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 ozsealady1
Joined: 6/13/2013
Msg: 126
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Re: Cambodian young ladies and Jabba men.
My friend who recently returned made no comment about these young women being married to the Jabba lookalikes.
She just saw so many young, well appointed ladies in cafes and walking hand in hand with Jabba clones.
She did say that no western woman would want these men. They were feral.
But accommodation and living expenses in Cambodia are very low in comparison to Germany or the USA or Australia.
It could be a great life changer for these young women. Depending on how much money they can make.
She could always close her eyes and think of England I suppose.

Re: China.
An acquaintance of mine recently married a Chinese woman - she was a China qualified nurse and had come to Australia to get an Australian nursing qualification which is internationally recognised as an international, full fee paying student. (Very expensive.)
She met and married this man in Sydney then surprisingly fell pregnant, quit her nursing studies and applied for residency.
When he travelled to China to meet her family, Chinese men were spitting at him in the street and shouting abuse because he was with one of their, very rare, gorgeous young women. And yes she is gorgeous.


Also when I travelled to China a few years ago I spent some time with very well educated young women.
Many who were doing post graduate studies and working for good companies.

These ladies had no intention of getting married and living the lives of their mothers and grandmothers.
Their aim, was to improve their English... which is why so many were talking to me... and get a job with a multinational company with a good salary and benefits. Be career women.

So yes. Feel sorry for young Chinese men. They are loosing out from a number of directions.
 ozsealady1
Joined: 6/13/2013
Msg: 127
so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 5/20/2014 12:16:17 AM
I should also add that whilst I was in China for 10 days I had a multitude of marriage proposals, propositions and men stopping in the street and asking to have their photograph taken with me.
At work functions nearly all of the men wanted a photo with me.

Apparently I could have had my choice!!!! Even though I was a head taller than most.
And at least double the size of the stunning Chinese ladies.
 LAgoodguy
Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 128
so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 5/20/2014 9:43:16 AM
Many in china are fascinated with white people. They also consider mixed babies to be more beautiful when mixed with whites.
They also look at white people as the exotic ones, Same as many here think Asian have the exotic looks.
 TrustInKarma
Joined: 2/14/2014
Msg: 129
so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 5/20/2014 10:44:18 AM

If that same guy would like to meet a younger or just a good looking woman here in LA LA land. He would have to wine and dine her and take her places and buy her things. Which would cost four times as much as flying to Cambodia and back and bring someone. If he is lucky she agree to marry him if not he is back to wine and dine another woman.

No man I've dated, including my ex husband EVER had to spend money on me or wine and dine me. Not in my 20s, not now in my 40s. Not sure what women you guys keep going after that demand to be wined and dined.


If anyone would take the time and look at the many profiles here in SO CALI they would notice that if a woman is even half way decent looking they are looking for guys much younger they are. Its very common to see a woman profile say she is looking for someone 5 years older and 12 years younger.


The reason for that is that men have been doing it like that FOREVER. I'm on Match (not much longer, my subscription is about to expire), and cannot find a man my age who is not looking for women 25-38 or something like that. When I first separated from my husband, I was ONLY looking for guys my age. No such luck. They were either married and lying about it, or still wanted to have kids at their age, or just thought they "deserved" younger women. I had a 70-year old geezer write me - he was looking for women 25-50!!! He flat out stated that he was rich and DESERVED (!) hot, younger women, even though he was not attractive at all. I've had a lot more younger guys approach me than older guys, and no, not just for the sex. And yes, I will admit, once I've been with younger men, it kind of spoilt it for the older ones as far as virility and looks.



On ok-cupid its even more common to see that with many looking for 15 years younger with some much younger then 15 years. What is the difference between what men and what women want??? Youth sells and every one chases it. Be it men or women. Men always showed off with power be it hunting money or fame. Women showed off the physical attributes they had. Older men have the power that women want younger women have the physical attributes that men crave.. Now many older women start to get more power as well and guess what they are out looking for.....


The difference is that the vast majority of men have to be physically attracted to a women to get it up. WOmen can hold their breath, close their eyes, use lube, and pretend they like it if they want to land a sugar daddy, and then get it on with a hot guy who really gets their juices flowing. If I looked like a shriveled up raisin, I doubt that any man - younger or older - would give me the time of day.


Besides why so many women care that men look for younger women???
Are they looking for a chance to point a finger at someone??


We "care" because it has been thrown in our faces all our lives - we as women are only "valuable" as long as we are YOUNG and hot. But hey, I get it now, I'm not pointing fingers, I go for the men that I'm attracted to myself. Guys are finally getting it that aging takes a toll on them too, and makes them less desirable, just like the women they used to ignore once they were "old" and "over the hill".
 LAgoodguy
Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 130
so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 5/20/2014 4:24:13 PM
Trusting Karma

****No man I've dated, including my ex husband EVER had to spend money on me or wine and dine me. Not in my 20s, not now in my 40s. Not sure what women you guys keep going after that demand to be wined and dined.****

First I know that living in LA sure gives a different spin on the dating game. While not all women are out there to be wined and dined, Many are and plenty would go out with a guy thinking that at the worst they get free dinner.

****The reason for that is that men have been doing it like that FOREVER. I'm on Match (not much longer, my subscription is about to expire), and cannot find a man my age who is not looking for women 25-38 or something like that. When I first separated from my husband, I was ONLY looking for guys my age. No such luck. They were either married and lying about it, or still wanted to have kids at their age, or just thought they "deserved" younger women. I had a 70-year old geezer write me - he was looking for women 25-50!!! He flat out stated that he was rich and DESERVED (!) hot, younger women, even though he was not attractive at all. I've had a lot more younger guys approach me than older guys, and no, not just for the sex. And yes, I will admit, once I've been with younger men, it kind of spoilt it for the older ones as far as virility and looks. ****

The reason that old guy asked was cause it works. If he couldn't get young women by flaunting his money he and many other old rich guys wouldn't do it. So no matter what everyone says flaunting money does work and it has to say something..
Just like you why would you think that after the old guys been with younger women those younger women didn't spoil it for them so now they want to date younger. After all the younger women have more virility and better looks then the older women. Had an old women send me a message wanted to meet. All I could think was that she had to be out of her mind. She was o.k looking for her AGE, But damn why would I want to date someone so old She was 17 years older then me and I were 45 at the time. No she wouldn't have done it for me LOL She would have said that even younger men can't keep up with her.


****The difference is that the vast majority of men have to be physically attracted to a women to get it up. WOmen can hold their breath, close their eyes, use lube, and pretend they like it if they want to land a sugar daddy, and then get it on with a hot guy who really gets their juices flowing. If I looked like a shriveled up raisin, I doubt that any man - younger or older - would give me the time of day.****

I agree with you that if I'm not attracted to a woman then sex is the last thing I want with her. For men the looks of a woman is one of the first things we notice. I chased older women in my early twenties, I would have said anything that they wanted to hear to get laid. I also know that I wouldn't want to date them now when they are so much older. What im saying is that men and women like to chase younger. Looks and sex appeal works the best for a women while money and power works for the men. Now in the 21st century many women start to make there own money. But even they would try and date an even richer guy. Again here in LA its a lot more noticeable then many other places. So I know what I say might not make much sense for people in other places. Yes I know I over simplify things and there are lots of grey area in there as well. I'm pointing more of a basic thing here in the posts.

****We "care" because it has been thrown in our faces all our lives - we as women are only "valuable" as long as we are YOUNG and hot. But hey, I get it now, I'm not pointing fingers, I go for the men that I'm attracted to myself. Guys are finally getting it that aging takes a toll on them too, and makes them less desirable, just like the women they used to ignore once they were "old" and "over the hill". ****

You see I don't care if a woman wants to date younger or have other wants or demands. I'm as picky as they come my self and I know I don't have the looks of the hot and much younger guys. Heck some people think I look older then I'm.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 131
so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 5/20/2014 7:57:20 PM
All of this constant whining about guys chasing after younger women goes back to the historical beginning of time, when it was arbitrarily decided that one of man's duties was do the chasing in the mating game and it was the woman's duty to pretend it bothered and annoyed her. Since it was the guy's duty to be the chaser, it's natural he's going to chase after what he finds most appealing, which would include women in their prime-even if he isn't. If people believe in evolution and humans originally started out as tadpoles millions of years ago, I would bet the male tadpole was chasing after the best looking and most fertile female tadpole, irregardless of how old the male tadpole was and how young the female was.

Western society has totally changed when females demanded and got to be on par with men in all areas of life-except in dating. Dating has not evolved since the days of the cave man. It's still up to the man to do the chasing and women play hide and seek. If a woman is not satisfied with who is chasing her-or not chasing her-a woman should step up to the plate and pursue who SHE finds appealing, and see what it's like when the shoe is on the other foot.
 Peppermint_Petunias
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so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 5/23/2014 3:24:24 PM


Besides why so many women care that men look for younger women???

Do we? this thread is about younger Asian women and senoirs, not some guy just looking to get a woman 15 years younger.
I married 2 younger and thats not counting the oodles of noodles I've dated younger.
Not 20 flipping years though.
Be born before the Beatles broke up and I'm OK as we could actually have some things in common.

Older is fine to, if you don't have an entitled, old coot attitude, or bitter about the past.
Most older men I have met and dated, split a nut over music made after Def Leppard or George Jones was the rage and listen to RUSH *dumb-ass* Limbaugh, not RUSH the band.
Shoot me.
 professora
Joined: 7/28/2008
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Posted: 5/27/2014 7:37:17 PM
I have been part of the Asian community for over 40 years--through marriage.

People are the same.

These senior men are in for a surprise---some Asian women are lovely and some are less so---> same as the USA:)
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 134
so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 5/27/2014 8:03:30 PM

Older is fine to, if you don't have an entitled, old coot attitude, or bitter about the past.
Most older men I have met and dated, split a nut over music made after Def Leppard or George Jones was the rage and listen to RUSH *dumb-ass* Limbaugh, not RUSH the band.
Shoot me.


Glenn Beck will always be my number 1 whack job, was he crazy or crazy like a Fox?

I get quite a laugh when I explain about a group or movie, and I hear" Oh, I not born yet". It's a running joke, along with, "he is reeeally old".

Now I hear a lot of Usher, Bruno Mars Ne-Yo, Chris Brown, CeeLo, and number one, Maroon 5.
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 135
so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 5/28/2014 10:01:12 AM

If that same guy would like to meet a younger or just a good looking woman here in LA LA land. He would have to wine and dine her and take her places and buy her things. Which would cost four times as much as flying to Cambodia and back and bring someone. If he is lucky she agree to marry him if not he is back to wine and dine another woman.

What a fascinating and "accurate" hypothesis.

But I'm curious....who's going to SUPPORT said new Asian girlfriend once she's brought into the dumpy older man's country? Who'll feed her and clothe her and provide medical insurance and a roof over her head and pretty shiny baubles for her to wear, and nights out on the town or weekends away or a car to drive? I guess you left THAT part out. May I assume she'll be supporting herself in style as a nail tech at the mall so the man won't have to invest another dime in her once she's here? Good God.

Only a fool would believe that 5 years of occasionally dating a young women in the United States costs MORE than the cost of moving a woman from another continent over to the US and then providing for her for the next 5 years (or longer, if she doesn't dump his ugly old ass once she gets her green card).

Yeah. That's an blue chip investment.
 ohenryx
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so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 5/28/2014 1:00:17 PM

daynadaze
I imagine a man just looking for younger and hot could for the same price get a call girl or hooker for the evening and not have to marry anyone from any country. Why would someone go to all that trouble of finding an expensive women overseas just to be divorced and paying child support in a few years? If you factor in the cost of even getting to look at them, then going there and getting one, paying all the costs, getting her home and all the paperwork and then getting married and finding she wants her family taken care of...you could pay for many nights with a lovely escort service employee. There is certainly no guarantee that just because you pay for a mail order bride that she's going to be submissive or compatible. A call girl, escort, hooker is paid to act in a way you order them, and no messy child support or family members to bother with.

Yeah, abelian has returned to the forums! The only thing missing are the Mickey Mouse ears. (grin)

Just kidding, put down that pitchfork! Put it down, I say!


Peppermint_Petunias
Most older men I have met and dated, split a nut over music made after Def Leppard or George Jones was the rage and listen to RUSH *dumb-ass* Limbaugh, not RUSH the band.
Shoot me.


DragonBits
Glenn Beck will always be my number 1 whack job, was he crazy or crazy like a Fox?

I have wondered before if Fox News isn’t a little like WWE (Pro Wrestling). Put on programming that will make the viewers throw things at the screen. It doesn’t matter if they hate it, as long as they watch it and/or talk about it. And it’s working, we’re talking about it, aren’t we?
 LAgoodguy
Joined: 8/21/2008
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so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 5/29/2014 11:33:32 AM
JerseyGirl.
If an old guy gets to marry or date a much younger woman do you really think that's when he stops paying for her and take care of her?? Just look for the name Sterling in the papers. Check out what it cost him to have a younger woman..
cars houses vacations and paying all her bills. Yes that is more common even if its not always as much money but it comes down to money at the end.
It is what it is and I'm sure both know of the game that is being played. While I know of a couple that has 25 year difference and it has nothing to do with money it is rare.
It happens very often when some old A$$ picks up an Asian woman and treats her like dirt.
Bottom line is having an American wife does not mean you would stay married or she would not take you to the cleaners. Well at list the guy can have a much younger wife to enjoy with. With hope it might take her a few years before he is Americanized compare to already American woman.
I sat in many family courtrooms and let me tell you its not pretty, Its down right nasty. You just wonder why would anyone in his right mind would ever get married. The reason I say his and not hers is that I can remember only once when a guy walked away getting something from the woman.
 daynadaze
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Posted: 5/29/2014 11:55:54 AM
No pitchfork and why in the world would you compare me to abelian? Seriously, I'd like to know why what I wrote made you think of some troll who hacked POF and made nasty posts using other members accounts?

I'm just wondering, why rich old men pick a wife who will surely sue the pants off them at some point, if they only married him for the money in the first place, when a hooker/escort/call girl could be had when needed and probably much cheaper in the long run. I get wanting companionship but how is someone who is only there to cash in different than a prostitute except the latter has to be cheaper in the long run. Someone rich can hire cooks and maids and dates, why would they need a wife? There has to be something psychological going on for so many to seek someone they already feel jaded about who is going to use them. I'm not picking on genders, it just seems to be more rich old men take trophy wives than there are rich old women.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
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so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 5/29/2014 1:27:15 PM

Someone rich can hire cooks and maids and dates, why would they need a wife?...
it just seems to be more rich old men take trophy wives than there are rich old women.


Rich guys use trophy wives mainly for breeding purposes and bragging rights. Men want to reduce the chance of having ugly kids, so they pick a trophy wife to breed with. It's makes for good PR and family photos when the wife and kids are good looking. A prime example of this is Prince Charles and Diana. Do you think they hit it off strictly because of having so many common interests and his wonderful sense of humor? They both had their own agendas for going through the mockery of a marriage. which was more like a business arrangement than a marriage.
 ohenryx
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so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 5/29/2014 3:15:57 PM

daynadaze
No pitchfork and why in the world would you compare me to abelian? Seriously, I'd like to know why what I wrote made you think of some troll who hacked POF and made nasty posts using other members accounts?


You are confusing the “fake abelian” with the real “abelian”. The real abelian was around these forums for several years. He was a highly intelligent, highly educated man (PhD in physics), who had some slightly unusual opinions. Abelian was a volunteer moderator here in the forums for a while, and when he left, someone else entirely signed up with the same user name and “inherited” his privileges.

Why in the h*ll they would tie the moderator privileges to the user name and not to the account number, I have no idea. But then, there are a lot of things about this site that make absolutely no sense.

The reason I compared you to abelian, the real one, was that one of his more outrageous opinions was that men should (under certain circumstances) pay for sex, which is exactly what you were saying.

I held abelian in the highest regards, and my comparison was a compliment (at least in my mind).
 daynadaze
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so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 5/29/2014 3:36:23 PM
Thank you, I did not know there were two and that it played out that way. I do remember thinking WTH? because all the sudden a regular member turned into a nightmare.
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As for family photos, most of the rich old men with younger trophy wives also have older, not as pretty, ex-wives with whom they had children who look like them or the ex or both. I think the children a trophy wife has is not about the old man wanting good looking children (you can't make that happen, it's always going to be a toss of the genetic dice) it's about the trophy wife making sure she has child support and a house and a car and all that comes from marrying someone for their money.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 142
so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 5/29/2014 5:05:35 PM
Didn't you all know, it's all about young blood.

Young blood reverses age-related impairments in cognitive function and synaptic plasticity in mice.

As human lifespan increases, a greater fraction of the population is suffering from age-related cognitive impairments, making it important to elucidate a means to combat the effects of aging. Here we report that exposure of an aged animal to young blood can counteract and reverse pre-existing effects of brain aging at the molecular, structural, functional and cognitive level.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/24793238

What I want the NIH to do study on, does oral sex count?
 easterparadehat
Joined: 4/14/2014
Msg: 143
so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 6/4/2014 11:43:12 AM
Because old men can't get younger caucasian women. Maybe they also have a thing for small eyes and boy bodies with next to no b***bs.
 mike102273
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Posted: 7/4/2014 8:20:40 PM
If it ain't slanting I ain't panting ,they just look better.
 Vannili
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so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 7/6/2014 11:57:08 AM
so, I have this question all times, why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides ?



Perhaps those senior guys are tired on takeout Chinese dinner eating with a fork and they want Chinese young laides with no artherites on her hand to teach them how to use chopsticks.

Haven't you thought of that ??????
 easterparadehat
Joined: 4/14/2014
Msg: 146
so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 7/8/2014 4:27:28 AM
Mike I work alot with the public, there are ALOT of very unattractive Asian women around as well as every other type, reminds me alot of what caucasian women are like, some are attractive, many are not, however, most caucasian women supercede caucasian men in the looks department.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 147
so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 7/10/2014 9:42:14 AM
This whole topic ignores the real question?

Men of all ages and races look for women they find attractive that respond to them. It's more about who women will respond to rather than what men want.

The real question should have been? Why do younger Chinese ladies respond frequently to older western males? I know there are plenty of older Chinese males they could respond to. And the ratio of younger Chinese males to women is hugely in the woman's favor, at least in China.
 science_student
Joined: 4/1/2012
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Posted: 7/10/2014 4:43:14 PM
my 1st time here wanting to answer this year old question? help me to help you understsand...
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
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Posted: 7/10/2014 6:53:23 PM

my 1st time here wanting to answer this year old question? help me to help you understsand...


dear science student, I would like to help you.

The site has a restriction on age that is +/- 14 years of the age on your profile.

Since you are listed as a 108 year old woman that wants to meet men age 33-53, there is no way anyone can contact you that is less than 94 years old. The only men that can MSG you are from 94-122 years old.

So no one will ever MSG you. It that is what you want, then OK, but it makes your goal of looking for a relationship a little difficult.

The only way you can change this is to delete your profile and create a new one.
 mitchozie
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so , I have this question all the time , why so many senior guys looking for younger Chinese laides
Posted: 7/24/2014 10:56:44 PM
I have dated a number of asian women, and have had a couple of chinese girlfriends. The bottom line, is that, being small myself, I prefer smaller women (no matter what their ethnicity). I date women who's company I enjoy,and who have intelligence and that rare commodity called, "class".
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