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 no_1_bby
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I have never seen something so "out there" as the man in the site I posted in terms of him wearing that thing 24/7 for 2 years straight!! HOLY SH*T! Who f*cked up HIS head in childhood is all I kept thinking!!!

Chastity devices are worn by both men and women.. it wasn't uncommon in the middle ages for a husband to lock up his wife to protect her, preventing others from raping her or from her sleeping with the enemy. It's probably more common now for a man to wear one. There are some lovely ones out there.. really there are.


I disagree.This is not just about having an "open relationship".Do you think it's fair for the wife to have as many lovers as she wants all while humiliating her husband and expecting him to go without sex,but "cleaning her up" after sex with other men?

Shouldn't matter what someone else's relationship looks like if it doesn't directly impact on your life.


Gross.Really.Not my thing.Nor would I have ANY respect for a man who willingly submit himself to that sort or degradation!

Really?? I'm not a fan of humiliation or degredation at all, but I love the idea of my partner licking me clean after being with another man. Also.. it's ok not to like something that others get off on.


This is 'sick' if you ask me and any man willing to be subjected to this sort of treatement isn't any man
I'd want around. This goes well beyond "whipped".

I think you're safe Hearton.

I used to read a blog (that's gone private at this time) that followed a woman and her male partner and their sexploits, including an incredibly loving cuckold relationship. HE initiated it with her, and as I recall there wasn't any degredation going on. She'd come home to him after seeing her bull and he'd help her get cleaned up, then they'd have a cuddle, talk about the night, and sleep. Sometimes have sex if she was still in the mood, so not a strict cuckhold relationship in the new context of it (where the man doesn't have sex with his female partner). It certainly was a lovely relationship and very enlightening to read about their dynamic. I'm sad she's made her blog by invite only.
 MakeUTingle
Joined: 5/8/2010
Msg: 27
Is there anybody else out there who thinks the cuckold lifestyle sounds so hot?
Posted: 3/5/2013 1:37:14 PM
It is not necessarily a "must-have" for me (as a submissive, I don't get to have too many of those)....but, I have to admit that I have long seen the strong appeal to being claimed in marriage by a cuckoldress.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
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Posted: 3/5/2013 7:06:09 PM

I disagree.This is not just about having an "open relationship".Do you think it's fair for the wife to have as many lovers as she wants all while humiliating her husband and expecting him to go without sex,but "cleaning her up"
after sex with other men? Gross.Really.Not my thing.Nor would I have ANY respect for a man who willingly submit himself to that sort or degradation!

This is 'sick' if you ask me and any man willing to be subjected to this sort of treatement isn't any man
I'd want around. This goes well beyond "whipped".


I didn't read the stupid thread. But ....

Most guys when they discover their wife has cheated, end up getting a divorce, then keep complaining bitterly about women for a long time.

So I made a joke about if many thought this was hot, then it would reduce divorce, but what do I care if someone one thinks it's hot. Lighten up, there is weird fetish for every taste, many weirder than this one.
 Hearton64
Joined: 12/18/2012
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Posted: 3/6/2013 4:09:11 AM

Most guys when they discover their wife has cheated, end up getting a divorce, then keep complaining bitterly about women for a long time.

So I made a joke about if many thought this was hot, then it would reduce divorce, but what do I care if someone one thinks it's hot. Lighten up, there is weird fetish for every taste, many weirder than this one.


I missed the "joke".I thought you were serious.

I personally don't care if someone wants what they want.I was simply reminding you that being a cuckold is ALOT different than a man who doesn't mind if his wife f*cks other guys.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
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Posted: 3/6/2013 5:59:12 AM

I personally don't care if someone wants what they want.I was simply reminding you that being a cuckold is ALOT different than a man who doesn't mind if his wife f*cks other guys.


But what I said was also true. It's not human nature to be Ok with this, although there are a few people conditioned to like things only 1% of the population would consider it acceptable. As long as it's legal, I don't really care what other people do.

I am not into not caring if my wife f*cks other men either. Meaning she would be kicked to the curb.

And while I don't really care what a casual GF does when she doesn't see me, I would rather not have an intimate discussion of details. Some people don't find that it acceptable for a BF / GF to see other people, for me long as we aren't yet in a monogamous relationship, what she does when she doesn't see me is up 2 her, whether we do or don't have a sexual relationship isn't relevant to my feelings about this. Of course I would continue to see other women in this type of relationship. Or not, it isn't like I have tons of free time to waste.
 sunsunsunandmoresun
Joined: 3/2/2013
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Posted: 3/6/2013 7:06:03 AM
Some men prefer a woman with an edge as opposed to a submissive , timid, quiet woman.

Some men REALLY like a woman with an edge to the point of role playing as a dominatrix.

Some men want the woman to actually BE dominating 24/7.

Some men want the woman to not only be dominating but take it to the extreme of cuckolding, etc, etc.

So, basically , cuckolding is taking the " sexy **** " personae to an extreme.

I'm sure a lot of guys picturing their demure woman wearing leather , acting ****y/dominating, etc might think "hmm, I like it when she acts like that - she's soooooooooo sexy ! "

Now to the q , does it sound hot ?

In some ways , yes.
However, it's one thing to fantasize about your SO behaving in a way that shows a different sexy side but the many risks involved in making it a reality .... man.... you'd have to REALLY want it bad and are probably thinking with the wrong head .... and the results ? std's , unwanted pregnancies, she leaves you for another man, people finding out and shunning you, etc

Seems like it would be wiser to just talk about it in bed and leave it at that.
 sunsunsunandmoresun
Joined: 3/2/2013
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Is there anybody else out there who thinks the cuckold lifestyle sounds so hot?
Posted: 3/6/2013 7:09:28 AM
Edit to above since I don't have the option to edit the original for some reason :
... those words blocked are " sexy bich " and acting " bichy/dominating "
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 3/6/2013 8:46:08 AM

Edit to above since I don't have the option to edit the original for some reason :
... those words blocked are " sexy bich " and acting " bichy/dominating "

You should have 15 minutes to edit your post. Unless that's changed recently and I missed the memo...
 Consensuality
Joined: 7/26/2007
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Posted: 3/6/2013 12:33:03 PM
It doesn't interest me but it doesn't bother me that others do it.
 Here4ForumsOnly
Joined: 1/2/2013
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Posted: 3/10/2013 6:33:05 PM
My girl refers to herself as being a slut. She loves to ****. And I truly love that about her, with my romantic background being exclusively populated with women who USED SEX AS A TOOL TO CONTROL MEN.

I'll choose a D&D FREE slut every single time!
 dbiggs69
Joined: 12/12/2010
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Posted: 3/15/2013 11:54:36 AM
Wow an open minded sista!
 davetherave66
Joined: 2/7/2012
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Posted: 4/19/2013 9:27:04 AM
Too many people are so quick to judge and label cuckolding as sick, twisted, etc, simply because they have no real understanding of it, which is a shame.

Fair enough if it doesn't turn you on, but that doesn't automatically make it evil. It would be a pretty boring world if we all liked the same things. I have a friend who is turned on intensely by women's feet, I've never understood exactly why, but I would never condemn him for his fetish.

I think there are many women who cuckolding would appeal to, but they are afraid to admit it for fear of being labelled a slut/cheater, or they are just completely unaware such a thing as cuckolding exists.

What I have noticed though, is if you go on the world's most popular porn site, xhamster, you will find in the female choice section(that is videos that have been 'liked' by female users) there are a large amount of cuckolding videos.

So clearly plenty of women do like cuckolding, but trying to get them to admit to it, will never be very easy.
 jlynn1955
Joined: 8/24/2012
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Posted: 4/19/2013 10:35:23 AM
The reason you are not getting many comments is because even if a person came on POF just for casual sex, it's unlikley the person came here looking for what you describe. I would think there would be some dating sites that are for people who are interested in the less "traditional" types of relationships. You might could get some people from a swingers site to go along with it. I don't know.
 63T
Joined: 5/28/2006
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Posted: 4/19/2013 11:58:09 AM
To overly simplify, my perspective on relationships as a whole is an experience/opportunity/desire to evolve in learning how to love unconditionally by learning about ourselves and our capabilities on many levels.

It is also an experience/opportunity/desire to learn about who we are NOT by discovering/learning our limitations, boundaries and tolerances. Integral in learning to love unconditionally.

Any union which provides an environment for multilevelled growth, stability, nurturing, support, caring, respect, etc is healthy and cherishable.

On the other hand, a relationship having at it's core, knowingly, the sole or significant intention/purpose of filling an endless void, leaves the participants open to abuse, manipulation, humiliation and erosion of self and ability to love, leaving participants in a state of stunted emotional growth and lack of direction or positive influence.

Interpret as you will.
 Somesingleguy1974
Joined: 11/22/2012
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Posted: 5/4/2013 10:19:25 AM
I've been the bull with other couples in the past and had a wonderful time with all of them. I could never see myself as a cuckold though, as I tend to be more possessive of my partners. Yet I also understand that there are other men who get turned on knowing their wife or girlfriend is with another man. Which is something that I have enjoyed providing for those couples.

There are different degrees of cuckolding from the basic she has sex with another man and he watches. To full on humiliation, degradation, and sissification. There is no right way or wrong way with this lifestyle. Just as there is no right or wrong way to have sex.
 musicismydrug533
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Posted: 6/8/2013 6:01:00 AM
I m actually seeking an awesome sects smart lady who feels this way lol. I l
Adore letting her be with others if she is getting satisfaction there is nothing hawter if u know anyone who likes this would love to chat ;)
 ellymyosotis
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Posted: 6/8/2013 6:27:09 AM
Some of the vids I watch are this but they are fantasy and not a line I could cross into reality
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
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Posted: 6/8/2013 9:23:16 AM
Sounds interesting but not my style. If I am with someone, I'm not interested in sleeping with other men. To me, sex is emotional when with someone. If I'm not with anyone at the time, I don't mind sleeping around (just not in the same period of time). I'm not vanilla in my mind (my thoughts about sex in general) but I conduct myself and operate very vanilla-ish.

I'd be open to a million possibilities with the right person.
 cansey87
Joined: 5/17/2013
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Posted: 6/8/2013 12:01:05 PM
I dated this other guy before who wanted me to do this, but I couldn't do it. thing is, he had a small weeny and wanted me to go out and have sex with other dudes with bigger ones and when we have sex want to know all about it and all the guys I was doing.. During sex one time, I ended up having to lie to him about having sex with this one guy and telling him every little detail about it so I can satisfy his fetish and he really seemed to enjoy it and it seemed to turn him on more. He didn't know I was lying though I told him afterward and he wasn't too pleased but yeaa I decided that wasn't for me so had to let him go.

Sex for most women involves feelings so we can't just go around having sex with anyone.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 6/8/2013 4:44:50 PM
I am a selfish p rick. I don't share. I don't want to share. If it requires a level of maturity to engage in this type of lifestyle, I do not have it. I do not want to have it. I'd rather be immature and selfish. I would like to be with a woman that is ALSO that selfish. One on one, and, well maybe a bit of role play, and anything is possible.
 jessebunnies
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Posted: 6/8/2013 6:56:31 PM
I don't see anything wrong with it personally. Cheating is by far much worse in my opinion. At least you have willing partners who define the rules and boundaries (they are not violated) . Cuckolding does not always involve sex with the other party. There are some couples who define their rules as the woman dates (usually a hot younger male/s, sometimes a racial element to it as well) while the slave waits at home doing certain defined activites, scrubbing floors in panties or locked in a cage forced to listen to his mistress arrive with her young male date. There are lots of different scenarios that can be played out that arrive at the same outcome which is worship of the mistress and humiliation of the slave. Sometimes domination involves no sex at all so it doesn't have to be this ewww gross they swapped body fluid things. It's all in what each couple defines as their boundaries and fantasies.

I've done some dom stuff in the past and I love it. More women should try it. They'd probably like it. Though I've never done cuckolding I wouldn't be against it at all.

As far where to find girls who are into that. I believe there are websites dedicated to that and also some where you can place an ad looking for a dom/mistress. You can hire a professional mistress though I've been told it's not the same thing. I doubt that women on POF are going to advertise that though sometimes by reading their profiles you might get a sense they might be into that or at least try it. You also might want to look in the 30+ age range. Most younger woman aren't into that stuff.
 seafoodandeatit
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Posted: 6/8/2013 7:13:14 PM
[I am a selfish p rick. I don't share. I don't want to share. If it requires a level of maturity to engage in this type of lifestyle, I do not have it. I do not want to have it. I'd rather be immature and selfish. I would like to be with a woman that is ALSO that selfish. One on one, and, well maybe a bit of role play, and anything is possible]

Looks like me and "Outmind" are the last ones left with this value?
I don't share nor would I. and for me to hang around she would have to have the same values.
maybe its my age or the times I grew up in?
 Debyduz_
Joined: 5/4/2012
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Posted: 6/9/2013 9:49:52 AM
Normal guy never having sex. Yeah that is hot. NOT
 no_1_bby
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Posted: 6/9/2013 2:34:03 PM

I am a selfish p rick. I don't share. I don't want to share. If it requires a level of maturity to engage in this type of lifestyle, I do not have it. I do not want to have it. I'd rather be immature and selfish. I would like to be with a woman that is ALSO that selfish. One on one, and, well maybe a bit of role play, and anything is possible

Wanting to monogamous isn't immature or selfish. It's simply just wanting to be with ONE person. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.


Looks like me and "Outmind" are the last ones left with this value?
I don't share nor would I. and for me to hang around she would have to have the same values.
maybe its my age or the times I grew up in?

Again..no one is telling you that you HAVE to be involved in a cuckold relationship. It's not for everyone, and that's ok.


Having been one (cuckold) and not known. No freaking way in hell would I want to engage in this kinda BS. Seriously what is wrong with you people?! Sounds like a set up to emotional torment on a level of well nuts...

I think you're missing the point that to be in a successful cuckold relationship, there is consent involved. From what you say here, there wasn't any. So while technically it could be cuckolding (as Bill Shakespeare uses it), denoting that you are being cheated on.. today's kinksters use it in a different way. Usually that means both parties are aware of the activities about to happen (wife sleeping with another man), and both want that to happen, or agree that it can. But always there is acknowledgement and consent.
 Caseyjones4
Joined: 8/26/2013
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Posted: 8/29/2013 7:37:51 AM
Sitting in a dark corner masturbating while somebody has dominant sex with my partner? That sounds like a nightmare to me!

I do have 3 sum fantasies, both WWM and MMW. For the MMW it would have to be with the right person because I am dominant. They would need to be more of a "prop" to do whatever I request (no humiliation or any of that stuff), yet I want them to have a bigger penis then myself so, yeah I guess that is unique.
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