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 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
Msg: 112
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationshipPage 6 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)
I get a kick outta folks who address an OP who is longgggg gone! LOL On a thread started yearrrrsss ago!
Addressing the subject or topic is good, but to address the person who originated the thread? Long gone!
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 113
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Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 3/30/2016 1:52:51 AM
^^^^^ I call out people who do this by stating how long it's been since the OP posted. I'm just glad somebody else besides me does that. Lately it's been 10 year old topics.

Hint...If there's no "view profile" and "history" under the "joined" and "msg:", they're gone!
 Onyx49
Joined: 3/6/2016
Msg: 114
 IgottaName
Joined: 3/29/2014
Msg: 115
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 3/30/2016 3:27:32 AM
Who decided to pull this dusty, old turd out of the cellar?

I am just wondering why every middle aged woman I meet or see on this site wants a man who is romantic.

It is a dating site after all...

You would think at this point in their lives after having two or three kids and having been married once or twice they would have that out of their system.

Romance isn't something to be worked out of one's system, like a flu virus...

I don't see middle aged men and women being romantic. Is this normal?

Adults being romantic? yes.
You not getting it? Not so much.

I can see kids acting like , well kids but people that are almost in their 60's feeling the need to be lovey dovey.

Why not?

Can someone explain this to me.

Hopefully, some one has at some point in the past 4years....
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 116
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 3/30/2016 8:27:57 AM

Who decided to pull this dusty, old turd out of the cellar?



For the answer, go back to msg 113 , look at the date of the posting, then go to msg 114 and check the date of THAT posting.


You're welcome
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 117
Why must some people complain they get what others want?
Posted: 3/30/2016 10:04:33 AM
well, when there isn't any new posts that are interesting, I guess one has to dig deep. It is like a high school reunion, tho, seeing some old faces. I liked the pics of the girls of Brazil in Halcyon's profile, especially the topless one on the left. naturally curvy.

if you want to know why this post got brought back from the dead, go to msg 113, subtract 2, add 14, then multiple by 0. Then you'll know as much as the rest of us.

meanwhile, some of those middle aged broads kept their nice figures, so if they wanna hold that against me, I won't complain about their need to be all kissy.
 cassie2425
Joined: 3/4/2016
Msg: 118
Why must some people complain they get what others want?
Posted: 3/30/2016 10:39:11 AM
^^^ WTF, are you that stupid that you just have to flit around the threads and bash people? Especially when you can't even comprehend what they are discussing. I think you need meds or to brush up on your reading skills, comprehension skills, writing skills as well as quit being so friggin rude.


Are you the type that has failed relationships because the packaging looked good but inside was Bad ass mother fcker from hell?
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Lucy, did you just pull this out of your arse? Rude, rude and stupid.
 cassie2425
Joined: 3/4/2016
Msg: 119
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 3/30/2016 11:17:51 AM
^^^ The OP wasn't rude in the other thread. He was far from rude. And now you slam GTO who is one of the most gentlemen like people on the forums and has been for years. But you jump to conclusions. And while it's nice that you can own your rudeness, its not all the becoming. And really, how can I be following you around, you're posting in damn near every thread so its hard not to miss you...like a dog peeing on every blade of grass in the park.

I think you owe the kind Mr. GTO an apology.
 call_me_tater
Joined: 12/30/2014
Msg: 120
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 3/30/2016 2:14:17 PM

I don't really like the forum everybody is very very rude and opinionated
And I'm a chilled out relaxed kinda gal_:)
We know you're no girl.
Why do you insist on coming back over and over if you don't like it here?
Attention?
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 121
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Why must some people complain they get what others want?
Posted: 3/30/2016 2:17:56 PM

gtomustang
well, when there isn't any new posts that are interesting, I guess one has to dig deep. It is like a high school reunion, tho, seeing some old faces. I liked the pics of the girls of Brazil in Halcyon's profile, especially the topless one on the left. naturally curvy.


Okay, you got me with that one, I admit it. And it's not even April Fools Day (at least not quite).

On a related note, I had already spotted Halcyon's new main pic. It's been years since she posted a new pic, and it's nice to see that she's still beautiful. Looking at that picture makes me think of the James Blunt song, "You're Beautiful".



My life is brilliant.
My love is pure.
I saw an angel.
Of that I'm sure.
She smiled at me on the subway.
She was with another man.
But I won't lose no sleep on that,
'Cause I've got a plan.

You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
I saw your face in a crowded place,
And I don't know what to do,
'Cause I'll never be with you.

Yes, she caught my eye,
As we walked on by.
She could see from my face that I was,
F___ing high.
And I don't think that I'll see her again,
But we shared a moment that will last 'til the end.

You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
I saw your face in a crowded place,
And I don't know what to do,
'Cause I'll never be with you.

You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
There must be an angel with a smile on her face,
When she thought up that I should be with you.
But it's time to face the truth,
I will never be with you
 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
Msg: 122
Why must some people complain they get what others want?
Posted: 3/30/2016 2:55:18 PM
I hear there is a sale goin' on down at Rural King for them, there high rubber boots.
The kind farmers use to go stompin' thru the mud and other "wet stuff".
May also have a sale for waders at the local sporting goods store.
We're gonna need some kind of protection, down here in the trenches.
It's gettin' deep in here! LOL
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 123
Why must some people complain they get what others want?
Posted: 3/30/2016 4:58:05 PM
Thank you for the kind words, Cassie, that was my blush for the month :)

Sorry Henry, couldn't resist :)

Ah Lucy, hopefully you get lucky soon, it helps to be relaxed. Some people do own up to their bluntness, but bluntness isn't always a blessing that covers all sins. Sometimes, there's a nice way to deliver the truth. Those who know the truth about themselves, tend to pay attention, and those who do not...are going to ignore the truth no matter how it gets delivered. it is easy to slam people and dismiss it as, "hey, i'm me, put up with it", but it takes work to deliver things in a way they have a chance of being accepted. As the saying goes, the medicine goes down better with some sugar.

as for my relationships, I don't attract hotties, much less those ugly on the inside. People with poor personality tend to date people like them. they feel comfortable with someone who won't judge them, b/c to do so would be to judge their own red flags. its too bad you've been burned by attractive jerks, but there are some people beautiful in and out. at my age, they tend to be happily married :) others may have a different finding of mileage, as the saying goes.

hope the flu clears soon, it must suck as spring springs outside.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 124
Why must some people complain they get what others want?
Posted: 3/31/2016 7:03:46 AM
Ah, I thought your profile said you were looking, so I was confused. I think the real tragedy of two screwed up people is when the birth control fails (or they just fail to use it) and a poor innocent child is brought into their cauldron. if they are dating each other, perhaps they take each other out of the dating pool and dilute it less as a result :) Label me cynical, but some times I think some people are just beyond help, so if they get some sort of relationship going, then at least they have something in their life. of course, it could very well be as toxic as anything else they've invited into their lives, but hey, they're adults, they have to sleep in the proverbial bed they have made for themselves.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 125
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Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 3/31/2016 9:27:15 AM
Msg #114...

Hello!

Is your name Bob, Bawb or any of the possible Bob sounding names?


Who are addressing this to?


Some dudes prefer to watch a dirty video and grab the dong?


What the...?
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 126
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 3/31/2016 10:59:57 AM
I would still need to have physical attraction to someone in order to be all kissy, huggy, and feely, and the number attractive ones available (both genders) in the middle age bracket decrease with age.
 xsPuRx
Joined: 4/27/2013
Msg: 127
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 4/4/2016 12:07:49 AM
Strange. I love the mushy stuff lol. Then again I'm a mushy person so I guess that is why lol. I guess it depends on the person. If that is not the type of woman you like. Than find someone else! Known for my random foot and back massages . Don't even need to ask. Wanna make a women woooo. Give free unconditional massages lmao.

Some people like physical contact, some people like emotional things. Like little notes, or encouragement. I like all of it, but some people only like certain things. So figure out which ones you like. Figure out which ones your woman likes. Give her the ones she likes, and if you pick the right one. She will give you the ones you like. Don't love her the way you want to be loved. Love her the way she wants to be loved. It is the biggest mistake men make. Two way street not a one way. So you may have to do things for her that are not really your cup of tea. That is perfectly okay! She will appreciate them a ton though!
 Debisue64
Joined: 1/19/2014
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Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 4/4/2016 7:01:24 AM
I am not the kissy huggy mushy type.. BUT... the last time i was in love.. i would touch him for no reason occasionally.. his arm.. the back of his neck etc. Ohh... not much for public kissing really.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 4/4/2016 8:30:51 AM
I love an affectionate lady! Smother me, but don't suffocate me!
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 130
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 4/4/2016 9:16:42 AM

I am not the kissy huggy mushy type.. BUT... the last time i was in love.. i would touch him for no reason occasionally.. his arm.. the back of his neck etc. Ohh... not much for public kissing really.


Same here, I'm not touchy touchy by nature, but I become very affectionate and touchy when in love. I'm still not PDA friendly, lol, I think it's cute once in a while but rubbing it in people's faces is not nice.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 131
old broads coppin' a feel, how dare they feel human
Posted: 4/4/2016 10:07:42 AM
I figure the measuring stick is, would you want a stranger to do in front of your young children, the PDA you're engaging in? Some is cute and perfectly public. Others look like you live with your parents and your parents Cunningham had the couch first (Happy Days TV reference).
 BadResponseGuy
Joined: 3/26/2013
Msg: 132
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 4/6/2016 11:54:37 AM
Depends on the person.

Sometimes when someone had a relationship drift in the past they have it stuck in their head that constant affection is the glue that holds things together. It's not.

Some people are just naturally affectionate.

If you and your partner can't agree on a common level displays of affection, then obviously there's something missing in your relationship or it's not meant to be anyway.
 Ailand
Joined: 3/5/2016
Msg: 133
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 4/6/2016 8:59:47 PM
We didn't loose interest in intimacy, if that were so, who the heck needs a man when we could spend our times doing fun hobbies we enjoy. I think the whole point on meeting a man and making connections is to find a companion. Those who aren't interested in all the mushy stuff don't need a man. More than likely they're off enjoying digging in a flower bed, cliff diving, hanging out with women in red hats and crafting.
 halcyon_skies
Joined: 7/27/2015
Msg: 134
Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 4/7/2016 7:32:32 PM

Those who aren't interested in all the mushy stuff don't need a man. More than likely they're off enjoying digging in a flower bed, cliff diving, hanging out with women in red hats and crafting.


Wrong. I'm not interested in all the mushy stuff. In fact, I do have a man, and he's not interested in the mushy stuff, either. Not everyone is mushy, lovey-dovey, touchy-feely, into PDA, all over you like a cheap suit, or whatever you want to call it.

To each his own, but don't paint everyone with the same brush.
 somekinda_wonderful
Joined: 4/21/2012
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Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 4/7/2016 8:55:58 PM
Why limit it to a relationship? I live in an a place, where very good male friends get a kiss on the lips, and every one else gets a hug and or kiss on the cheek. Touching is natural and nourishing, if its been a hard day, or a friend has had a hard day, you give/get a cuddle. On dates we also hold hands, and yeah, touchy-feely. It did take some getting used to, but now I look forward to seeing friends :)
 furishiko
Joined: 4/13/2016
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Why do middle age women still feel the need to be all kissy, huggy and feeling in a relationship
Posted: 4/17/2016 11:16:37 AM
because it never goes out of style! if you dont like being touched put on some damn armor or just stay away from people..family, friends, kids..anyone with the potential to hug you or kiss you in away or fashion. stay away from me for starters you old sour puss!
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