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 bamagrl68
Joined: 11/14/2010
Msg: 62
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bliemoonlantern- Issues like this early on aren't going to get better down the road.
Find someone more compatible with you.
 mingo88
Joined: 10/12/2010
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Should I keep seeing this guy?
Posted: 2/8/2013 4:53:04 PM
Sounds like someone I was seeing. I think the one I was seeing was depressed as he had been married for 24 years and was divorced for about a year when I met him. He didn't talk to his kids. Also he had been seeing a psychiatrist and was on some meds. He also never took me anywhere but was an excellent cook and did make me some wonderful meals. He would cancel on me too. He was very unreliable and wishy washy, seemed like he didn't know what he wanted and was very unstable. It only lasted about 3 months I broke up with him because I just wasn't happy and didn't have fun with him. It sounds like your bf might also be depressed.
 MeggieMugster
Joined: 1/28/2013
Msg: 64
Should I keep seeing this guy?
Posted: 2/8/2013 5:05:00 PM
Sounds like he just wants you around for sex. how hard is that to see.
Like you only hang out at his house, and he wont take you out? why would anyone wanna waste their time with someone like that.

When I was with my ex, I wouldnt even go to his house until I knew that we were gonna be offical. he kept inviting me over, and i would say no im not ready to stay at your place yet. dont go to a guys place right away, cuz then u end up in their bedroom, and then they only care for one thing.
 Be_enchanted
Joined: 1/23/2013
Msg: 65
Should I keep seeing this guy?
Posted: 2/9/2013 8:04:51 AM

I really like him and I am falling for him.


Ask yourself realistically why you're falling for him and you may find out if that is sufficient enough to continue seeing him.
Trust your instincts if you have doubts. I personally wouldn't keep seeing him because he doesn't seem on the same page you're on right now.
 galnxtdoor64
Joined: 10/22/2009
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Should I keep seeing this guy?
Posted: 2/9/2013 6:18:08 PM
it sounds to me that it is all about him - his wants his needs his comfort
my question is would you like and appreciate it if he made some efforts towards you?
He also sounds very cheap too- but only you can decide what will satisfy all your needs
emotional, intellectual-physical so on.....
 unki121
Joined: 2/2/2013
Msg: 67
Should I keep seeing this guy?
Posted: 2/9/2013 9:46:37 PM
I was like that in one of my relationships before.I have anxiety around groups of people,so I never wanted to go out on dates.I was also very hesitent about a women with children.From what I have read it sounds like he wants to be with you but doesn't know how to deal with you having children.I am 30 now and have learned from my mistakes,if he is young between 19 and 25 then maybe he doesn't know how to act around kids
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