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 ~Hams~
Joined: 9/18/2008
Msg: 9
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If I was lucky enough to ever get a date I would never bring up the subject of sex
before we had even met for the first time!
Maybe I'm old fashioned but that is something that
wouldn't ever be discussed until I had gotten to know the lady concerned.
It sounds to me like this guy is only interested in having a one night stand
and you will just end up as another notch on his bed post
Its funny how so many men always manage to change the conversation to sex
when there is so many other things that you can talk about before meeting up with someone!
 Loose_end
Joined: 9/12/2006
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Posted: 1/2/2013 10:20:21 AM
Its no biggie someone mentioning sex


Ok, tea all over the keyboard!

I was reminded how many Women get knob pics from Men. What a wonderful putdown that would be.....

"Thanks for the pic, I've no problems with you sending me it......Drum roll..............It's no biggie!!"

Ok, wasnt as funny now that i typed it out...

Oh yes! The topic......

Choice is yours op. Just take the usual precautions, let someone know where you are.........etc etc blah blah blah.......

You dont have anything to lose as far as i can see...

And dont take it all to heart, he made an error in judgement, lets not hang the noose round his neck just yet.
 andy1961
Joined: 6/15/2006
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Posted: 1/2/2013 10:22:37 AM

whats wrong with a bit of sexual chemistry before you meet?


Sex texting before you've even met is NOT sexual chemistry.

Dear oh dear.
 DAFT_DOG
Joined: 4/23/2011
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Posted: 1/2/2013 10:58:27 AM
methinks there`s too many false halo`s flying about this place :O)
 DAFT_DOG
Joined: 4/23/2011
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Posted: 1/2/2013 10:58:55 AM
methinks there`s too many false halo`s flying about this place :O)


ooops, too itchy on the send button hahaha :O)
 Loose_end
Joined: 9/12/2006
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Posted: 1/2/2013 2:01:11 PM
She should be on her date right about now.......

Cant wait for the concluding chapter to this gripping story.
 Loose_end
Joined: 9/12/2006
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Posted: 1/2/2013 2:18:20 PM

Oh dear loose_end you need to get out more love


Oh really.......

And what brings you here then Mrs Woman.

It could like brief encounter for the 21st century!
 ScooterSB
Joined: 8/25/2011
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Posted: 1/3/2013 10:02:38 AM
If you have spoken about it, and he said he doesn't a one night stand then whats the big deal

'Knowing that I don't want a one night stand do you still want to meet up?'
'You know I don't want that, silly'
then you think *hmmmm maybe he's just saying that and he does want a one night after all*

That sounds more like your issue than his you can't assume all men are a) lairs and b) only after sex

The easy way to find out is simply not have sex with him, if you go out with him and he says 'hey I have a nice bottle of wine back at my place' or something all you have to do is say 'um no thanks' then if he calls you again, great. If not, you were right and he's a scum bag
 matt e
Joined: 12/28/2007
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Posted: 1/3/2013 12:01:50 PM
Just been catching up on this thread. I think some women read way to much in to stuf.
 GeordieColin
Joined: 10/18/2012
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Posted: 1/3/2013 5:21:44 PM
It is perfectly feasible for a man to be a demonstrably horny dirty **stard while single then being a very loyal and trusting man once he is settled with someone given half a chance to prove it
 Loose_end
Joined: 9/12/2006
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Posted: 1/4/2013 12:46:24 AM
What an ending!

Thrilling stuff! My breath has been bated since the first installment. I couldnt get home from work quickly enough this morning to check this one out.........

Well worth the wait!
 Loose_end
Joined: 9/12/2006
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Posted: 1/4/2013 9:05:22 AM

Yes...sarcasm...the lowest for of wit.....Touch of jealousy???


Absolutely jealous! Nice Woman thinks I'm coming across as a bit raunchy yet still goes on a date with me..........And a 2nd date as well! I seem to have missed the 2nd date bit, when did that get squeezed in?

What with this one and the other Lady who's a bit too nice just queuing them up..........When did the mating season start? I seem to have missed it again.


loose_end I love your posts, always make me smile


*Blush*
 Nottinghamfellow
Joined: 4/5/2012
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Posted: 1/4/2013 11:20:08 AM
How does one find the deleted threads section?
 matt e
Joined: 12/28/2007
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Posted: 1/4/2013 12:13:23 PM
Me too this is like the trueman show!!!!

Lookong forward to hearing about the third date

(imagine a winking emoticon here)
 Loose_end
Joined: 9/12/2006
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Posted: 1/4/2013 12:42:05 PM
Lots of stuff here which proves to me why i do rather enjoy these here forums.

I feel like i've just got a ticking off from Mum & Dad.

I truly am enjoying this thread. certainly beats talking about anti-aging cream.

I see Ruth is here...........yoohoo Ruth........Oh Ruth...........Yummy mummy!
 Warren_Evans
Joined: 3/3/2008
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Posted: 1/4/2013 12:59:54 PM
Not to put to fine a point on it, your first reaction is right. He has only one thing on his mind i'm sorry to say.
 Bellacate
Joined: 9/26/2012
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Posted: 1/4/2013 8:09:02 PM
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/deletedthreads.aspx
 Nottinghamfellow
Joined: 4/5/2012
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Posted: 1/5/2013 4:21:02 AM
Thank you bella
 GeordieColin
Joined: 10/18/2012
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Posted: 1/6/2013 12:32:02 PM
Not to put to fine a point on it, your first reaction is right. He has only one thing on his mind i'm sorry to say.

How can anyone be so utterly sure with such sparse information?
That seems like very black and white thinking
 matt e
Joined: 12/28/2007
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Posted: 1/6/2013 1:56:01 PM
Yeah but have they done it yet??
 GeordieColin
Joined: 10/18/2012
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Posted: 1/7/2013 3:27:41 AM
^^^ Why focus on the comments of the females in this thread? Or do you suspect that the guys who made flippant comments are closet sausage jockeys?

* appologies to NottsGuy. ;-)
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