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 unki121
Joined: 2/2/2013
Msg: 101
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Every woman is different but the same most guys that are bad have never been shown by the women he is with.The women has to really want it and so does he.If he doesn't really want to please you then it is more like a job then excitement.Maybe you aren't giving him back good feed like moaning or squirming or maybe a right there.Thats my 2 cents for what it's worth thanks for reading this hope I could help
 cleopatra68
Joined: 10/5/2012
Msg: 102
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/9/2013 10:30:33 PM
IT'S CALLED SNORGLING
 funpro1
Joined: 11/21/2012
Msg: 103
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/9/2013 11:17:03 PM
just lick til she squirts lol
 CanadianGC
Joined: 7/24/2012
Msg: 104
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/10/2013 1:26:07 AM
Don't know why so many guys are responding to this question.....
Uness they've had oral sex from other men and know what you are talking about
 Luv2Laf_Gal1
Joined: 12/21/2011
Msg: 105
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/10/2013 10:32:14 AM
The guys that brag at how good they are usually aren't!
 Boontah46
Joined: 1/3/2013
Msg: 106
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/10/2013 11:05:38 AM
From what ive learned, Its not so much about learning how to do it, its about enjoying what your doing. For men and woman both. Theres different levels to oral sex and how well you do it.. Its Ok, You like it, or You love it.. If your a person that Loves oral, that makes all the difference in the world.. You pay attention more to the other person and there responses, but you also love the textures, taste, smell, whatever is a turn on for you.. This is what makes you good at it.. A woman that will give a guy a blowjob just because he wants one, isnt going to do it as well as a woman that loves doing it.. Ask any man, they can tell the difference.. The same for a man.. If he doesnt love giving oral, then in most cases it will be ok, but not great.. You do need to talk to your partner, tell them what you want.. Maybe they just need the encouragement to try and be more what you want and like in the bedroom.. It can also be a fun game of being in control and telling them what to do.. :-)
 2hotcougar
Joined: 3/29/2011
Msg: 107
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/10/2013 11:56:21 AM
i dont like five oclock beard growth ouch and i want some finger work with oral thay will make me squirt every time
 slickitalian
Joined: 1/14/2013
Msg: 108
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/10/2013 12:16:55 PM
i love your answer...very funny never tho about that tazan beard....
 NoTime4Boyz
Joined: 1/19/2013
Msg: 109
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/10/2013 12:52:24 PM
I think the main problem is women who are too scared/uncomfortable to be clear as to what they like. Also it could be that a good portion of women are faker's when it comes to sex. The man who is terrible at oral could have had an experience with a gal who just pretended to like what he was doing, even if it was the worst oral she had ever had, him thinking he was doing something right decided he should remember how he did that when really he was just fooled into thinking it was great when it was actually horrible. I think shy women are to blame for the most part, but it could also be an inexperience thing.
 MwMg67
Joined: 2/6/2013
Msg: 110
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/11/2013 2:49:49 PM
I don't get why either. It's not ******* rocket science.
 ImJustSomeF_nGuy
Joined: 8/25/2011
Msg: 111
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Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/11/2013 6:37:13 PM
most women cant suck a D worth s#*t either when it comes to oral sometimes you just meet your match and sometimes you dont... i find bad d**k suckers are hard to teach usually as well.. i mean any girl can suck it to get it hard but finishing the job?? thats like a 1 in 20
 justdrh
Joined: 9/7/2010
Msg: 112
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/11/2013 8:13:45 PM
As for me, if it is clean and shaved I'm on it like a duck on a june bug.
Unfortunately some women are not as clean as they may think they are,
 swm69
Joined: 2/7/2013
Msg: 113
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/12/2013 12:49:46 AM
I've never had a woman complain about my oral technique. I do it because I enjoy it - if they like my work that's a bonus for me. I have met a few women who find the idea of receiving oral sex repulsive. I find this particularly amazing before they've told me this after going down on me.
 drinkthesunwithmyface
Joined: 3/27/2012
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Posted: 2/12/2013 12:58:12 AM

Unfortunately some women are not as clean as they may think they are,


What messes some women up is hearing those guys say that they "love the taste and smell" etc...they mistake that for meaning that hygiene isn't necessary after a certain point, or that most guys are like that.
 safaa30
Joined: 3/1/2012
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Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/12/2013 1:09:06 AM
Because some women tend to be horrible at communicating what they like. If you like soft feathery touches gradually building up into firm long sweeping strokes but your guy like to chew and masticate on it, you gotta tell him to slow it down abit and gently lick the alphabets on it. How hard can it be to just speak up!

BTW the same is true for the guys. No one can read minds...yet.
 soulsearcher012
Joined: 7/4/2012
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Posted: 2/12/2013 5:00:53 PM
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Body: You can ask this question a million times and you'll never get the answer.some men do it just to try and please a woman even though they are awful at it.
Other's think they ARE good at it when it fact they aren't .you said you tried to give him pointers and he still couldn't do it well enough to please you.
some men just aren't and never will be good at it.I give you credit for giving him pointers most people don't talk in bed and learn what makes their lover feel good
alot of guy's don't understand how sensitive a womans clit is . this is one area where they fail
when giving a woman oral sometimes less is more . meaning a lot of guys just go down like they are
trying to lick BBQ sauce off a spare rib .
When i was younger I read a few books and even watched a couple of videos because I really wanted to be good at it and without sounding like I'm arrogant I AM damn good at it! because I wanted to be.
If a man really wants to please you this way he will take the time to learn!!
 Be_enchanted
Joined: 1/23/2013
Msg: 117
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/12/2013 6:00:29 PM

if a man really wants to please you this way he will take the time to learn!!


This, soulsearcher012, is exactly what I believe. And having a woman be skilled at sensitively hinting her preferences along the way.
 OhioJeepindude
Joined: 2/3/2013
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Posted: 2/12/2013 6:10:00 PM
Why is some one no good at.....anything??. Lack of Communication skills

It takes both the the one recieving to speakup and give a hint of what works and what doesn't.
(This can be done withOUT words, remember body language works quite well).
And of course the one giving needs to listen and adjust his technique to what is Workingand what is not.
 RNG34116
Joined: 2/2/2013
Msg: 119
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/12/2013 6:21:33 PM
[I believe in speaking up about what you like sexually, but when you do and the guy doesnt respond or his feelers get hurt because you did speak up, or just does not want to learn, then what?/quote]

Communicate in a soft and caring way that will make it more inviting for him to relax and follow the direction. Let him know what makes you feel good so that you both can enjoy the moment with more intensity. Be caring about it. If you get frustrated and pissed off when you tell him you are just going to intimidate him and possibly turn him off.
 rtlevi
Joined: 1/14/2013
Msg: 120
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/15/2013 10:27:00 AM
Really? Where do you think your pee comes from? Puss? Never experienced that in my life.

You sir, are a very selfish man. Women should stay as far away from you as possible.

Women were not put here to serve man, women were put here to be an equal partner. That's a give and recieve situation. Part of recieving pleasure is giving pleasure, so seems to me you have never satisfied a woman in your life and have probably never had a truely fulfilling sexual encounter.

I feel sorry for you....you sound really angry and frustrated....wonder why?
 OutofControlMan
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 121
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/15/2013 12:54:43 PM
well OP you appear to be part of the PROBLEM, not part of the solution, since apparently instead of asking THEM (your lovers) or giving them tips, instead you post a question to random online people, I assume none of whom have ever given you head?
 FuturePlans76
Joined: 1/4/2013
Msg: 122
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/16/2013 10:02:45 PM
Well to be blunt... as I always am.... Whether I go down on a woman or not revolves around 2 things, and only 2 things.

These are my reasons. Some guys are ok with these, but Im not.

1) I dont eat off of the carpet... I eat off a nice smooth plate. Clean it up an you'll have a chance of me going there. And before you troll me... Yes I do keep mine free of hair.

2) Odor. I can take a little smell. But if I can smell it while pulling the pants off.... NO!!!!! Some women have a smell even fresh from the shower, with help cleaning.


Ill list a third. If Im going down on you for a long period of time. Dont expect to give me 2 minutes and call it even. I like oral just as much as you do. So keep it even. If you dont reciprocate, Ill stop giving.
 therightone57
Joined: 9/3/2011
Msg: 123
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/17/2013 4:46:38 AM
Not saying I know what each woman likes when getting her pu**y eatt but honey I wann be in your class if your an instructor.
 JDriver87
Joined: 9/23/2012
Msg: 124
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/17/2013 5:19:18 AM
I think alot of the problem is women will never communicate what they want or how they like it and it sounds like that's probably the case with you. I will agree though that it is unbelievable how bad some of the blowjobs I've had from women who were just awful at it but I'll show them what I like and that usually helps. Considering the amount of porn out there it's astonishing that people don't just watch what these porn stars do and just emulate it...it's not rocket science.
 GOLDD23
Joined: 2/12/2013
Msg: 125
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/17/2013 10:41:09 AM
I could rock your world I know what I am doing
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