|Should I keep pursuing this, or is she just not interested? Page 2 of 2 (1, 2)|
|If I want to know someone better I will want to meet in person ASAP. Texting, IM'ing and phone conversations do not help me get to know someone better. I need to see facial expression and have real life experience with them. |
If after a few e-mails I am still unsure about meeting in person, I simply move on. That's just me. Every one is different.
Some people feel more protected when they prolong a bond over electronic communication. It is more difficult to be rejected when a relationship has already been established. I find that this doesn't work for me because I am not interested in bonding with someone before meeting them. I don't want to image them. I want to experience them so I can know who am talking with.