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 sigungq
Joined: 1/4/2013
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Personally, I think porn is laughable at best, and completely idiotic at worst. I don't have time for such nonsense.
 SpittyKitty
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 109
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Posted: 5/4/2014 7:11:47 PM
Personally , porn has affected me by being there when there is no man in my life.
It gets lonely. So between searching for someone special, I can use porn to get some excitement and "people"
in my non-existent sex life. I'd hate to just become a serial one night stander just to have someone while trying to find that special one. And touching myself is even more exciting when having accompaniment. So porn lets me breathe a little, and keep my panties on when swimming in open waters.
Thank you porn.
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 110
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Posted: 5/4/2014 9:57:58 PM
There are some incredible women in real life that enjoy sex, and crave it often enough, hard enough that your desire for porn goes out the window. Why waste a hard on or masturbation on nothing when, soon enough...

Best part is. "Have you ever tried this?"
"Hmm. Interesting, let do that."

The sad reality of porn is that within 7 minutes you would have jerked off and done.
The real thing can last all night, with at least 20 minutes intervals between sessions.
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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Posted: 5/23/2014 12:15:38 AM
I think porn makes guys jerk off too much and they have nothing left to share with a real woman. Also porn is not about a romantic loving caring relationship, which is what most of us want.
 goodquestion
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 112
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Posted: 5/23/2014 10:06:27 AM
I think porn makes guys jerk off too much and they have nothing left to share with a real woman.

This simply is not true I am glad that you just think that and have no facts to back it up, as I have read that in many relationships this is normal once in a while and that once in a relationship it still goes on, I am talking with out porn though. However if a man is going to be away for a couple weeks or maybe months because they are serving this country to think they are going to stop looking at porn and carrying on by them self's is out of this world. It is far better than cheating unless you are the type that would consider that cheating but that is a whole norther topic.

Also porn is not about a romantic loving caring relationship, which is what most of us want.

This is true and I think everyone knows this as porn does not demonstrate any type of romance ,but that is not to say that once in a while sex can't be just sex with out romance as long as you are a couple. I am not talking about sleeping with everyone.
 oneday57
Joined: 10/17/2015
Msg: 113
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Posted: 11/25/2015 12:51:01 PM
yeah if ya wanna act like them....very few can act like a porn star and besides...ever heard of 'CUT'.....thats when the scenes over and theres enough time to recoup and move on to the next scene....soooo...whos thinking real sex is like that?.....lol
 Iredurbio2
Joined: 4/18/2013
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Posted: 12/5/2015 11:14:50 AM
It's helped a lot of women,especially older gals.The MILF and mature for younger
genre's have the young 'uns knocking their doors down.
 MisterEd0950
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 115
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Posted: 12/16/2015 2:58:27 AM
I always hear how the guys in porn have huge****. I have been watching porn off and on for years and have only seen one black guy that is bigger than me. Most of the guys I've seen are not big at all.
 moonbeamlover
Joined: 9/9/2015
Msg: 116
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Posted: 12/16/2015 4:59:45 AM

It's helped a lot of women,especially older gals.The MILF and mature for younger
genre's have the young 'uns knocking their doors down.


uh, I would beg to differ on this. Yes the fantasy is alive and well apparently... but when a person not only approaches because of porn, fantasizes becauase of porn, but tries to REENACT porn?

massive turnoff. I avoid the young guys that obviously are gunning for a porn like experience... when i was on for real, when someone approached who happened to be younger who talked to me like anyone else, I'd be more than happy to talk back. I don't care about age. But if someone was hey, you're hot, do you like younger guys?

I ran like the plague. The couple times i started to date for real a guy who was into porn? Where we were exclusive and at the point of physical? Younger or older? turns out he wanted to talk like a porn star, wanted ME to talk liek a porn star... wanted to reenact the porn experience and i bailed on the relationship. So in my case, porn has ended relationships; because while fantasy can be nice and all that... if someone HAD to have you constantly talking about how worshipful their uh, package was... need you to scream or they felt gypped, and assumed if you are a built older woman you WANTED every tom****and harry 20 years younger to approach you for a quickie... and honestly expected you to be flattered?

guy's incessant use of porn has made things somewhat difficult. So dunno who exactly it's really helped, but in my case, it's been pretty strong turnoff. And don't even get me started on those who are so used to masturbating to porn that they prefer masturbating to a mental or real pic of you. MASSIVE turnoff. they would give you a play by play of what they did to themselves while looking at a pic of you and always assumed you'd be flattered and grateful. always felt slimy. DON'T want to hear a person's masturbation play by play of their experience while they were thinking of or looking at me. I don't want to hear it. Ever.
 caballerosiempre
Joined: 12/5/2015
Msg: 117
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Posted: 12/16/2015 11:18:19 AM
I am quite sure some women watch too, especially the ones that get really hard into tahe fake/porn screaming OH MY GOD OH MY GOD; OH F##K ME BABAY OH GOD!! about 1000 x..LOUD
 ladysharonfish
Joined: 6/4/2015
Msg: 118
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Posted: 12/29/2015 7:48:48 PM
I believe so. I can't believe how many men will think that oral sex is harmless, no stds can be exchanged by it, and that they think that is the final act. It is foreplay before sex and perhaps some times in place of, but just a steady diet of oral is nuts.
 platypus_man
Joined: 8/29/2007
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Posted: 12/29/2015 9:44:37 PM

romance novels can ruin women's views of relationships just as porn does for men

Fiction fuels the flames of desire. Reality rains on them. Once in a while, reality and fiction meet, and the result can be something you'll remember fondly for the rest of your life. Be the best lover you can, and hope your partner will do the same for you. That alone, can bring frequent joy.
 Inner_Gorilla
Joined: 12/3/2015
Msg: 120
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Posted: 12/31/2015 7:48:21 AM

Once in a while, reality and fiction meet, and the result can be something you'll remember fondly for the rest of your life. Be the best lover you can, and hope your partner will do the same for you. That alone, can bring frequent joy.


Porn is now more accessible than ever, but mainly, it's now accessible to women and brings out not just the fantasies of men, but the fantasies of women. That has given women in their own sexual lives a chance to explore and experiment and find what turns them on, not just the guy.
 Devilsfan58
Joined: 3/19/2009
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Posted: 1/1/2016 12:23:27 PM
I was talking to an elementary teacher over the weekend and we got on the subject of cellphones and young children and she told me they have fourth grade girls taking pictures of their intimate parts and even after counseling them they repeat the behavior. I would be at such a loss for how to correct this behavior short of just taking the phone away as a parent. Truthfully what does a ten year old have that really jumps to the Omg you have to see this? I really don't care and the question is only poised to try and understand the behavoir.

I don't think Porn is anymore concerning then say the cooking channel. For some people maybe. But....
 SunshineGirl__
Joined: 10/7/2014
Msg: 122
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Posted: 1/1/2016 4:17:15 PM

I was talking to an elementary teacher over the weekend and we got on the subject of cellphones and young children and she told me they have fourth grade girls taking pictures of their intimate parts and even after counseling them they repeat the behavior.


WTF. How would a teacher know about this?? Is she looking at their phones? Trading pics with them? Did she call their parents and explain how she knows their daughters are taking pictures of their “intimate parts”?

Who supposedly “counseled” the girls, not the teacher, I hope! Also counseling sessions are confidential and if this teacher is playing counselor she should keep her big mouth shut about what ten year old girls are supposedly doing. Their parents should be arranging for appropriate counseling FFS.


Truthfully what does a ten year old have that really jumps to the Omg you have to see this?


WTF! This comment is so out of touch it’s scary. Just WHO is seeing these pics? Grown men??

I hope you just made up a story to post here; if this is true you should tell your teacher friend to have a talk with the girls’ parents, as it’s not her place to provide half arsed “counseling” without the parents’ consent or to irresponsibly share this info with others; and, if she’s not careful, she may be answering some uncomfortable questions in court.
 Devilsfan58
Joined: 3/19/2009
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Posted: 1/2/2016 2:36:47 AM

WTF! This comment is so out of touch it’s scary. Just WHO is seeing these pics? Grown men??


Well since I wasn't there you can guess at least the school administrators in some capacity and since teachers and schools are required mandatory Vunerable children and adult reporters some people there. Children's parents I would guess, Since they are in possession of child pornography which is a felony the judicial system is involved to some extent. Not to mention all the teachers and staf and school parents have to know or be informed that this is going on as if it is on their child's phone their child is in possession and could be prosecuted.

If I am not mistaken there was just in the news something very similar happening out in Colorado Springs area. Every talk show host on Television has talked about sexting.

I just can't get my mind around Fourth graders doing this in the context of.... Where did they get this idea....Why.
I might understand older teenagers doing something like this but not ten or eleven year olds. Sorry my mind just cannot grasp this age doing something like this.
 abc1129
Joined: 12/28/2015
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Posted: 1/3/2016 8:01:24 PM

I think porn makes guys jerk off too much and they have nothing left to share with a real woman. Also porn is not about a romantic loving caring relationship, which is what most of us want.


What woman are you talking about? If we all had women then we wouldn't be on this site.

You should all watch the movie Don Jon... it's related to the subject,
 Duke_480
Joined: 9/22/2015
Msg: 125
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Posted: 1/3/2016 8:28:14 PM
Gotta experiment with it. Try sex with porn and without. You and your partner should decide what works best for you. Don't worry about what other couples are doing. If you're simply looking to spice things up, do some research online for advice.
 LuvFishes
Joined: 7/1/2011
Msg: 126
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Posted: 1/16/2016 8:43:17 AM
What I just experienced, this guy 61 had two sides of him. Hasn't been married for about 25 yrs so I knew there were issues but he was funny, so DARN SMART (which is a turn on 4me) and just seem wonderful. He has a double life, he is so into porn, women chatting/exchanging nude pics, conversation and while I was with him he'd be texting or talking/pics exchanged. I trusted the butt hole.

Some red flags surfaced and then I stumbled on the truth. I chose to walk away because at first he couldn't even admit and his start/stop conversations was he was trying to figure what to say. He laidon me all these women... but I began to wonder if it was fantasy vs. reality. Because he NEVER once tried to make love to me. His capacity was kissing and a novice at that.
Conversation and knowledge made me feel we had ED issues and I reassured him, actually intercourse is not the only way for arousal. Which lighten his load but actually he seeks trashy, slutty women. I am no beauty but I know I am attractive. These women just wasn't. The bottom line is my Faith (bible) is pretty clear... adultery- lust, excessive alcohol, pot (claims stopped shocker ) it was then realized how things didn't fit and why... Great job, great church (but they are all fooled) and crazy issues with siblings ( but who doesn't in one way or another) but I had to step away. I just could not go to church with him. I felt like God would strike him down. He broke my trust in him. But his proile is great I created it, just feel bad for other good women to get caught. sigh
 ddawson60
Joined: 1/28/2016
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Posted: 2/4/2016 12:17:12 AM
good answer well put and i agree. Always ask your partner to confirm what she they he likes as they are experiencing it. People dont have to WANT TO BE THE PORN KING or QUEEN as thats fantasy stuff. Develop together and be aware of one another desires. And respect limits.
 ddawson60
Joined: 1/28/2016
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Posted: 2/4/2016 12:19:12 AM
what the hell did she just say....?
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 129
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Posted: 2/4/2016 9:51:29 AM
"do people get the wrong idea of what sex should be "


Well, once ideas were put into my head ( Penthouse letters, etc ), they weren't going anywhere after that.

But all that did was result in a whole lotta fun !
 IgottaName
Joined: 3/29/2014
Msg: 130
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Posted: 2/4/2016 11:05:07 AM
I think the younger and/or less experienced you are there is an increased chance of having unrealistic expectations due to porn, but not always. When I was 12 I discovered where my dad stashed his Penthouse and Playboy mags. I was into them a couple of times a week. I didn't just look at the pics, I read them as well, By the time I was in my teens I was able to figure out what was realistic and what was fantasy. I have always treated women respectfully, and as far as I know my lovers have had no complaints. Of course I don't know what might not have been said to my face. LOL!
I think for older more experienced people and couples, it can add a bit of spice.
 Inner_Gorilla
Joined: 12/3/2015
Msg: 131
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Posted: 2/4/2016 11:17:19 AM

When I was 12 I discovered where my dad stashed his Penthouse and Playboy mags. I was into them a couple of times a week. I didn't just look at the pics, I read them as well,


My dad, being a doctor, had medical books instead. Unfortunately as you passed through the pages where a normal person was, later on you saw some nasty infection of some time that was a total turn off. It was later that I was exposed to a friends Playboys and eventually, I didn't like them, preferring the European magazines with more artsy B&W nude photos and no retouching. Eventually, when I got a subscription to Playboy, believe it or not, it was for the articles, not as much for the photos.
 Iredurbio2
Joined: 4/18/2013
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Posted: 3/24/2016 12:18:05 AM
The industry has been stuck on the New MILF order for some
time now,Which explains the huge change in direction for
older women.Not all,majority maybe!So it's
affecting someone!
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