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 i_ski_do_u
Joined: 11/26/2009
Msg: 76
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 abmccray
Joined: 8/3/2008
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Posted: 2/9/2013 12:47:58 PM

Of course not. Only mindless neanderthals would do that. Of course, I was pretty mature for my age. I've always been attracted to brainy chicks, too. But sex is a complicated affair since it will tend to mix with emotions and confuse the brain. But if you can rise above mere hormones, then you are all the better for it. Yeah sure, some meat heads within the male gender, will, in fact, screw anything with a hole, there are those of us that would rather spend their time advancing themselves or pitting themselves in the trials out there in nature. Man vs. Self always held more appeal to me than Man screwing anything with a hole just to get their rocks off. Talk about boring. Man vs. Nature also held my attention, too. Trying to free climb a mountain is much more intense and exhilarating than landing some babe who presents no challenge or resistance at all. So, no, not all men are mindless sex-starved drones.


What in the world? Sex stops guys from climbing mountains? What?

In fact, I'm sure that most guys who do free-climbing have a lot of random sex just because of an adventurous personality and attractive figure. What are you even talking about?
 FlyyinSolo87
Joined: 6/15/2011
Msg: 78
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Posted: 2/9/2013 2:57:00 PM

I think the OP's real question is, "Would guys really screw anything - BUT me?"


What's your thinking behind this Danimal???
 Sweet_Danimal
Joined: 6/22/2012
Msg: 79
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Posted: 2/9/2013 6:07:35 PM

I think the OP's real question is, "Would guys really screw anything - BUT me?"



What's your thinking behind this Danimal???


A lot of the thinking behind these overly-assumed conclusions has a lot to do with thread of jealousy. Whether it's being jealous of someone finding a good match, or being jealous of someone who gets action when you don't - doesn't matter. A lot of these questions have a core 'Why Me?' aspect to them. People want sympathy, want people to support their assumption, want to be right. Assuming guys would nail any piece of azz that heads their way is a really obvious assumption, and to me, it sounds like it's coming from someone who is left out of the party, not someone who gets too much of the wrong attention. Hey, i could be wrong, but that's what it 'smells' like to me.
 FlyyinSolo87
Joined: 6/15/2011
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Posted: 2/9/2013 6:51:42 PM
It honestly had nothing to do with me, if that's what you're implying. I was just asking out of genuine curiosity as to what every one else thought of it or there was actually any merit to it at all. It wasn't my assumption, it's what I've heard and quite honestly, I don't like the saying. I've also only heard the female side of it, never heard the male side and was curious about it. Gonna have to say you're sniffer is off on this one, but I get why you came to that conclusion.
 StrangeDreams
Joined: 1/30/2013
Msg: 81
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Posted: 2/9/2013 6:56:37 PM
Like I said earlier, some guys will bang anything as in women , go to a bar on a Saturday night, and watch the last 30 minutes to closing, Rosie Odonell could walk in her sweat pants and some guys will still hit on her, its just goes to show you some guys are that desperate or horny.
 Baron1644
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Posted: 2/10/2013 6:53:22 PM

When I was younger.....in my teens & 20s.......yes, anything & everything without a****was fair game.........as I grew older, I became more selective with regard to both wine & women...

And now that I am older I stretch the truth. I can not get as many **** as I used to. Every woman I meet is a like an old wine.
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
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Posted: 2/11/2013 7:01:44 AM
Some Will!!

I have but One basic rule...
She should be Attractive.
~There are Several factors in the qualifications ,therein....~

Other than that .. she'll provide enough info about herself over the course of an evening...
Whether it's dinner , dancing , Karaeoke , fishing , camping , whatever...
...to make or lose enough points to determine if we're compatible enough to take it all the way!
 DonJ77
Joined: 2/8/2013
Msg: 84
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Posted: 2/11/2013 1:30:40 PM
Men don't screw with anything. Weak and perverse ones might but not sound ones, I think.

Not just because we prefer someone attractive, but out of sheer decency.

It's a rather insulting generalization... (I'm not saying you made it).
 patrick28t
Joined: 7/28/2008
Msg: 85
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Posted: 2/11/2013 5:17:01 PM
This is my laundry list that must be fulfilled before screwing someone:

1. Human
2. Female
3. Legal age
4. Has a pulse
 swm69
Joined: 2/7/2013
Msg: 86
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Posted: 2/12/2013 1:02:28 AM
I've said no to a 3 women, but don't consider myself picky.
One because of nerves (when I was a virgin). She asked if I was sure and I responded 'no'. It made me popular with her girlfriends.
I rejected the other 2 because of bad attitudes - they were quite pretty but during the foreplay they ruined the moment.
 that_one_guy99
Joined: 1/8/2013
Msg: 87
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Posted: 2/12/2013 4:24:05 AM
Personally, no I wont have sex with any woman just to have sex. I'm actually pretty damn picky. If I'm not attracted to her physically, then she could throw herself at me and I'd still pass.
 FlyyinSolo87
Joined: 6/15/2011
Msg: 88
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Posted: 2/12/2013 4:37:25 AM
Karlove-- It's not my prejudice. It's a saying that I've heard slug around. I've only ever heard women say it. I actually wanted to get the male take on it. Did you bother to read any further than the first post?
 readyman57
Joined: 1/7/2013
Msg: 89
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Posted: 2/12/2013 5:43:01 AM
First, men can't screw anything without women that will screw anything.
Second, you didn't say if these women that tell you this are talking about their men or just listening to the gossip of other women without any real facts. Are they just angry because they were dumped?
It is my never to be humble opinion that men have sex with women other that their wives or girl friends because they're not getting their needs met at home. Yes, I said needs! And if there is sex at home, is it often enough? Probably not. I want it twice a day and more when not working. Even between sex sessions I want the sexual excitement to continue with her wearing things I find sexual, frequent touching and groping and maybe some spontanious oral. Is sex the same time after time with the woman laying on her back waiting for him to finish? BORING!! It has been my experience that women have little or no sexual imagination and will refuse any variation suggested. Frankly, I'm sick of all the sexual prudes in this so called developed country and their fear of sexual pleasure. If you want to keep your man at home, shake it up. The possibilities are nearly endless. Many women are talking about 50 Shades and getting wet, but do they act on it? Probably not and 50 Shades is fairly mild. Go ahead and try role playing, role reversal, watching porn together, bondage, bring in other people, sexual clothing (did you forget that men are visual creatures), toys, different times and places. There are so many possibilities.
Stop whining and do something! (I mean women in general)
I wonder if my little rant will increase or decrease my odds on this vanilla site.
 russell5417
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 90
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Posted: 2/12/2013 5:52:31 AM
I never went out with just anyone. The problem I had when I was younger, was having a "one night stand" that turned into a relationship. Was never the "love 'em and leave 'em type of guy.
That NEVER worked out to well at all! lol
What I have learned is.... that I should NEVER date anyone that doesn't seem like she would be someone I could see myself in a relationship with if things were to eventually go that way, and take it slow.
 THEMEPACK
Joined: 12/17/2012
Msg: 91
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Posted: 2/12/2013 6:02:59 AM
I'm not answering anything with honesty any longer in the forums....I will give the ladies the typical POF answer as they don't like to hear the truth...
No men won't screw anything, we are all gentle men and this thread is very offensive to me....there how was that.

Ok I can't help myself; Yes most men and women will screw anything especially if they know no one else will find out. That's why POF has been so successful as a "dating" site.
 FlyyinSolo87
Joined: 6/15/2011
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Posted: 2/12/2013 6:19:57 AM

you didn't say if these women that tell you this are talking about their men or just listening to the gossip of other women without any real facts. Are they just angry because they were dumped?


It was a few times I've heard this saying. I went to cosmetology school, sooooo, lots of women and even more gossip, and to add to it, I went to school with my soon to ex sister-in-law, who was the biggest gossip. There was this one girl, about 18 at the time, who said in reference to another student, "Gee, I guess men will f*ck anything." Having never liked the saying because I did feel that it was degrading to both sexes, I turned to her and said, " I guess you would be case in point?" Now going to school with my sister-in-law, who I have no real desire (other than being the mother of my nephews) to be around, constantly made comments on my brother's rebounds about how "that man will f*ck just about anything". This also coming from someone who admitted to making out, and more, with guys behind he new boyfriend's back, and saying it's not cheating. So I do ask because I've only heard the, better phrasing would be, scorned, judgmental, gossipy women's side. My mother was guilty of this too, in reference to the mother of my father's son, but my father was also famous for saying, "Put a bag over her head and f*ck her for glory." These are also only just a few examples. I've also heard in the "heed my word" kind of way when an older female said something along the lines of, "Just remember, men will f*ck anything."
 MutedEnthusiasm
Joined: 7/8/2011
Msg: 93
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Posted: 2/12/2013 9:27:47 AM
^^^ Msg: 111 – thanks for providing some context to these ‘men will f*ck anything’ remarks.

I do see the comment as degrading to both sexes. Interesting how many of the women saying it had past sexual relationships with the very men they're talking about.

I’m curious if they include themselves in the ‘anything’ category, as if their man didn’t really care about them for more than sex after all.

Or if they really mean ‘I was the one he was serious about, not those who came after – men will f*ck anything’? Or perhaps they don’t give it that much thought.
 Dolphinelover
Joined: 12/13/2012
Msg: 94
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Posted: 2/12/2013 12:15:26 PM
No I do have my limitations. You don't haft to be a beauty queen but must at least be decent and clean,as well d&d free. I don't mind bbws but draw the line if someone is bigger than a house per say. I will not sleep with anyone who has been on drugs or that uses them,I as well don't like drunks. I understand certain situations in some relationships and can except that provided I'm told the truth upfront. But if any of them have the problems like I have mentioned above I will walk away.
 freshfishfreshfish
Joined: 2/6/2013
Msg: 95
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Posted: 2/12/2013 12:21:40 PM
This reminds me of a story a guy once told me :

He had a roomate who once came home late one night and asked him to wait in his room until he brought a woman in to his own room .

Why ?

He didn't want his roomate to see that she was , let's say, not so attractive ....

Personally, I don't understand why a guy would rather have sex with a woman he himself considers so unattractive that he's too ashamed to let his roomate see.....

Maybe some guys lack enough imagination to be a do it yourselfer ??????
 patrick28t
Joined: 7/28/2008
Msg: 96
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Posted: 2/12/2013 8:07:47 PM

5. I find them attractive.
6. They are not significantly more emotionally invested than me. (If they see the relationship going somewhere that I don't, I won't take advantage of that; I've broken enough hearts and I don't need the emotional burden. That doesn't mean that I wouldn't do a one-nighter or quickie, if we were both on the same page.)


The attraction part is easy to fulfill; I pretty much like any girl who's remotely nice, and most people are nice people.

I agree on point 6. It's a question of... humanity.


This reminds me of a story a guy once told me :

He had a roomate who once came home late one night and asked him to wait in his room until he brought a woman in to his own room .

Why ?

He didn't want his roomate to see that she was , let's say, not so attractive ....

Personally, I don't understand why a guy would rather have sex with a woman he himself considers so unattractive that he's too ashamed to let his roomate see.....

Maybe some guys lack enough imagination to be a do it yourselfer ??????

That poor woman was attractive enough to generate a boner in the guy, but not attractive enough for the guy to not be ashamed.

This happens when a guy is weak, and is concerned with the opinions of others, rather than being proud of who they are. It's also a big slap on the face for the woman involved.

Personally, if I can get an erection for someone, then she's worth sleeping with, and I will not allow the judgement of other people to affect who I have relations with.

Oh, and the best solo time is about one tenth as good as bottom-of-the-barrel sexy time with a partner.
 freshfishfreshfish
Joined: 2/6/2013
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Posted: 2/13/2013 6:58:05 AM

Oh, and the best solo time is about one tenth as good as bottom-of-the-barrel sexy time with a partner.


I couldn't possibly disagree more - I'll take my solo time over " bottom of the barrel " sex EVERY time with no regrets !
 MutedEnthusiasm
Joined: 7/8/2011
Msg: 98
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Posted: 2/13/2013 10:05:53 AM
There’s not an animal on this planet that will copulate with anything that comes along.

– Helen Fisher
 phil2847
Joined: 8/10/2006
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Posted: 2/13/2013 12:10:04 PM
Hell........We will f.uck a damn snake, if you can keep it from wiggling!!! LOL!!!
 ohenryx
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Posted: 2/13/2013 12:20:48 PM

Hell........We will f.uck a damn snake, if you can keep it from wiggling!!! LOL!!!


That’s the problem with the world today, no one studies history, no one remembers how it really was.

The correct, original statement was:


He would fyck a bush if he thought there was a snake hiding in that bush.
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