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 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 18
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I shot a lot of video of my ex and myself. Many times in character. None of that stuff was ever or will ever go in the internet. In fact I deleted from my computer. I couldn't even look at it again myself.
 jermanicus
Joined: 2/16/2013
Msg: 19
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Posted: 3/1/2013 8:45:10 AM

Thanks! I now feel justified in preemptively refusing to ever be photographed nude by anyone. Every once in a while, my paranoia pays off in unexpected ways.


You are right on! No one should ever let anyone take naked pictures or videos of them EVER for ANY REASON!
 StrykinOut
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 20
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Posted: 3/1/2013 9:47:02 AM
Juvenile and imbecilic, but that is my opinion of revenge in general anyway.
 Rabbitman49
Joined: 10/20/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 3/1/2013 10:42:23 AM
Re: #12 -
I believe it is against the law to put nude pics of someone on the internet without their consent???
One would think so, but this is one of the situations where the law has yet to catch up. There is no federal law that outlaws this behavior. Some states might have an applicable law.

The current lawsuits seem to be going after who has authority to post or control the images under copyright law. Does the person depicted have exclusive rights, or if taken by another party, does the camera operator?
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 22
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Posted: 3/1/2013 1:20:44 PM
Do you have a signed release from your rabbit?

He may sue you. Or just try to hump your leg.
 jermanicus
Joined: 2/16/2013
Msg: 23
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Posted: 3/1/2013 6:17:15 PM

I believe it is against the law to put nude pics of someone on the internet without their consent???


And everybody follows the law right? Once it's out there it's out there and you can NEVER get it all back!
 rshari
Joined: 8/16/2011
Msg: 24
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Posted: 3/2/2013 12:12:58 AM
Thank you for your comment.sir...YES..it showcased his lack of maturity
Luckily,,the pic that bothered me the most did not show my face, but it is the principal of the thing..!!!He did it to tick me off..I'm sure he thought I would check out what he'd posted on a weird fetish website. which I knew about that he had been on a few times/I asked him to remove the pics immediately, which he did (I told my own lie, and said I had printed off the pics, and could use them against him, a dose of his own medicine.(yeah, I stooped to his level a few times) I .didnt try to print off the pics before I reacted to seeing them..but not sure if I would have been able to print them anyway, from that website..

The guy was a charming psychopath..wish I'd figured it out sooner, I learned a lot about all the lies he told me in the 4 1/2 months I went out with him..after a 6 hour conversation with his sister in law, who knew him well. She told me she was concerned b/cause the guy and I had been talking about me moving in with him.

There was so much deception...he even asked me my ring size before xmas...then gave me his USED iphone for a gift, and bragged about how much it cost on ebay..pretty low class.. why ask a woman for her ring size?? I kind of had an expectation...

Anyway..he is the one who will ultimately suffer, once any woman sees through his lies, they will dump him...

I deserve better..and will know the psychopathic characteristics..in the future, and would RUN LIKE CRAZY..
 shine1274
Joined: 2/12/2013
Msg: 25
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Posted: 3/30/2013 12:15:02 PM
I have had friends that would get drunk and break out their picture collections. Guys that did it back when film was the only medium as well as modern digital. Odds are if you send or allow pics like this, eventually someone else will see them. Be they friends, or even the best intentioned guy may have kids that find them some day, or die and have them discovered while cleaning out his stuff.
 soulsearcher012
Joined: 7/4/2012
Msg: 26
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Posted: 3/30/2013 1:32:23 PM
I'm just wondering why this idiotic thread is in broken hearts ?
 soulsearcher012
Joined: 7/4/2012
Msg: 27
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Posted: 3/30/2013 1:34:00 PM
Did anyone ever read this a$$hats profile ?
 Rabbitman49
Joined: 10/20/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 3/30/2013 2:46:39 PM

I'm just wondering why this idiotic thread is in broken hearts ?

Because it usually happens after a breakup....
(Otherwise, it's not for revenge.)
 sexandthepof
Joined: 10/1/2012
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Posted: 3/30/2013 6:14:24 PM
I know this real life story of this girl who is a singer. She and her ex-lover broke up. He posted her nude pics on the internet. First she was so embarrassed and upset. She had a very hard time to face friends, family and relatives back home and became very depressed. She wanted to die. A group of artists in California saw her pics on the internet so beautiful, they contacted her and helped her. And she became popular and famous together with her band. Now she's married to a very nice kind man, and they have two beautiful children. Now she’s still singing for fun and very rich and famous.

Anyway, posting nude pics of ex-lover on the internet is very immature and low.

The best revenge is living well.
 coderedjulia1
Joined: 2/3/2013
Msg: 30
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Posted: 3/31/2013 1:58:26 AM
That person gave you those photos out of confidence. Posting them online is mean and childish. It does not matter how the relationship ended. You keep them to yourself or you delete them. If you beleive the person shouldn't have sent nude photos in the first place so they are at fault then YOU ARE ALSO AT FAULT FOR ACCEPTING THEM. So keep it to yourself, unless if you want to get into a lot of trouble.
 Railrunner
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 31
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Posted: 4/1/2013 9:40:55 PM
I have heard of these sorts of lawsuits. Adult entertainment is much like pro wrestling or a Hollyweird movie: Fake and scripted. While I do not frequent these sites myself, I am a business owner, and thinking as such, it is completely inconceivable to me that any business owner, particularly in an industry that is under constant scrutiny, would build a website, and charge access to it, when the paid content is legally questionable at best, and blatantly illegal at worst.

No one in their right mind is going to try to start up a business this way. Nor would they be able to obtain the requisite licensing in the first place.

I'll believe the smoke and mirrors of "real photos of exes submitted by former boyfriends" or "hacked photobucket" about the same time that I believe that pink elephants are flying around in the stratosphere.
 dahlingdarling
Joined: 5/11/2012
Msg: 32
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Posted: 4/1/2013 11:05:14 PM
My thoughts are this is exactly why I advise all my gal pals to never trust a guy with any sexual images/videos of her. I've never spoken to my guy pals about this as in my opinion thanks to the double standard a guy would likely be seen as a stud or applauded/high fived for such behavior (unless he had genital size that was deemed lacking).

My thoughts on the two thoughts:
1) I'm unsure why you put "despite the ex having possession of such photos" in regards to how it's a violation of privacy. The ex having possession of the photos doesn't mean s/he had permission to release the photos/videos in that way.

2) I imagine gals tend to get more of this than guys as this seems to be the same mindset of male on female sexual harassment, sexual assault, and rape.
 venusenvy777
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 33
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Posted: 4/3/2013 12:20:19 PM
Wow this is the first Ive heard of this...

I think its slime-waddy...
I think someone who would do that is the worlds biggest ***hole...
I think you seriously need to change your handle....
 venusenvy777
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 34
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Posted: 4/3/2013 12:22:19 PM
I just read dudes profile...Yikes!
 LoveBeautifulDays
Joined: 2/21/2013
Msg: 35
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Posted: 4/7/2013 12:35:44 PM
Wow, so what do you do if its someone you are married to?
It's not nasty to send it to your spouse is it?
 LoneScottishBoy
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 36
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Posted: 4/9/2013 12:10:08 PM
"Never allow anyone to point a camera at you if you are doing something your grandmother would not approve of"

(unless they promise you the memory card afterwards...:))
 jlynn1955
Joined: 8/24/2012
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Posted: 8/19/2013 1:16:03 PM
I burned the pics I'd made for him and he'd had 25 years. And then I left the empty album in the middle of his bed. I know it's hard to believe, but I can be VERY childish when I want to be...and sometimes even when I don't want to be.

What I really really REALLY wanted to do was get a family of skunks and put them under his house. Unfortunately, the grownup part of me that worries about Karma was more dominant that day, and I didn't do it. I hate when that happens...
 lostnfoundluv
Joined: 1/10/2009
Msg: 38
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Posted: 8/20/2013 6:10:02 AM
Dont be heartbroken over this! worse things happens when you sleep with your enemy !
 jlynn1955
Joined: 8/24/2012
Msg: 39
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Posted: 8/20/2013 5:49:56 PM
My ex was always wanting us to do a video. But, I knew he still had a video of him and his first wife and I told him NOT. A. CHANCE. I did eventually do some sexy picks--but I was clothed. When we split up I burned them

Anyway, I met a guy through a friend and he was always "flashing" me on the cell phone. He kept wanting me to reciprocate. I told him NOT. GONNA. HAPPEN. When he asked why not since he'd sent me some-though I'd never asked him to. All I said was "youtube". 'Oh, I wouldn't do that. you know I wouldn't". Well, no I don't know that at all. I just have too much common sense to do something like that. You never know when/if that person who "loves you more than anything" is going to turn in to Satan.

I just don't understand why people keep doing it and then get all boo-hooy when it shows up on the internet. I mean it's not like we don't constantly see the results of this happening all around us. Do you really need to set you arm on fire to believe that "yes, the stove is hot".
 jlynn1955
Joined: 8/24/2012
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Posted: 8/21/2013 5:31:24 PM
Felice..I wouldn't trust anyone to NOT do it if they got pissed off enough. That's why I didn't even do nude pics for my (then) husband. That and the fact that he had a video of him and his first wife having sex...
 jlynn1955
Joined: 8/24/2012
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Posted: 8/22/2013 4:03:34 PM
I don't recall-it was so long ago. I'm not sure if I stumbled across it or if he played it for me. Yes, it's quite possible he played it for me which is also a reason that I never let him make one of us. A good thing now that I'm out and #4 to be is in.

Sometimes his understanding of what is appropriate when it comes to ex wives, current wives, and future wives is lacking. He was always wanting to take me to Cancun-where he and #2 went for their honeymoon. He asked me for career advice for #4, thinking I didn't know who he was talking about.
 JoeBnD
Joined: 3/23/2012
Msg: 42
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Posted: 8/25/2013 8:00:26 PM
My ex contacts an attorney at the drop of a hat. Why would I give her an actual valid excuse to sue me? (And yes, I have the appropriate media to the thread's topic).
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