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 zephyr57
Joined: 11/21/2012
Msg: 55
What makes sex bad for you?Page 3 of 9    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9)
Condoms make sex suck. But herpes sucks more from the pictures I recall from high school ... so I put up with it.
 59thShadeofGrey
Joined: 9/25/2012
Msg: 56
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/11/2013 7:07:53 AM
When she brings her 2 swedish suntan model girlfriends to bed with us and nobody can wait their turn. I HATE that....
:-(
 SugahPunkin
Joined: 5/28/2010
Msg: 57
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/11/2013 7:57:02 AM
*laughs
Y'all are so funny.. love this thread.
Ive found out that if we can't kiss well then sex will be awful. It's a sure bet. There are just some men that I don't mesh well with during kissing. You can tell. It's that awkward moving of lips or breathing is off or they just don't connect with your style of kissing. Like it's those simple lil pecks kisses with no feeling where they do that smack sound each time... ugh. Or they do the pushing hard against your mouth and you feel the gritty touch of teeth against yours... ugh..
When you find a man that kisses the same way you do. Then the sex will be off the charts. Now, if youre the type that does lil dry pecks with smacking sounds and you find a partner that does it then hey, sex will be fantastic and good for you! But for those who don't its awful.
So.. kiss them well, and long before you get to the next step. Save yourself alot of trouble in the long run.
... and yes, there is bad pizza and bad sex.. and yes, No sex is better than Bad sex.. and yes, Id rather have wonderful good day at work than horrible day filled with bad sex which leaves you unfulfilled and lonely.

I'm not saying I'm wonderful at sex. I'm never gonna say I'm da bomb at sex or kissing. Or that I'm every man's dream sex machine because I'm not that stupid. lol.
I will say I deeply enjoy a man. I think that's the key here. I enjoy a man. I enjoy his laughter and smile, the way he flexes his muscles fixing a car and not aware of a girl watching him, I enjoy the sound of his voice, the way his cologne smells mixed with his scent, I enjoy the weight of his body on me. I enjoy when he thinks he is gentle and even that is rough. It's sincere and honest. I enjoy seeing the need in his eyes when he can't express it verbally and I just wanna give it him. It's that moment that makes him sensual and sexy.
To enjoy a man starts long before your clothes are off.
I've heard many women say he doesn't get me off..or he doesn't do it right. I don't put the blame on anyone for my lack of orgasm. I know what I need and want and if I refuse to allow someone in on my secret way of orgasms then I have no one to blame but myself.
My needs are met because I give myself to him to enjoy. Sometimes that enjoyment is one sided. Nothing wrong with giving him what he needs at the moment. i.e. the quickie or head or whatever. That's the point in giving yourself to the person. It also works in reverse. When it doesnt conflict arrives and feelings are hurt or we become selfish or dissatisfied.
I enjoy a man sexually in any manner we decide works for us. Orally, anally, vaginally.. it's all good as long as we openly express our limits or lack of..lol. Sex sometimes is all it takes to make it good. Sometimes it requires making love to make it good. Sometimes they coexist, but usually it's one or the other.
Gentle, rough, kink, vanilla.. a mixture of all. It's when you no longer feel the need for the person that makes it bad.
 Rapunzel1964
Joined: 10/25/2012
Msg: 58
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/11/2013 10:12:36 AM
" No sex is better than Bad sex"

^^^ Agree.
 lowmiles2
Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 59
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/14/2013 10:36:19 AM
Hey Cinder... I'd definitely would like to trip your trigger. If your not getting "any" then that's your fault.
 yerkiddinrite
Joined: 12/19/2012
Msg: 60
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/14/2013 12:08:14 PM
Bad sex to me is with a man who can't keep it up. What's up with that anyway? Believe me, it isn't my fault, as my ex used to say, "You could suck a watermelon through a garden hose." And I am full of enthusiasm and energy. I guess the guys in my age group are getting to the Viagra stage of their lives. This sucks. That's it. I need to find a 35 year old.
 ItsMeMarcusBee
Joined: 9/18/2012
Msg: 61
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/14/2013 1:36:23 PM
OMG that shit is hilarious hahahahaha
 devolution_zone
Joined: 2/10/2013
Msg: 62
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/14/2013 1:52:26 PM
"What would you say a woman does or doesn't do to make it bad sex for a man?"
Women are too passive and always need to be given directions before they'll touch anything they didn't touch last time. Then, they stop to ask if this is ok or that is ok and wait for an answer before continuing. Women have sex the same way they use ATM machines - in a very baffling way that has nothing to do with the way it was designed to work. Woman are far more often receivers rather than givers, even when they think they're givers. Who knows? Just go have sex and enjoy it. If one guy doesn't like it, try another. Someone will be happy regardless of what any other guy thought.

"Bad sex to me is with a man who can't keep it up. What's up with that anyway?"
Apparently, not him.
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 63
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/14/2013 3:25:05 PM
What makes sex bad for me,,when the right and left hand argue who"s turn t is,, I divorced them both,, ;)
 malefishforafemalefish
Joined: 2/10/2013
Msg: 64
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/24/2013 4:10:27 PM
bad sex is not gittin no sex at all
 sigungq
Joined: 1/4/2013
Msg: 65
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What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/24/2013 4:18:41 PM
What makes sex bad for you?

Lack of it.
 grove_22
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 66
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/24/2013 4:44:41 PM
A woman that has bad body odor / hygiene
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 67
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/24/2013 9:29:35 PM
Someone not being attentive to what is actually going on between us. Meaning he is just getting his, his own way & not paying attention enough to notice my reactions or things I am saying. Guys who just have their regular routine sex. No imagination or no want to change anything or try new things. Even if they say they know they are like this yet it fine for them. Those would be the major reasons I wouldn't stay around long.
 Pangaean
Joined: 1/9/2013
Msg: 68
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/24/2013 9:37:21 PM

If she lays there like a manatee...lol ~ Prime Ribb


A manatee?! LOL


What makes sex bad for you? ~ OP


Who, me?


Yes, you.


I'm kinda busy right now.


Just answer the question.


...When I am...

trying...

...to...

post... something to a POF... forum...

at the same time...
 LoveSong99
Joined: 12/9/2012
Msg: 69
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/24/2013 10:09:36 PM
No rhythm...
Too gentle...Hit it hard man...its not made of porcelain
Can't get hard enough....You can't screw with a semi
Not lasting long enough...5 minutes isn't long enough
Not enough foreplay
 malefishforafemalefish
Joined: 2/10/2013
Msg: 70
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/25/2013 7:22:13 AM
bad sex is not gitting any and her layin there like a dish rag.
 Katherine_W
Joined: 7/21/2012
Msg: 72
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What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/25/2013 12:06:18 PM
"What makes sex bad for you?"

#1) Not getting any - that's bad
#2) Selfish men!
 ReadBeforeWriting
Joined: 9/30/2012
Msg: 73
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/25/2013 12:50:05 PM
Contrivance in any area
Too attentive and/or gentle
Not demanding or aggressive
No stamina
Not verbal or is verbal but contrived
Not "dirty"
Thinks all females like to receive oral attention
Does not have a lot of force behind his thrusts
Is unable to BE selfish because every female before me has complained he IS selfish
 eattoplease55
Joined: 10/22/2012
Msg: 74
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/25/2013 2:25:54 PM
Not divulging anything but its nice when she takes the reigns every now and then...get tired of doing all the entertaining....lol
 Vox_Populi
Joined: 1/8/2013
Msg: 75
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/25/2013 2:40:49 PM

What would you say a woman does to make it bad sex for a man?


Asks to get paid after...
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 76
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/25/2013 2:43:00 PM
What make sex bad for me?

Oh that is simple. It goes like....



Okay I am thinking....

Thinking...


Maybe it couldbe, nah, not that, I like that.


Or...

Abstinence.

That's it!!
 LOADED HOSE
Joined: 4/19/2010
Msg: 77
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/25/2013 7:33:26 PM
What makes sex bad for me is:


Not having an adequate escape route planned
 SPArwell
Joined: 8/25/2012
Msg: 78
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/28/2013 6:12:35 PM
Laziness. Scent.
 defog
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 79
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 2/28/2013 7:04:34 PM
Not getting any
 degasona
Joined: 12/28/2012
Msg: 80
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What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/1/2013 1:40:42 AM
Lack of enthusiasm and participation. It takes two to tango, when one is doing all the job and the other is Passive, it is not that much fun.
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