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Joined: 1/4/2012
Msg: 86
What makes sex bad for you?Page 4 of 9    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9)
Hell the only thing bad about sex for me is not getting any.....!!!!! REALLY
Joined: 8/16/2011
Msg: 87
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/2/2013 12:26:26 AM
Pretty funny, I must say..this post made me laugh my ass off!!!...I needed a little levity..thanks..

Sometimes, no sex is better than bad sex (last screwed up bf had MAJOR intimacy issues..didn't like to and would not kiss, AT ALL. WTF..hardly made sounds during our activity..never looked at me..and only wanted to do one position..I talked to a gf about this, after the fact, and she said it sounded like "assisted masturbation"...what was the point?? At 50 some years's not really about hormones any emotional connection is kind of most people..!!

Otherwise,,there's always a vibrator..they just dont cuddle afterwards

I like being able to post on the total strangers...pretty interesting topics..and helps me vent on the craziest relationship I've ever been in and got out of, thankfully.

The post about the guy into the shoe fetish was HILARIOUS if you havent read it
Joined: 10/24/2007
Msg: 89
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/4/2013 12:15:34 AM
Overweightness,odor,excessive pubic hair and lack of skill..
Joined: 2/20/2013
Msg: 93
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/4/2013 9:20:13 AM
1. Messing up my hair. I've got this bald spot, I have to comb it just right. Takes forever!

2. The woman asking for a cigarette after, even though she doesn't actually smoke. But sex is awesome, and makes some nonsmokers want to smoke. But, cigarettes are like seven dollars a pack! And the woman just lays there and wastes one of my cigarettes!

3. She wakes up. And complains about what I'm doing....

4. "Her" dog. Because every single woman that has a dog, the dog steals her or our underwear, and chews the crotch!

5. The police. Because even though it may have sounded like I was hurting her, officer....

6. Handcuffs. Because once I was arrested, and the cops beat the crap out of me, after I was handcuffed. So, I now have this trust issue with cuffs....

7. My mom. No! Not like that! More like Pink Floyd's "The Wall" type mum.... Mine was like that. I vividly recall, being 15 and attempting to give my virginity to this girl named Virgina.. Yes, spelled like that! As if she was ever one! I remember, locking my mom in her room, so she couldn't come stand at my bedroom door, and critique me, and judge me.

8. Neighbors. Because every single time, the morning after, I go outside and they are cheering and slapping me on the back, like I'm an Olympic hero or something. I don't do well in crowds.....

9. Being too dark in the room. I have these blackouts... If it's too dark, I can't tell sometimes if I'm awake and aware, or caught up in one of my mental reset moments... It can get weird for the lady.

10. Too much conversation. Because I stutter when I'm cumming.. It's, awkward.

Other than that, all good!
Joined: 11/1/2011
Msg: 94
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/4/2013 10:15:33 AM
i am not sure the word bad should be used. i think the word is disappointing, and for me its when my partner doesnt give a 110 %. i want to see lust i want to see excitement, i want to see someone eyes tell me i am hers
Joined: 2/2/2013
Msg: 95
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/4/2013 1:47:55 PM
Anytime there's a lack of it, lol.
Joined: 6/11/2010
Msg: 96
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/5/2013 9:39:58 AM
When I know more about how a woman's body works than they do(my ex was 22)
Lack of insight. What what feels good and what doesn't
Lack of adventure.
Uptight women who lay there and expect a man to do everything and if you can't get the job done for them you're no good in bed. Yeah ladies sex is all up to the man. ;)

Good sex on the other hand is chemistry and the total opposite of the above. Wrestling for who is on top is always fun.
Joined: 2/19/2011
Msg: 97
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/5/2013 11:37:43 AM
no variety ( routine is boring and soon causes displeasure)
no night AND morning sex
trying too hard

sex should be passionate and fun imo
Joined: 12/12/2010
Msg: 99
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/5/2013 11:37:24 PM
I think bad sex is pretty much a girl that just lays there and exoects you to do it all.. Big turn off
Joined: 10/22/2012
Msg: 101
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/6/2013 7:15:38 AM
While I love the act....its only been my experience once that a woman i dated for a while just didnt put much effort into it....oh she got hers...but when it came to giving she wasnt there....stunk too because the friendship was good....she just never stepped
Joined: 4/19/2010
Msg: 103
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/6/2013 5:06:32 PM

If you wear that hat during sex, I can see how much fun you could be
Joined: 12/14/2012
Msg: 104
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/6/2013 5:43:04 PM
"What makes sex bad for you?"

-Undisclosed venereal diseases.

-Comparison to previous partners: "My ex didn't do it like that..."

-Being watched by your partner's dog. I just know that mutt is judging me.

-When the dog is done judging and tries to join in (that's when bad goes to worse).

-When she thinks the dog is better than you (and that's when worse goes to worst).
Joined: 7/26/2007
Msg: 105
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/7/2013 9:03:34 PM
Lack of interest in or incompatible kinks. Selfishness. Laziness. Being inconsiderate.

Sex should be passionate, dynamic and creative.
Joined: 12/30/2012
Msg: 106
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/7/2013 9:12:29 PM
Let's be real, if the sex is bad, it just isn't going to work. Move on.
Joined: 1/16/2013
Msg: 107
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/9/2013 3:18:26 AM
Skinny people make me want something more and are way too bony and condoms make sex terrible. i'm mostly a gay bottom dude and i like fat people, skinny people are a total turnoff.
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 108
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/13/2013 9:58:59 PM
When they say, hurry up and come, I gotta go puke.

Well, that kind of ruins it for me.
Joined: 11/27/2012
Msg: 109
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/13/2013 10:46:58 PM
Not having sex. Muahahahahaahha!!!!
Joined: 2/17/2012
Msg: 110
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/13/2013 11:17:53 PM
When she busts out her "dead fish" move... all guys know this female sex move, no guy likes the dead fish, move a little, at least try a live fish, move. Laying down motionless and limp = dead fish.

Selfishness, both women and men hate this, everyone who's selfish in bed, smarten up, it's an activity for multiple people, not just you.

Not using or even realizing they have muscles down there, thats by far the worst, it's also a big part of the dead fish sex maneuver.

Honestly, most of the reasons for bad sex boils down to poor communication on both peoples part, if you're having sex with someone you find interesting and sexy, it's bound to be good, if you're having sex when one person isn;t comfortable it's not going to be good.

i read a few posts about small penis's being a factor for women, so for the guys who feel it is, penis size means little, don't listen to the gals who claim it's a factor, it does feel better for them when a penis stretches them open a bit more, also when they can feel more of one in them, however, if it's too large, it hurts them, the thing is, vaginas and penis's both come in a variety of sizes, i've been with women who found mine too big, as in they wanted me to go really slow and avoid going in too far, i've also been with women who had holes so gapping wide and deep that it felt like i was testing bath water with my johnson. Not even slightly enjoyable.

If a woman says she likes big**** don't even bother with her, chances are her huge vagina will make you wish you were back home with your hand.
Joined: 1/31/2013
Msg: 112
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/14/2013 1:09:32 PM
I hate to spend time in a bar, buying drinks until 0200 finally get her home and find out her pecker is bigger then mine. Spoils the entire mood.
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 113
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/14/2013 4:34:26 PM
Men that dont know what they are doing or their way around a female body. Lack of confidence or hesitance sexually. Arrogance, bragging...O and if they are hung like a hamster lol
Joined: 1/2/2013
Msg: 114
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/16/2013 10:12:37 AM


If we - my (hypothetical) sexual partner & I - truly love each other, we'll so desire to please the other that there will be NO FLAWS in our sex life. We'll BOTH be COMPLETELY FULFILLED!

No, that's NOT Day One. Learning each other takes time, patience, love, perseverance, MUTUAL PASSION & commitment, but that's why sex is so sacred & reserved ONLY for marriage.
Joined: 1/29/2013
Msg: 115
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/18/2013 6:28:38 AM
You hit the nail on the head. The only bad sex is a result of a selfish lover! Sex is give and give, not give in take. The only thing you can hope to find in a partner is someone wanting and willing to give as much as you!
Joined: 12/17/2012
Msg: 117
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/20/2013 11:41:31 AM
When you are giving him a bj and he starts pushing on your head. Really? I have your duck in my mouth don't start shoving my head. I am not a porn star - so don't go there. And that brings me to anal. I have yet to meet a woman who REALLY likes it. Pure fantasy that is shown once as gain by the porn industry. My personal rule: If you want to duck me in the butt, first I get to do it to you so you get to see how it feels. Then we will see how great it is.
Joined: 4/19/2010
Msg: 118
What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/20/2013 5:06:01 PM
I'm not sure I'd want you to **** me in the butt. By the sounds of the rage inside of you it won't be an experience I'd like to repeat
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 119
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What makes sex bad for you?
Posted: 3/20/2013 5:17:01 PM

I have yet to meet a woman who REALLY likes it

You might want to check some of the "anal" threads here.......plenty of women more than like it!!

on topic:
men who don't know how to "read" a woman's body language
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