate every sex session I have ...A>>>B>>C>>D>>>F... the best sex I have ever had is the sex I am having now especially if I am really into the one I am having it with...but it just wouldnt sound right saying ...you are the best I ever remember having

this is why I think the numbers question is so silly ..I have never compared a lover with a past lover ..whether I have had one or a thousand ..I bring no one from the past into the bedroom with my present lover ..the one I am having now is truly the best ..because she is the one I am interested in now ..I have never fantasized about a past lover when I am with someone ..because when its over its over
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 69
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Posted: 12/1/2012 9:05:23 AM
MsMicky,, I did not need to pay attention,, as your sexual preferences really do not interest me,, nor does anyone else's. I may read comments, but soon after they are forgotten,,Unless I read something of interest.

I did read a question that you asked,, so from personal experience I answered that question with an honest answers. However your response was rather disrespectful as it was directed right at may girl and myself. . Suggesting that my girl was faking, therefore lying , all the while suggesting, I didn't have the insight to know what was real or fake. Hope you see my point.

OT, Like I said before, in my openion it doesn't matter what sexual act a couple in involved with as it's all about compatibility..


I think if you investigate this further, expanding outwards, a lot of men hear that they are the best the woman in their life has ever known. I've seen it mentioned here so many times over the years I can't keep track.

I would suggest if it's being said by both men and women it must me true for those people.


Why does it happen? Perhaps it's the truth. Perhaps it's what she wants you to believe. No one is going to tell the person they are with that someone else was a better lover. If they do, perhaps that's a sign you shouldn't be with them.

I will start from the bottom up..being a lover and having sex is two different things,,I have been with women and said,, and said sex with you sucks,, why because they laid back and gave off the attitude it's all about them..then there were others who had no clue how to please a man, .. At the age I was,, i said screw this,, my training days are over as I am not dealing or wasting my time with a woman with hang ups or emotional instability about sex..

Why would someone say and think their partner was the best, I am one of those people who can separate love and sex..
I have had lots of sex,,,and it was OK.. But I have only been in Love twice in my life. Therefore the difference is the emotional bond of Love, then factor in sexual compatibility, along with the chemistry that also exists inside and outside the bedroom.. therefore by default from my personal experiences my partner is the best, the most amazing in every aspect of my life. I want to spend the rest of my life with her and never be with another woman again.. as I have no desire too
 longshot6979
Joined: 10/6/2012
Msg: 70
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Posted: 12/1/2012 8:54:10 PM
OBXPirateGirl I totally agree with what you said :) When a girl swallows it feels much better to me. maybe we should get to know each other better hehe
 Skirtyone
Joined: 7/10/2012
Msg: 71
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Posted: 12/1/2012 9:04:31 PM
sometimes...if they swollow it all they might pull off to sort of regroup and complete...but I personally have never "spit"
 eattoplease55
Joined: 10/22/2012
Msg: 72
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Posted: 12/2/2012 11:14:06 AM
I know men who dont and if you find a woman whos good at oral and arent at least giving her the option....geee thats to bad.....its a personal choice as is many other things....and im sure woman would appreciate the respect of such too!
 CraigMusselman
Joined: 10/6/2012
Msg: 73
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Posted: 12/2/2012 1:43:01 PM
because unlike women, MEN ARE VISUAL CREATURES. Watching that neck bulge as it goes down is exciting. Spitting is rejection visually. If you are going to see something exciting, swallowing is best, spitting is rejection and if you are going to show something less satisfying, the shot might as well go somewhere visually stimulating...chest, face, ass,**** etc. I am gay so i just trying to translate the straight boys here. Making her swallow it is demeaning, an the vast majority of men like demeaning things...it means you are powerful because you can have your way, and men like that. Straight boys have such fragile egos women, you get to control the whole "when they have sex thing" so give them that little bit. From experience, make sure they cum as deep as possible, you wont even notice if it is past your tongue.

oh and to the marine a few posts up...holy ****! I'd swallow you.
 nachos123
Joined: 10/9/2012
Msg: 74
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Posted: 12/2/2012 9:15:49 PM
God bless you pink_rosa you rock
 dreamer1900
Joined: 10/7/2012
Msg: 75
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Posted: 12/4/2012 6:54:18 AM
you are so right and then ask for more..
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