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 saintclara
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Most guys want their women to swallow...its easier, it doesnt ruin the mood and such.

How do you know it's easy and doesn't ruin the mood you are not the one swallowing smelly sticky tadpoles and choking from gagging because it's the most disgusting thing ever do I go to a restaurant and ask the waiter to give me a delicious bowl of cum with a baked roll no I don't so why am I expected to eat your vile substance and pretend I'm enjoying it? Don't demand women do this because of your selfish desires it's degrading I would rearrange your face if you spoke to me with that tone!
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
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Posted: 12/28/2017 12:16:59 AM
^^^ Some of your post slay me.
 LGL1975
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Posted: 12/28/2017 5:36:43 PM
Spitting obviously if she's not making a huge mess she's not doing it right.
 Slowhand324
Joined: 8/27/2017
Msg: 104
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Posted: 1/9/2018 4:44:31 PM
"You will never convince me there is a difference in your orgasm on whether I swallow..."

Um, there isn't. But there is certainly a difference in how desirable I feel. Swallowing amounts to another example of 'confirming behavior' - something compatible couples will always make a priority.
 siisaa
Joined: 8/6/2017
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Posted: 1/11/2018 11:45:34 AM
I always swallow. What else are you supposed to do with it? Swish/hold it in your mouth until you run to the nearest sink? That's inconvenient and rude as hell. I swallow because it's cleaner, more respectful and the guys love it.
 lancewarner
Joined: 12/16/2017
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Posted: 1/29/2018 9:21:00 AM
I love women who swallow
 CBGB77
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Posted: 1/29/2018 9:30:09 PM
Swallowed

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q7RVp3DvX1o
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 1/30/2018 12:14:30 AM

I always swallow. What else are you supposed to do with it? Swish/hold it in your mouth until you run to the nearest sink?

Having tissues near the bedside is a common thing. You can hold it in your mouth (and show it to him on the tongue if feeling kinky), and then spit it out in a tissue. The main reason I like swallowing is the potential off-timing/awkward finish when many don't. But some can handle it quite well. Even not even taking the orgasm purely inside the mouth, but, like how they do in some videos, shifting into a tongue and HJ for the last few second finish.
 SiennaBear2
Joined: 12/2/2017
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Posted: 1/30/2018 4:42:21 AM
No way I'd have to be so drunk to agree to having any c*m in my mouth. lol.
Otherwise I'll literally throw up
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
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Posted: 1/30/2018 1:31:07 PM
I would have a mild preference for women that swallow. But it isn't really a big deal to me if she spits. Or in some cases I would remove it from her mouth right before and I would cum on her body.
 Naturalselection53
Joined: 1/13/2016
Msg: 111
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Posted: 2/12/2018 1:39:01 PM

How do you know it's easy and doesn't ruin the mood you are not the one swallowing smelly sticky tadpoles and choking from gagging because it's the most disgusting thing ever do I go to a restaurant and ask the waiter to give me a delicious bowl of cum with a baked roll no I don't so why am I expected to eat your vile substance and pretend I'm enjoying it?

hahahahahahahahahhahahah. feck, that was funny.
 Nestaron
Joined: 10/11/2017
Msg: 112
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Posted: 2/13/2018 3:16:34 PM

How do you know it's easy and doesn't ruin the mood you are not the one swallowing


She says so but it's your story.


do I go to a restaurant and ask the waiter to give me a delicious bowl of cum with a baked roll


I am guessing you don't ask for a penis on a platter to put it wherever you think it's appropriate either. And I bet you enjoy it pounding the vulva don't you. Or do you just not like penis at all?


why am I expected to eat your vile substance and pretend I'm enjoying it?


How do you know I taste vile I might taste as sweet as honey you haven't tasted every guy in the world you know, or right it's the thought that bothers you not the taste of it. Kinda like saying you don't eat honey and garlic spare ribs cause the thought of eating ribs is disgusting.


Don't demand women do this because of your selfish desires it's degrading


Who fvcks demanding is just give what I get go ahead spit my spew out I will return it in kind. So think of your own juices and think how would I feel if a guy came up from a muff dive and said that is disgusting to you.
 SiennaBear2
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Posted: 2/14/2018 3:19:32 AM
That's the problem with porn, men think every woman is a porn star and will act like a porn star.
News flash, we aren't.

We may or may not want to or enjoy doing certain sexual things. Including oral and swallowing cum etc.
 ohenryx
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Posted: 2/14/2018 8:36:38 AM

SiennaBear2
That's the problem with porn, men think every woman is a porn star and will act like a porn star.
News flash, we aren't.

We may or may not want to or enjoy doing certain sexual things. Including oral and swallowing cum etc.

I was listening to NPR earlier this week (afternoon news program), and they did a spot for an upcoming show. The subject to be discussed was pornography and it’s effect on younger people. I may go and look for the podcast, I think that might be an interesting discussion.

Buy my answer to you is: I know very well that every woman is not a porn star. But the more she acts like one, the more I’m going to be attracted to her. That is just a simple, declarative fact.

I recall a few years back, someone (abelian?) stated here in these very forums,


Everything else being equal, if I have a choice between a woman who will and one who won’t, I will choose the woman who will.

There’s really not much else to say on that subject.
 cooldog65
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Posted: 2/14/2018 11:43:30 AM
My jizz is liquid gold. She better not waste it by spitting.
 cooldog65
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Posted: 2/14/2018 11:47:16 AM

I always swallow. What else are you supposed to do with it? Swish/hold it in your mouth until you run to the nearest sink? That's inconvenient and rude as hell. I swallow because it's cleaner, more respectful and the guys love it.


 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 2/14/2018 12:14:47 PM

That's the problem with porn, men think every woman is a porn star and will act like a porn star.
News flash, we aren't.

News Flash: Men in general, with any sexual experience anyway, don't think that at all. I think that's more jealousy-related feelings some women may have, which is why they themselves don't like porn.

We may or may not want to or enjoy doing certain sexual things.

True. Guys may or may not, either...

Including oral and swallowing cum etc.

No oral is a Legit deal-breaker, for either gender. Not swallowing isn't a deal breaker, but having a hissy fit about going down on a guy (or girl) serves as a valid/understandable reason to not go down relationship-alley with said person. Not swallowing, if handled in the right way, usually isn't going to have an effect. If a guy sees That and just that as a deal-breaker, when she handles the oral experience just fine -- then he's over-the-top and has some issues that aren't in his best interest.
 Naturalselection53
Joined: 1/13/2016
Msg: 119
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Posted: 2/14/2018 3:58:53 PM

How do you know it's easy and doesn't ruin the mood you are not the one swallowing


She says so but it's your story.


do I go to a restaurant and ask the waiter to give me a delicious bowl of cum with a baked roll


I am guessing you don't ask for a penis on a platter to put it wherever you think it's appropriate either. And I bet you enjoy it pounding the vulva don't you. Or do you just not like penis at all?


why am I expected to eat your vile substance and pretend I'm enjoying it?


How do you know I taste vile I might taste as sweet as honey you haven't tasted every guy in the world you know, or right it's the thought that bothers you not the taste of it. Kinda like saying you don't eat honey and garlic spare ribs cause the thought of eating ribs is disgusting.

Dude, did you lose your sense of humour somewhere ? Don't take it so personally, I'm sure she was just being humerous.


So think of your own juices and think how would I feel if a guy came up from a muff dive and said that is disgusting to you.
. Not all men like to muff dive. I certainly wouldn't pull a dang hissy fit. I'd just consider us not compatible and find one who did.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 2/14/2018 5:19:58 PM

Dude, did you lose your sense of humour somewhere ? Don't take it so personally, I'm sure she was just being humerous.

He was being over-the-top WTF -- but "saintclara" wasn't merely kidding. Was truly an issue-ridden person in which her messages were all like that going off on men, where it wasn't merely "kidding around". :)
 Doremi_Fasolatido
Joined: 2/14/2009
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Posted: 2/14/2018 6:59:26 PM
Matters not to me, whether my gifts are swallowed or spit.

As long as the lady cared enough, to help me get rid of it.....


It's the thought [and effort] that counts to me. Happy Valentines Day to all.
 SiennaBear2
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Posted: 2/15/2018 1:02:44 AM

I think that's more jealousy-related feelings some women may have, which is why they themselves don't like porn.
Not swallowing isn't a deal breaker, but having a hissy fit about going down on a guy (or girl) serves as a valid/understandable reason to not go down relationship-alley with said person. Not swallowing, if handled in the right way, usually isn't going to have an effect

Mmm no, porn messes men up by giving them unrealistic expectations.
Eh oral is kinda lame. Why in hell should a woman give a dude she is only dating oral? Is ridiculous joke lol.
I'm not even bothering with sexual stuff if I date again, I dont even care for it. Its pointless. Kinda like dating
 Naturalselection53
Joined: 1/13/2016
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Posted: 2/15/2018 7:57:18 AM

He was being over-the-top WTF -
I'll say, considering he made a comment in another thread that most women can't afford $50.00 because they have so much debt. I think someone may have a few issues himself.

but "saintclara" wasn't merely kidding. Was truly an issue-ridden person in which her messages were all like that going off on men, where it wasn't merely "kidding around". :)
Sad, when these people can't learn to put something in the place of bitter.





Mmm no, porn messes men up by giving them unrealistic expectations
Some men are messed up to begin with, so those men, i agree, it probably messes them up more. Most men are relatively sane though, they know the difference between real life and a bad porn flick. There is porn that is marketed directly to women. Mommy porn i think they call it, Women love it. Think Fifty Shades, those movies make billions of dollars. Women tend to like their porn soft, with a good old fashioned love story. Does it screw some women up? yes, I think so, they think all men should be white knights who want to live some kind of unrealistic fairy tale.Most women realize there is no perfect man, so they don't waste their life trying to find one. You have to negotiate in relationships, spitting and swallowing is one of those things you need to negotiate. It will vary between couples, so there is no right or wrong answer.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 2/15/2018 1:22:06 PM

I'll say, considering he made a comment in another thread that most women can't afford $50.00 because they have so much debt. I think someone may have a few issues himself.

Yeah, dating forums will bring out the over-the-top frustrated. :)

Mmm no, porn messes men up by giving them unrealistic expectations.

That's simply not true, sorry. I mean, it helps to believe it's true, right? :) It's not making guys wanting only-hot-girls, as you don't need porn for that. Local news ladies + almost everyone on general TV will do that. Porn generally is so mainstream -- and cums in all varieties, where homemade ones or close to it, are a big ticket sellers. Here's the problem that CAN (like anything else) happen with watching a Lot of porn, instead:

1. Turns a sexually Conservative guy when it comes to dating/relationships, not so sexually conservative. A good thing for those too conservative, but a problem when only wheeling & dealing with sexually conservative ladies. It doesn't turn Mr Nice Guy into Mr Sex Maniac. Crazy people will think that.

2. Paradoxially, ending up lacking a sex/dating drive, if watching a lot of it as routine. That's why some blogs on "How to get girls," that helps unsuccessful single guys, tells them to stop watching it -- or you can some, but Don't masturbate to it. Your sex/dating drive will go Up.

3. When in a "blah" LTR, a guy can end up reverting to watching porn as his go-to exercise, as his then comfort zone... when the Realtionship needs more spice and a jump-start. Makes it much harder. Again, if he watches it too much. Of course, it can help if Both parties watch it together (plenty of genres).

Eh oral is kinda lame. Why in hell should a woman give a dude she is only dating oral? Is ridiculous joke lol.

Because for most people, it's Enjoyable, just like intercourse is. And, oral is "3rd base", not "Home Plate" where sex resides. Granted, some people put "oral" at a high pedestal, but they should realize that's Just Them in the minority, that's not how most feel. If oral is just a "birthday present" as he/she hates doing it -- there's going to be a sexual problem for most people, if not Both in that Minority. It's *natural* to like oral sex, btw. :)

I'm not even bothering with sexual stuff if I date again, I dont even care for it. Its pointless. Kinda like dating

You will date at some point, healthy or non-healthy. Sexual stuff at all (sex included)? It's not pointless... you're just frustrated & depressed about it. We all can be to some degree, but we have to work to shape ourselves over time (especially when younger), and not expect everything/everybody to more or less conform to Us, as if we have THE way (because mama says so and I can merely find others online who feel the same way). :)
 ThePigOfYourDreams
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Posted: 2/15/2018 1:33:57 PM

Mmm no, porn messes men up by giving them unrealistic expectations.


Yeah, unlike chick flicks that manage to keep everything real.


Why in hell should a woman give a dude she is only dating oral?


To keep him dating her.

Hope this helps.
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