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 GeordieColin
Joined: 10/18/2012
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confussed and unsure what to doPage 2 of 2    (1, 2)
You could always ask if her hot housemate is up for a shag while your waiting.
 feyfaith
Joined: 3/27/2012
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confussed and unsure what to do
Posted: 2/20/2013 5:36:54 AM
Traycoli gave great advice I think.

To go from single to totally joined at the hip in one fell swoop would be a bit overwhelming for many people I think.

If she's just been ill, she may want a few days to deal with the mundane life sustaining chores that need doing such as paying the bills and catching up with the housework wtc before she sees you again. Not to mention if she's missed work or college while ill, she'll have some catching up there to do as well. Boring chores aren't really compatible with high romance, so she doesn't need you tagging along while she gets this out the way. A bit of space till she can refocus on you properly is a reasonable request methinks.

She sounds into you, but she had a life before you came along and may need a little bit of space to work out in her own head how to best intermesh a wonderful love life with her existing friends and hobbies. I don't think there's any thing wrong with being honest enough to admit you aren't wonder woman and need a little bit of space to catch your breath and get your head round it all tbh.

Give her the space she needs right now without turning into a moaning needy desperado and she'll appreciate you all the more for it long term.
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