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 shylovedave
Joined: 4/10/2012
Msg: 24
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It isn't up to you what another thinks. A woman's intrest is a wonderful thing. Ask about it. Rediscover some wonder. Enjoy the intellegence of another and your vision of life will be magnified.
 larissan04
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 25
45 and feel so out of my depth about dating
Posted: 3/11/2013 4:40:37 PM
Lol, I just tried to check out your profile, but I guess I am too "old" or am outside your settings. I was curious to see what you had posted on your profile so as to see if I could glean any insights. Anyway, what exactly do you find so intimidating about a woman as opposed to a "girl?"
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 26
45 and feel so out of my depth about dating
Posted: 3/11/2013 5:17:10 PM
larissan, ? I did not think there was any setting someone could use to prevent a person from seeing there profile.

Does anyone know if such a setting exisits?

It appears to me like the profile has been deleted.
 sassybaby2013
Joined: 12/31/2012
Msg: 27
45 and feel so out of my depth about dating
Posted: 3/11/2013 5:19:52 PM
Women are girls on the inside and just as nervous as you.
 Deepseaceecee
Joined: 1/29/2013
Msg: 28
45 and feel so out of my depth about dating
Posted: 3/14/2013 12:31:36 AM
If you have women contacting you, you are ahead of the game and most guys dont. So if you are not ready to date, why be on a dating site? Once you meet then they will decide if they like you and vice versa. Takes guts for sure. But the more you do it the easier it gets. Why not speak on the phone, video before you meet so you both have an idea of what you are in for.
 Proteaus
Joined: 6/9/2009
Msg: 29
45 and feel so out of my depth about dating
Posted: 3/14/2013 7:39:07 AM
From what I have seen you are now in the PGL (professional gamers league ) , long as you got a big wallet you probably do fine .
 1388SmartBlonde
Joined: 5/15/2011
Msg: 30
45 and feel so out of my depth about dating
Posted: 3/14/2013 10:19:51 PM
Online dating may not be right for you. Volunteering or taking a class might be a way to get to know someone before asking them out.
 acads
Joined: 6/11/2012
Msg: 31
45 and feel so out of my depth about dating
Posted: 3/15/2013 10:35:34 AM
Man, don't worry about it, it is 100 times easier now than when you were in your 20's. No pressure, no time clock, no missing something, you will either enjoy or you won't, if you enjoy it do it again, if not then no future date.
 stargirl59
Joined: 1/17/2010
Msg: 32
45 and feel so out of my depth about dating
Posted: 3/24/2013 9:15:54 AM
Then you are not ready for online dating. If you insist on trying, start out as "seeking a friend" as see where it goes from there. There's no pressure of the anticipation of dating. Do this until you are comfortable with this type of social networking.
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