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 Duke_480
Joined: 9/22/2015
Msg: 125
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Gotta experiment with it. Try sex with porn and without. You and your partner should decide what works best for you. Don't worry about what other couples are doing. If you're simply looking to spice things up, do some research online for advice.
 LuvFishes
Joined: 7/1/2011
Msg: 126
Has Porn Effected peoples Sex lives
Posted: 1/16/2016 8:43:17 AM
What I just experienced, this guy 61 had two sides of him. Hasn't been married for about 25 yrs so I knew there were issues but he was funny, so DARN SMART (which is a turn on 4me) and just seem wonderful. He has a double life, he is so into porn, women chatting/exchanging nude pics, conversation and while I was with him he'd be texting or talking/pics exchanged. I trusted the butt hole.

Some red flags surfaced and then I stumbled on the truth. I chose to walk away because at first he couldn't even admit and his start/stop conversations was he was trying to figure what to say. He laidon me all these women... but I began to wonder if it was fantasy vs. reality. Because he NEVER once tried to make love to me. His capacity was kissing and a novice at that.
Conversation and knowledge made me feel we had ED issues and I reassured him, actually intercourse is not the only way for arousal. Which lighten his load but actually he seeks trashy, slutty women. I am no beauty but I know I am attractive. These women just wasn't. The bottom line is my Faith (bible) is pretty clear... adultery- lust, excessive alcohol, pot (claims stopped shocker ) it was then realized how things didn't fit and why... Great job, great church (but they are all fooled) and crazy issues with siblings ( but who doesn't in one way or another) but I had to step away. I just could not go to church with him. I felt like God would strike him down. He broke my trust in him. But his proile is great I created it, just feel bad for other good women to get caught. sigh
 ddawson60
Joined: 1/28/2016
Msg: 127
Has Porn Effected peoples Sex lives
Posted: 2/4/2016 12:17:12 AM
good answer well put and i agree. Always ask your partner to confirm what she they he likes as they are experiencing it. People dont have to WANT TO BE THE PORN KING or QUEEN as thats fantasy stuff. Develop together and be aware of one another desires. And respect limits.
 ddawson60
Joined: 1/28/2016
Msg: 128
Has Porn Effected peoples Sex lives
Posted: 2/4/2016 12:19:12 AM
what the hell did she just say....?
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 129
Has Porn Effected peoples Sex lives
Posted: 2/4/2016 9:51:29 AM
"do people get the wrong idea of what sex should be "


Well, once ideas were put into my head ( Penthouse letters, etc ), they weren't going anywhere after that.

But all that did was result in a whole lotta fun !
 IgottaName
Joined: 3/29/2014
Msg: 130
Has Porn Effected peoples Sex lives
Posted: 2/4/2016 11:05:07 AM
I think the younger and/or less experienced you are there is an increased chance of having unrealistic expectations due to porn, but not always. When I was 12 I discovered where my dad stashed his Penthouse and Playboy mags. I was into them a couple of times a week. I didn't just look at the pics, I read them as well, By the time I was in my teens I was able to figure out what was realistic and what was fantasy. I have always treated women respectfully, and as far as I know my lovers have had no complaints. Of course I don't know what might not have been said to my face. LOL!
I think for older more experienced people and couples, it can add a bit of spice.
 Inner_Gorilla
Joined: 12/3/2015
Msg: 131
Has Porn Effected peoples Sex lives
Posted: 2/4/2016 11:17:19 AM

When I was 12 I discovered where my dad stashed his Penthouse and Playboy mags. I was into them a couple of times a week. I didn't just look at the pics, I read them as well,


My dad, being a doctor, had medical books instead. Unfortunately as you passed through the pages where a normal person was, later on you saw some nasty infection of some time that was a total turn off. It was later that I was exposed to a friends Playboys and eventually, I didn't like them, preferring the European magazines with more artsy B&W nude photos and no retouching. Eventually, when I got a subscription to Playboy, believe it or not, it was for the articles, not as much for the photos.
 Iredurbio2
Joined: 4/18/2013
Msg: 133
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Has Porn Effected peoples Sex lives
Posted: 3/24/2016 12:18:05 AM
The industry has been stuck on the New MILF order for some
time now,Which explains the huge change in direction for
older women.Not all,majority maybe!So it's
affecting someone!
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