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 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 86
Do you still love your ex?Page 5 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)

I think when we really love someone it never really ends.


I don't agree with this. There can be events that destroys love-especially if it's fairy tale love that developed within a billionth of a second (love at first sight, instant chemistry with sparks and fireworks, etc.). Events like cheating or emotionally hurting his/her family can totally destroy all and any love. Many people fall in love with an image, and once the costume comes off of that image, we are left with a totally different person who does not live up to the fairy tale image of total perfection we envisioned in our mind.
 jeep1127girl
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 88
Do you still love your ex?
Posted: 2/3/2013 7:19:29 AM
Love? no...respect yes, he is the best dad my girls can ask for...
I would be with a man who said he loved his ex..even if they did have children together....
 jeep1127girl
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 89
Do you still love your ex?
Posted: 2/3/2013 7:22:50 AM
I meant would not be with a man who loved his ex still..even if they did have kids
 AnAustralianWoman
Joined: 4/26/2012
Msg: 90
Do you still love your ex?
Posted: 2/3/2013 8:29:58 AM
No I don't still love my ex husband. I don't even see him as a friend just an aquaintance.
The strange thing is that even my 3 son's see him 'as an aquaintance'. The ex husband catches up with his son's every other week (Their ages are 25,28,30)...they play golf together and he visit's his grandchildren.
When the emotional arrow hit's any of my son's they come to me. When I suggest they talk thing's over with their father I get .....I can't talk to dad about thing's like this. That's pretty sad.
Would I remarry this man? Yes I would...When hell freezes over.
 jan1025
Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 92
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Do you still love your ex?
Posted: 2/3/2013 8:50:21 AM
I can say that I loved all my ex.’s and I always will! I believe real and true love is forever.

I am one of those people that just don’t give my heart to any man that comes along, but when I say I love you to someone I mean it! Even if the relationship is over doesn't mean I ever stopped loving them, I just didn't like them anymore, nor do I respect them. Neither would I attend their funeral.

Thanks for the post.
Jan
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