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 juliettes7
Joined: 11/4/2012
Msg: 51
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So how DO you show affection? If it's just sexual, that isn't unusual of a lot of men, but I can't imagine too many women
just show affection through sex and not being "huggy, kissy, feeling"...
Do you have madonna whore complex?
 Pinky127
Joined: 1/7/2012
Msg: 52
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 5:50:52 AM
Wow,Op,i am truly astounded at your Post.

Have you always felt this way?

Sounds like you just need lots of "techy equipment" and you're happy?
I have always been naturally affectionate with the men in my life and have NEVER had any complaints.

PASSION AND ROMANCE RULE.
 SunshineAngel99
Joined: 10/13/2010
Msg: 53
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Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 8:25:24 AM
Ouch touch crowd.

Romance is important to women at that age because most women are not wired to be aroused at the flip of a switch despite being older I assume (no different than younger women). It takes time, and little nuances to build up sexual tension for women. For us guys, we can go 0-100 MPH in a blink in an eye regardless of age when it comes to sexual build up.
 Sciencetreker
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 54
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Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 8:35:16 AM
Good grief. My girlfriend and I are as touchy and affectionate as two high school kids. We always hold hands when walking or when sitting next to each other. We both thrive on the closeness.

She tells me she needs this type of affection and I admit that I do too. There is a warmth and securty in it for both of us. It's not just to do with sex but it sure makes the sex a lot more intimate and thus better.
 phoenix_55
Joined: 7/25/2012
Msg: 55
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 8:43:55 AM
So, you're saying you just wanna get down and dirty and bang her like a screen door and go back to watching football and sucking down a few brewskies?

Personally, I won't have a relationship with a man who isn't romantic. And I don't mean 24/7 -- I don't even want that. And there's nothing wrong with wanting to feel like a kid again ... we're not dead yet. Everyone -- men and women -- crave the human touch. I just hope you enjoy life with your blow-up doll because no woman who's worth anything would put up with that attitude.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 56
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 8:45:02 AM
OP: Your best bet is to go after a gold digger. A gold digger will be happy to give you sex without all of the lovey dovey stuff you don't like in exchange for materialistic stuff and freebies.
 Brodigy
Joined: 10/26/2012
Msg: 57
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 8:49:25 AM
Different strokes for different folks ... if a woman wasn't into being affectionate outside the bedroom I would personally classify her as an ICE QUEEN and think perhaps she should've been born a man - but that's just me .

I wouldn't want to " get it out of my system " any more than I would want to get the urge to merge out of my system.
 ladywyatt
Joined: 6/28/2007
Msg: 58
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 8:59:15 AM
LOL...the OP calls affectionate women immature and yet he is all "excited about the new xbox 360 coming out"????

Now that's an oxymoron if i ever saw one...
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 59
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 10:29:47 AM
OP: Maybe you're not meeting women you are physically attracted to. Not many people of either gender want to be kissy, huggy with someone they don't find physically attractive. Maybe you're listening to the fat and ugly ones who keep professing that you should be attracted to their inner beauty only because outer beauty is only skin deep.
 Smarts and Heart
Joined: 12/15/2009
Msg: 60
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 11:59:51 AM
I am told that I act younger and look younger than my age. I, like everyone else likes to have fun. My interests include music,my xbox 360(really excited about the newest xbox coming out in a year or so),my computer. Just recently(a few months) bought myself a new guitar. I used to play when I was younger. Planing on relearning to play


Just read your profile OP and had a chuckle. It seems that you're selective as to what childish behaviours you hang on to. Lol!

Is it just public shows of affection you're against or all sign of romance and affection; even in private?

I'll let you in on a secret. Yes all our children are raised and gone. Now's the time for us. Every living being needs a loving touch, love and affection. Children need it, pets even need it. You'd pet and stroke you dog and cat, so why do you find it strange that a woman would need some romance in their lives?
What would a woman need you for if there were no feelings involved? Just to tend to you while you play your xbox and your guitar? That's what our kids did. Are you looking for a mommy replacement?

Now that they're gone we want a man and partner to satisfy us. Not a big kid to foster.
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
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Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 12:10:39 PM
I'm over 55....
BUT...
I'll be Damned if I'm gonna Get ~Old~ !!

I'll take a Touchy-Feely, Lovey-Dovey , Kissy-face Lady . . . ANY Time . . . over a money-mongering Cold Fish!
 Fleuron
Joined: 8/18/2010
Msg: 62
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 12:12:36 PM

Oh Lord, another one of POF's finest. With nothing to offer but a bald head a poor attitude and a fist full of Viagra.



a fist full of Viagra.

A great title for a Clint Eastwood western! Lol


Especially now at his age. ;p Too hilarious!!! You guys are awesome.

OP, I wouldn’t worry about it. Probably no woman wants to be “lovey dovey” with you anyway.
 motown_cowgirl
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 63
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 12:33:29 PM
"romantic" means different things to different people; it's *very* subjective and people have different ways of expressing it. what registers for *me* as romantic is completely different than for some other people. i was once involved with a man who used to call me every day (even though we were living together) and ended every call with an "i love you". i hate to say it because i know he only had the best intentions, but it felt cloying and suffocating. "not a match".

just find somebody who sees "romantic" the same way you do, and you will enjoy those little expressions but won't feel so put off by whatever "lovey dovey" means to you here.
 Wonder5750
Joined: 1/30/2012
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Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 12:41:24 PM
It is my guess that the OP didn't come from a touchy feely family. Some people from that kind of rearing don't understand the joys of physical contact just for the want of being close. OP there is someone out there just right for you, another one that is more like "Sheldon and Amy Farafaler" from The Big Bang Theory. I hope you two find each other.
As you have read for the most part people love physical contact. Not just in bed but as a everyday reminder they are loved. The joy of romance will never fade for many, and I for one love that about the human race :)
 SugahPunkin
Joined: 5/28/2010
Msg: 65
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 1:06:55 PM
I feel you should post this on your page so every woman will know ahead of time to stay away from you.

I was pleased two days ago to see a couple in their 60s holding hands as they went into the Cracker Barrel. It made my heart happy and I smiled when I saw them and hope to God that one day that will be me.

"Romance" has nothing to do with showing affection to your mate.When I think of romance I think greeting cards or rose petals and music leading to the bedroom.. but affection? Wowzers... I hope to never get it out of my system but I want to thank you for posting this as it will definitely show me men to stay away from on here and the ones to lean towards... slowly.... to kiss.

edited: OP I think youre the first man Ive even seen that is frigid.
 sddude
Joined: 12/9/2007
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Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 1:14:22 PM
I do not understand why it is bad to be hugged and kissed ? Go on grope me use your mouth in creative ways give me a massage , be my grope slave, it all good , I will do the same.

Unless you want her cold and dead then you got a point.
 LAgoodguy
Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 67
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 1:27:27 PM
Damn it, If I dated a woman who didnt like to hold hands kiss whenever, hug and laugh..... OH wait I won't be dating her in the first place. I expect lots of affection from someone I'm with, Cause thats how I'm when with someone I date. I want a WOMAN next to me not an ice cube..
As Cowboy mentioned even wolfs show affection..
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 3:45:14 PM
I'm not sure I even understand OP's question, or else I think it's stupid as hell.

You're asking why someone at a certain age wants to be kissy, huggy, romantic, etc - or, as you say it, they "feel the need" - as if it's something to get out of one's system, and as if it's something that only belongs to young people, as if it's something that someone who's older wouldn't or can't enjoy?

Is this REALLY the question that's being asked??
 sexypinay9501
Joined: 12/6/2012
Msg: 69
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 4:50:56 PM
Wow! no matter how many kids you have or how many times you were married, that shouldn't change on how you act towards someone you love. Affection is always the key to keeping the sparks up. If that dies the relationship dies too. And seeing a couple not matter what the age is makes every single male or female think "Wow! you hardly see that anymore, too sweet" or "That is something I would like to have" if you don't see it like that then you will always be miserable with who you are. Or just completely boring...lol
 sexypinay9501
Joined: 12/6/2012
Msg: 70
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 4:54:52 PM
The feeling of love never dies, it shouldn't change from when you are a child to when your grown up....love is love...I feel for you! maybe you just haven't found the right one to be all lovey dovey no matter where you are at. I hope one day you do!
 bucsgirl
Joined: 5/13/2006
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Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 6:05:04 PM
Better not to open your mouth, and be thought a fool, then to speak and remove all doubt.

That being a moot point, you haven't met all middle aged women, and many wouldn't give you the time of day. Not that anyone cares, myself at the top of that list, how does that taste when you choke on the foolish words you let go, when you haven't given one microsecond of what you were saying. Consider that rhetorical, look it up, I have no expectation you would understand the meaning and it is spelled correctly.
 nowayout1234
Joined: 12/9/2012
Msg: 72
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 6:15:33 PM
I hope to always be romantic now if I can catch a fish that wants to cooperate!
 TuMuchFun
Joined: 9/29/2008
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Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 6:18:47 PM
It's great that we are fortunate to have our own personalities and can be who we want and find partners who like us for who we are. That being said I hope there are lots more men like Anthony as it cuts down the competition for the warm cuddly females and takes the colder firmer ones off the market so they can't pose as warm & cuddly . Your the man Anthony...
 Love.Notes
Joined: 7/27/2012
Msg: 74
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 6:32:44 PM
Most people enjoy touching and caressing, kissing and everything that comes with it man or woman. If this is not for you than you need to find a woman that is rather cold or frigid about showing or giving affection. For god sake don't marry a love bug. And whatever you do, make SURE you let every woman you encounter, that your DON'T like affection. And don't be surprised if you most of your time alone. To be touched is a basic need.

When I came home from work one day my neighbor was screaming at me to come check on her father she thought he was having a heart attack. He was on the floor by the time I got to him and when the ambulance attendants arrived he was not responding to them either. They place him up on a chair and were loudly calling his name...to which he was not responding to either. I whispered in his daughters ear to go around and touch your father's face. She was worried about getting in the way of the ambulance attendants.. I told her again... go to your father and touch his face and call his name. She did, thank god, and the minute she touched him and called out Dad in the softest voice ever... Dad responded! I'm telling you touch is a very important and basic need in our lives. Often times it's the finishing touch that means the most to people.

Perhaps someday you will see just how meaningful a touch can truly be.
 _PassionFlower
Joined: 11/27/2011
Msg: 75
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 12/12/2012 6:42:59 PM
This would be yet another reason why I don't date older men....I love to cuddle, and the guys I date LOVE TO CUDDLE ME!!! Touch is the 1st feel a baby encounters when coming into the world....Its natural to want to touch and be touched. I feel sorry for u....
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