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 LathaMath
Joined: 1/2/2013
Msg: 46
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Sex with a stranger in that fashion makes me think OP wants it completely free of any personal connection, pure sex, so as to speak. Next best thing to the hooker fantasy? Funny what bubbles up out of the subconcious mire. There was a woman (Nancy Friday?) who collected and published books of female erotic fantasies. I got one out of the public library to, um, increase my understanding of the feminine mystique. OP could get one out and read it. Would relax her mind and ease any self-doubt. Don't hold back on that imagination lady.
 magicmale4u
Joined: 2/3/2009
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Posted: 2/12/2013 6:46:06 AM
Hi

Have done this with a friend, or should I say for a friend, it was her fantasy, and I set it up with a guy I knew and trusted. She trusted me to vet the guy for her.

All she knew is that it was going to happen, not when. It really is a matter of trust for all 3. And for the record she loved it, because while it was unexpected and forced, it was NOT unexpected and forced.
 Funguy446
Joined: 12/31/2012
Msg: 48
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Posted: 2/12/2013 8:07:35 AM
Not at all my wife thinks the same thoughts nothing unusual about it you should give it a try.make sure protection is used a perfect strange works best there's no ties that way .
 lowmiles2
Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 49
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Posted: 2/14/2013 10:31:11 AM
I'm a friend of a friend that knows someone that is a friend of your friends, does that make me qualified?
 devolution_zone
Joined: 2/10/2013
Msg: 51
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Posted: 2/14/2013 12:05:59 PM
"How crazy am I?"

Not at all. Sex with a stranger has a certain thrill about it that makess it exciting.
 demux21
Joined: 1/7/2013
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Posted: 2/14/2013 1:04:36 PM
Not crazy at all but if he knows and youknow does that take away from the rawness?
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 53
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Posted: 2/14/2013 2:06:23 PM

I really do want to try it. however the thought of someone I really don't know is a little scary. I have someone who wants to offer his services to me. but I've backed away from it because I don't want to be murdered


Realize first that it's a fantasy. But just because it's a fantasy it does not mean that you cannot PLAY act the fantasy with someone that you know and want to share the experience.

For instance my ex and I would do the fantasy that she was at the house doing a job and then seduced me. Or she would wear a different wig and act like she was from Brazil, or other times from Sweden. We even talked and behaved on character. So at the end of our sexual experience and everything went back to reality, she could check on the kids sleeping, and go back to a normal life. We also did one where we would go to a bar and she would go first and I would go to the bathroom and then come back and act like we just met. For this type of fantasy we even parked in public places and made love outside.

So, find someone you absolutely trust, you are sure you are not going to get something weird and that you two relate. Then play act all your fantasies in a safe way.
 SlaveDriver8
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 54
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Posted: 2/14/2013 2:36:11 PM

How crazy am I?


Not at all. It's so common that Nancy Friday included an entire section (or was it a chapter?) in her book _My Secret Garden_ about such fantasies.
 Thick1forUboo
Joined: 5/3/2011
Msg: 55
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Posted: 2/14/2013 3:49:56 PM
I know it is and if you're using condoms, and totally practicing safe sex, it really is fun.... :)
 skin2ch85
Joined: 1/16/2013
Msg: 56
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Posted: 2/21/2013 3:00:24 AM
not crazy at all I do it all of the time. I like to be spontaneous
 soulsearcher012
Joined: 7/4/2012
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Posted: 2/21/2013 9:26:36 AM
To me , this is like being raped.....don't get it.


Rape definition

1.the unlawful compelling of a person through physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse.


2.any act of sexual intercourse that is forced upon a person.
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 58
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Posted: 2/21/2013 9:57:43 AM

How crazy am I?

You mean how crazy are you for having this fantasy, or how crazy are you for posting this in Mouth-Breather Central in the hopes of attracting every knuckle-dragging leg humper on POF?

I'm sure you'll filter through the thousands of offers you get until you find the one you want. Well played.
 safah1
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 59
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Posted: 2/21/2013 10:05:27 AM
hi how are you . im ready if you need it
 Pisces22469
Joined: 8/2/2009
Msg: 60
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Posted: 2/21/2013 10:25:56 AM
At this point, she should have guys scheduled to fly in for the next year to help her with that fantasy. I can't imagine there would be a shortage of guys willing to help a girl with her fantasy.
 pally250
Joined: 1/20/2013
Msg: 61
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Posted: 2/21/2013 10:43:50 AM
I really do not see anything wrong in that my dear, especially if its gives you satisfaction.
 tr1986
Joined: 11/11/2008
Msg: 62
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Posted: 2/21/2013 11:07:14 AM
my ex use to kinda do that she'd come over in the morning a few hours before i'd wake up, I'd leave a door unlocked and she stealthily sneak into my place into my room and start without me so to speak, it was like "surprise your now awake and having sex" lol
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 63
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Posted: 2/21/2013 12:24:08 PM
Not too long ago, I met a very nice Lady within my ~age-range~ (45) who ,
after a fairly short conversation , took the aggreassive approach with me!!
She was in ~Just That Mood~ , that she > Went For It <...Right in her shop!!!
Lifted up her shirt and invited me to 'Indulge'....then after asking if I _Really_ liked Cunni-...
She dropped her pants and let me Indulge some More!!!
I was absolutely Shocked!!!
I was Shaking like a Leaf ....after the most wonderful face-full I've had in Many years!!!

*VOOF!!!*
 dobbie55
Joined: 7/17/2007
Msg: 64
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Posted: 2/21/2013 12:53:56 PM
Are you still of this or have you acted on it ? Please be careful.
 stanley99
Joined: 8/27/2011
Msg: 65
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Posted: 2/21/2013 5:31:22 PM
well go for it if that what you wont
 youonlyknow2
Joined: 10/5/2011
Msg: 66
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Posted: 2/21/2013 11:49:12 PM
I have pics let me know, I am very local to you too
 Jrocbigcountry
Joined: 10/28/2012
Msg: 67
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Posted: 2/22/2013 2:42:12 AM
not crazy at all you are toatally sain, just have a little wild side nothing too major
 Jrocbigcountry
Joined: 10/28/2012
Msg: 68
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Posted: 2/22/2013 2:42:28 AM
not crazy at all you are toatally sain, just have a little wild side nothing too major
 t2973h
Joined: 12/5/2010
Msg: 69
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Posted: 2/22/2013 6:33:05 AM
Not crazy at all. I also think about it too, lol. Guess we're all sickos. haha
 sexguy2012
Joined: 4/27/2012
Msg: 70
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Posted: 2/22/2013 7:40:57 AM
You're not, I actually had 2 I almost did it with.
One goit back with her BF so it died.
The other one wanted me to be a bit too violent so I declined.
 gogogo66
Joined: 2/4/2013
Msg: 72
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Posted: 2/22/2013 9:57:53 PM
An ex lover actually did this ,I was asleep and we had broken up 2 mths previously ,I opened my eyes to have him standing in my bedroom,thought i was dreaming but it was real and very very scarry. My 18 year old had let him into the house(he had never met him b/4,thinking i had invited this guy over,never done that b/4 so what was my boy thinking?)
Was shocked and yes I let him stay a bit but not for sex!.
Son got a lecture about never ever letting anyone in the house unless I say someones comming over. I never mix male relationships with kids unless its a serious one .
sooooo pffttttt to that ever ever being a fantasy of mine.
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